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"I had always had my period before or after something good...Like before a huge party or after a wedding. I would hate being a girl sometimes...But I know it is just part of life."
--Ashley

"I am in some pain."
--Kirsten, 10

"What I would say the toughest part of going through puberty is would be the acne and the peer punishment that you get. I know it seems bad and it can be, but how I deal with it is by using cleansers daily and washing my face two times a day and to ignore it and pretend I just don't have to deal with it. It helps me to just move on in life because there ARE more important things to worry about and to deal with. Plus, I¹m still a kid so I still have a lot more to think about and so you shouldn't worry about silly things like acne or peer punishment for it!"
--Mel, 12

"Puberty is great but not so great because you get cramps/and you always have to change your pad and more will continue later."
--Sara, 13

"WELLLLLLLL...The one that I think of the most is the breasts and the crushes..."
--Pat, 10

"My period. My friends started and know what I¹m going through. But it¹s kinda cool."
--Brooklynn, 12

"Hey everyone! I¹m here again! (go figure...) lol. Dear HAPPY, Don't worry! You're not too short! I¹m going into 7th, and I¹m only 4' 9"! A lot of kids are taller than me. (again, go figure...) Everyone grows at different paces. Hope this Helps! Dear Guitarfreak, All this is a part of female puberty. We all go through it eventually! I know how you feel about changing in front of everyone. I have to do the same. What I did was either use a stall, use my towel, or change FAST! But then one day I realized- "Hey, we all are the same, and if I change fast like everyone else, no one will notice!" And guess what? It worked! So, we're all scared of our period, but there¹s really nothing to be scared about! The first time you have it, you say to yourself, "Wait, that¹s it?" Hope this Helps! Dear Miles, Well, there are lots of ways to earn some extra cash! You could start doing more chores around your house, and talk to your parents about paying you a little more for this. Also, you could do some work for people around your neighborhood! Like rake leaves for the people next door. Or babysit for someone while they go out. For more ideas, read the Money section on the side bar menu, under Emotions. Hope this helps! Dear Anonymous 12, this may mean you are starting puberty. Not necessarily your period, but you might. I think you should talk to your mom, or another trusted woman about this. Hope this Helps! Dear Ella, Yes, you are 'normal'. Everyone grows at different rates. You never know, you may not have even started puberty yet, but I doubt it. Soon enough, you will start to grow. It usually starts between ages 8-13. Sometimes, it starts at 14 for some girls, and usually ends between the ages of 15-17. Or, like I said, maybe later or sooner. Hope this Helps! Dear Emma, There isn't really a way to GROW breasts, they kinda grow by themselves. Some girls think there are special foods or exercise practices that can make their breasts bigger, but you can't. Breasts are made out of mostly fatty tissue and milk ducts, so there are no muscles to flex. PLEASE ignore advertisements for drugs, diets, or gadgets that claim to increase your cup size-these are just flat-out lies! Hope this Helps! Well, that¹s all for now! Keep wringing with your questions and I'll keep answering! Hope this Helps! <3!"
--Salt-water-girl, 12

"This is to IML well some of us here are young and well I don't know the signs of if I¹m close to getting my period or not some people tell me it depends on weight and some people say it depends when your mom got her period...Well I just want to know what are the signs of getting a period and does it depend on weight or family genes?"
--Embarresedgirl

"I¹m Really short. : (."
--Ivy, 12

"Well I¹m 13 and I¹m really short for my age. I¹m flat chested and I haven¹t got puberty at all. I really hate being a late bloomer."
--Heather, 13

"Am so embarrassed to tell my dad because when he heard I have it he his head turn security to protective units! And he gets mad when I get to close to a boy."
--Ashley, 10

"Will my voice change like boys? will I bleed during class? will everyone laugh at me?"
--Kyle, 10

