"We just talked about how much we thought he was cute. Then when she asked him out the same day I was going ask him out, we sort of didn't talk to each other at first but decided that we should tell each other. We would then say if it was ok to go out with him."
--Erin, 13

"Me and my best friend had a crush on this really hot guy that just got done with a relationship with my best friend. She doesn't mind if one of us goes out with him because now she has a new boyfriend. Now my best friend is going out with him, but I don't really care because I have the biggest crush on someone else! The thing is, he used to like me, but now he doesn't anymore and I have done everything to try to get him back. Nothing works. What should I do?"
--Autumn, 13

"My used-to-be-best friend and I got in this huge fight. At that time I was with this guy named Brandon. When we ended our friendship 4ever, she started going for him to make me upset. She knows that he means a lot to me and she's just out to hurt me."
--Jenna

"Me and my best friend are in the same class and there is this one boy she likes and talks about to me (he is in the same class). He likes me but not her. She did not know that so I told her that I like him and he likes me too. She told me, 'That's ok, she doesn't like him anymore.' I told her he wanted to go out with me and she said I should go out with him. We are still friends and she got over him and now she has a boyfriend and they are in love. So that is the end of the story…bye."
--Jaritza, 13

"I am going out with this really cute guy and I think my friend likes him a little bit but every time I ask her about it, she always gets so mad at me and we end up fighting for a few days. Then one time, she lied to me saying that my boyfriend said that he liked her. Then when I asked him about it, he said no and that he didn't even like her like that. What should I do???"
--Tanya, 13

"We both thought he was hot and nothing was wrong with that. Sometimes it made the conversation even better when we both had something to say about our crush!"
--Nancy

"In those situations, I'd just like to kill my friend 'cause there is this girl in my class and I have a major crush on her! My friend won't admit to her or me that he loves her but I always admit my emotions. I don't let it get in the way of my friendship, though!"
--Hilly

"That problem has come up in my life. We both got in a fight, a really big one, too. Then the boy said that he couldn't like either of us, which made us madder at each other. Then I started being somebody I wasn't, which interested the boy. I was relieved that he only liked me for who I was being, not for who I was then. I knew he wasn't for me. So I was being a good friend and I told my friend that she could have the boy because I really don't like him. Apparently she went out and got herself a boyfriend because she had thought that me and this boy were going out. So in the end, me and my friend were back to being friends and the boy just had his loss over me and my friend."
--Shea, 12

"I've liked this boy for 3 years and he doesn't know it. He has everything a girl wants. A personality, brains, and he's the nicest boy ever. I wanted to tell him by e-mail but it doesn't work. I don't know how to tell him. What should I do?"
--Elizabeth, 11

"I have this crush. He is sooo cute. He used to like me but now he has a girlfriend. His name is Josh and I was scared to ask him to be my boyfriend so I just left it alone. What should I do???"
--DD, 10

"Hi, it's me again. The reason why I'm telling you this is because I can't really talk to my mom about this because I don't know how to. I really like this one guy at my school and I don't know how to tell him how I feel about him and ask if he feels the same about me. Everybody else that sees me talking to him is always saying that we make a great couple and my friends are always saying he likes me too because in a stupid way he always makes me laugh. Sometimes he'll be just stupid, but I really like him and I don't know how to tell him my real feelings for him. There is this guy (not the same guy that I'm crushing on) and he is in all my classes. He makes me laugh and I can talk to him. He always calls me ugly and makes fun of me and my braces. Like a girl should, I shot right back at him by calling him '4-eyes'. We talk and stand next to each other on the way to lunch. Do you think that I should go with the guy that I like or the guy that likes me?"
--Kaitlyn, 13

"I was in love with this boy named Leon until my squirmy little friend (wanna be friend) tried to be with him and get all close to him. I was like, 'I'm going to get him anyways' but she is still up to it. What shall I do?"
--Maria, 12

"I did have a friend that had the same crush on a guy but one day my friend asked if he liked me and I asked if he liked her and it turns out he didn't. He didn't like anyone except for a popular girl. Our hearts were broken but we moved on!!"
--Anne, 12

"When me and my friend had the crush on the same person I had to be jealous. When I got jealous, my friend got jealous too because another person was in love with my crush and my friend's crush. We got so mad that we broke up with our crushes."
--Linoshka, 9