"Hey everyone. I¹m here again! I¹m running out of things to say when I start my letter, so sorry! Lol! Dear Chelsea, Well, this whitish 'gunk' in your underpants is called "Discharge". You sometimes have this before you get close to your period, or around the time of it. So, you may be close to it. Talk to your mom or another trusted adult woman. You may want to keep a pad or two and possibly a change of underwear with you when you go out, incase you have it in public, you can change. Hope this Helps! Dear Lexie, Don't worry! Everyone develops at different rates, and soon enough you will catch up to your friends. And even if you don't, it's not a race. Hope this Helps! P. S. - Trust me, you DON'T want your period! ; - ) Dear Kiana, Just because your friends are "Thin" doesn't mean your "Fat"! Again, everyone develops differently! One of the best ways to make your self feel bad is to come pare yourself to others during puberty! When you finish puberty, you¹re in your adult stage, and your done growing! In between, you body will take on all different shapes and sizes before it settles into its adult stage. This means growing up, out, in, and everything else! So what you think you are now, could change in the very near future! Hope this Helps! Dear Bryony, How much are we talking, here? If you mean as much discharge as you get blood...You should talk to someone. But very little when you start is very normal, and sometimes gets more and more as you go on. (just like blood). But, if you really feel you have too much, please talk to your doctor. Hope this Helps! P. S. - If your discharge is ever a greenish color, or has a strong odor, or if your "Area" feels itchy or swollen, see your doctor right away. You may have an infection. Normal discharge is usually clear or whitish, and has very little or no smell. Dear Elyssa, What your experiencing is called PMS- which is short for premenstrual syndrome. Don't be afraid! PMS isn't an illness or a disease, just a natural part of your period. PMS is caused by hormones- chemicals released into your body at this time. PMS can be emotional and/or physical. (ex. - mood swings and/or cramps. ) Pay close attention to these, because these are usually signs of your period coming close, leaving, or happening. Hope this Helps! Dear Cindy, Don't worry! Take a deep breath, relax, and let your body do the work! Sometimes, your body may wait till the last minute to grow! All of a sudden, you may see yourself growing, developing, and going through major changes very soon! Hope this Helps! Well everyone, a LOT of people asked questions this week and I have to say thank you sooooo much! For a while no one was asking! So, thank you, and keep those letters comin! Hope this Helps! <3!"
--Salt-water-girl, 12

"Hi Chelsea! I got my first period about six months ago. Before I got it, I had whitish discharge in my underwear for about two years (it started right before my 11th birthday, when my breasts and pubic hair had begun developing). It was thin and white like that for about a year, and I didn't worry about it. Around my 12th birthday, it got thicker and more yellowish, and I started wearing panty liners daily to absorb it because otherwise it felt wet. Right before I got my first period, which was about two months before my 13th birthday, it was thicker. I still have yellowish discharge all the time when I don't have my period. Ask your mom when she got her first period. That's probably about when you'll get yours. My mom told me she got hers during the winter of 7th grade, and sure enough, that's when I got mine! Lexie, you do NOT want your period. Trust me. I hate it. I absolutely hate it. It makes me incredibly moody, and maxi pads are EXTREMELY uncomfortable. Plus, my periods are long, they last about a week, and 5 out of the 7 days are heavy and I have to wear maxi pads."
--Erika, 13

"Hormones, and your period."
--Sammy

"I think the toughest thing about puberty is telling your parents you are growing up. I try to tell my parents that I'll always love them no matter what and that I'll always be their "Special kiddo". I always tell my mom if I notice changes and I remember even they went through it."
--Moll, 13

"Hi! I am really worried I will go through puberty, when my mom doesn't know I know what it is. She never told me about it and never let me go to the school "Talks" about it. I am scared if my period will start during school or anywhere else. And I already stared growing armpit hair, pubic hair and developing breasts! I am really worried! Thanks for your help!"
--Katy, 11

"All my friends have gotten their period. I mean they are LITTLE, in height, breast size, they are quite immature. Everybody who is my size got theirs a long time ago. When we talk about this subject in health I feel left out b/c I¹m the only one w/o a period. HELP!"
--Lay, 13

"Hi, I¹m Gracie my breasts have already grown in and I think I¹m ready for a bra but the problem is I only live with my dad and I¹m really nervous to ask him if I can get one. Help me!"
--Gracie, 10

"I¹m 10 years old but I don¹t have a bra yet and I think I really need one but the problem is I only live with my dad and I¹m just afraid that he won¹t understand."
--Gracie, 10

"I¹ve gotten all kinds of cramps down near the lower part of my back is that a clue that I¹m going to get my period soon?"
--Gracie, 10

"In the beginning, I was pretty worried about what was happening to me. I have breasts, and I am expecting my period soon. But, once you know the facts, it isn't too scary. At least you know what is going on in your body. It actually helps."
--Sydney, 12

"How can I determine when my periods are? I started on June 15th and it went on for 5 days...Help?"
--Amelia, 12

"The worst part of puberty would probably be the acne some people have a lot and others have none...It is hard to get rid of and a lot of peoples self esteem gets crushed because they are made fun of all the time."
--Miranda

"You get teenage spots (bumps)."
--Abigail, 13

"Hey home girls have more things to develop than boys."
--Ashley, 12

"I got my period and I am only 9! Yikes! I scared me when I saw it..."
--Lucy, 9

"Managing new hygiene stuff like deodorant, pads etc. And remembering to put it on at first."
--Devonna, 10