"It happened to my two friends and I. We all liked this guy named Nick. He was a really sweet guy but my friend got asked out by him. Her name is Becky. When she is around him she thinks that she is so cool! I just say to myself that if she is going to act like that I'm NOT going to talk to her or hang around her anymore. So my friend and I were really mad at her for a while, but she got over it. I didn't so I won't be friends with her again until she changes her at-a-tude. I have never been treated this way before. I've always been a good friend. So girls out there that have a boyfriend, are your friends being left out? Go up to your friend and ask them. Don't think that they aren't asking, because you don't know for sure if they are. If they are, please don't just go and do it again to them. Maybe it is the best thing to say to your boyfriend that you're over."
--Carissa, 13

"Karine, Cassie, Zoe and me have a crush on this kid in our class named Jesse. WE know that he doesn't like Cassie, but she still likes him. Me and Karine think he likes us, but we don't tell the others. We think he likes me because his friend Brandon said Jesse liked me in front of him and then he blushed. We think he likes my friend because he's always telling me and her stuff."
--Temwa, 11

"My friend and I like the same guy! She has liked him before and he didn't like her. I can tell he really likes me because of the way he acts around me and he even starts blushing. My friend only likes him because he is cute. I see a lot more in him than that, though. My friend also likes a lot of other people. So would it be wrong to tell him how I feel about him? Don't think I am a bad friend or anything because I tried to get him to go out with her, but he doesn't like her."
--Kim, 13

"My best friend is friends with a really mean girl. I was talking to my friend one day and the subject came up and she said, 'Go away.' My friend didn't even say anything so I went up to her the next day and asked, 'Why are you so mean to me?' and nicely asked her to please stop. She just looked at me and said, 'You don't even know me .' So I said, 'I know you enough to know I did nothing to you and you were rude to me!' The girl still hasn't stopped."
--Kim, 13

"All the girls in my class like this boy. H is cute, funny, not that smart, and athletic. This girl says that she goes out with him and she said she didn't like getting in a fight over a boy and that this boy wasn't all that. All they do is play around. Then I went to ask him if they do anything and he said that she was boring and he was going to break up with her. Then I asked him if he wanted to go out with me. He said yes. Then everybody got mad at me because I asked him."
--Dominique, 12

"Me and my best friend have done that before. I dealt with it by just not saying anything to her about it because she knows that he would never leave me for her!"
--Chelsea, 12

"When my friend told me that, I was a little mad. Then I looked at it in a different way. I told her to go for it and that it didn't bother me a bit. We didn't want to lose each other."
--Gabrielle

"When me and my friend had a crush on the same boy, I told her that she could go out with him when I'm way over him. Now we're going out, so she has to wait!!!!!"
--Jennifer, 12

"I had a crush on this boy in my class and he had one on me. Then my best friend came along and started liking him too and he started liking her too. So we both liked him and he liked both of us. After some time, my best friend stopped liking him and now he just likes me and my best friend and I are still best friends!"
--Elizabeth, 12

"My friend Wendy likes this boy and so do I. What I did was I talked to her and we both thought that we could like different people."
--Amber, 9

"My best friend likes the same boy that I like and he likes her more than me. It hurts my feelings because everyone talks about him only liking her. I think friendship is MUCH better than liking a boy. Always remember that you should pick your friend over a boy!"
--Carli, 10

"I have a celebrity crush and I'm proud of it. I don't make little plans with him but I have fun. I have another crush but my cousin thinks dearly of my celeb crush even if I tell her there's NO hope. Is that cruel?"
--Taylor, 12

"I had a problem when my friend Danielle and I both liked the same boy. His name was David!! We used to get in huge fights but now I hate the guy!!"
--Sarah, 12

"My friend and I both had a crush on the same person and I told her about it. Then I went out with him. Then he dumped me and then went out with that friend of mine and then we got into a fight over this super hot boy that we both loved. Now we are friends again!!!!!!!!!!"
--Jordan, 11

"There is this guy that I have liked for 5 years and he liked me for three of those years. In the 5th grade he started to like another girl. At first I was really upset. Then I started hanging out with a new guy and I totally fell for him. Luckily, he fell for me too. Now we are going out and I love it but the guy I liked before has started liking me again. I don't like him anymore so what should I do???"
--Ashley, 11

"There's this one girl in my class. She likes the same kid I do and she is always trying to flirt with him but that's not even cool because he doesn't like her and she's not even pretty. I know the kid I have a crush on likes me but I don't have the courage to ask him out. What should I do? I sit beside this kid in class who I have a crush on. He's really cute and the weird thing is that his dad's a farmer. This kid who I sit by is like in love with John Deere tractors. He even bring s these little tractor magazines to school and all the girls flirt with him about how he likes John Deere tractors. Anyways I try to talk to him and he always flirts with me."
--Jacky, 10

"I was jealous and finally he asked me out and I said yes!"
--Sandra, 10

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