"How do you know when you'll get your period?"
--Emma, 11

"I'm a big girl!"
--ARIANNA

"Here's my first period story I had just gotten back from camp it was at the beginning of 5th grade that we went to camp so I wiped and there it was I was so glad it hadn't happened at camp since I didn't bring pads."
--Des, 12

"I sometimes sweat (gross) A LOT. My mom is a GREAT person to talk to. She helps me get through everything! She's awesome!"
--Kyla, 10

"The toughest part is talking about it with your parents. I only talk to my mom and my sisters about periods and when your one of 8 kids it's hard to find time to just talk about puberty."
--Volleyballgal, 13

"Why do girls develop more than boys."
--Angel, 12

"Dear period when are you coming to ruin my life?"
--Shanna, 11

"All the mood swings."
--Anonymous

"The hardest part of puberty to me is the hair and period."
--Shouldn't matter, 11

"To me the hardest part about going through puberty is the changes that your body is going to go through. There are a lot of changes that your body is going to go through that you won't have any control over. Your body is just getting ride of things that you may not need and storing parts to your body that will enhance your adult ability, but don't worry puberty works at different levels for different people. For example I started my period when I was just 9 years old at first I didn't know what the heck was going on so I just through my underwear away because I though I was going to get in trouble, but when my mom found out she talked to me, and told me I was being a young women at first I was like but I'm 9, and she warned me that boys would start looking at me differently and they did, but I learned to keep my head in the books and focus on my school work, and figured boys would be there long after my first period and they were. I will be the first one to tell any little girl or little boy that is starting puberty to wait because if you wait they be there long after you have started puberty."
--Tee

"Why do my breast hurt while growing?"
--Katey, 11

"Hi, ya'll. I turned 13 now, but I'm still the same old Taylor! Guitarfreak, 9. You may have pubic hair, but you most likely will not get a period any time soon. By the way, you aren't quite ready for mood swings. Probably something is bothering you, but mood swings are part of PMS..."
--Taylor, 13

"Emma, 10: There is no way to slow down or speed up the growth of your breasts. You will start changing, but at your own pace. I know right now you want them, but when you first get them they hurt, and you might be a bit miserable. Auroralynn, NO! That is NOT what makes you pregnant! EVER! It's impossible. Ask your mom how you REALLY get pregnant. If you like a boy a lot, and he knows you like him, go ahead and kiss him! It's safe!"
--Taylor, 13

"I don't really like it. Because I get emotional and stressed."
--Sarah, 10

"I think the hardest part is when you have all the signs of your period coming soon but it hasn't started. When I was going through that stage I almost pulled a pad out with my money at the cashiers counter *the worker was a boy* luckily he didn't see it. Also another thing that is hard is telling your mom you need a bra or pads or something personal."
--U don't need to know

"I'm actually not that worried about leaks at school now because I just realized my school uniform has burgundy *dark red* plaid skirts! I haven't started but It's coming soon, I have all the signs *cramps, mood swings, discharge, etc. *."
--Anna R., 11

"I need a bra and I need to shave. I don't know how to ask my mom. Please tell me effective methods. SOON! Even my friends tease me about my legs."
--DESPERATE, 12

"Hey I'm Chelsea and I already have pubic hair, breasts, and armpit hair but still no period and all this month I have been getting whitish gunk in my underpants. Am I close to starting my period? Please help asap! Thanks."
--Chelsea, 10

"Problem met by boy or girl during puberty stage."
--Nannay, 12

"D0t, I do have some advice. I started wearing a bra at age 8. If that sports bra is itchy, get another one that's more comfortable. I like padded bras due to the extra support. Some girls like half-shirts bras. Just get whatever is comfortable."
--Taylor, 12

"Hey everyone could someone please help me? I have big breasts armpit hair, and pubic hair and still NO period am I close to starting?"
--Chelsea, 10

"I am so flat I want bigger breasts because out of all my friends I the only one without breasts I mean there really small help me please I wear a sports bra help me I already shave my legs and I really want my period I'm the only one with out these things omg omg omg!"
--Lexie, 12

"Well the toughest part is growing big. All my friends are very skinny. Does that make me fat?"
--Kiana, 10

"I have started my period and get quite a lot of discharge is this normal?"
--Bryony, 12

"I'm feeling weird. Sometimes I get stomach cramps. What does it mean?"
--Elyssa, 9

"Hey IML: Could you please try to make the comments come up faster on the website because I'm just worried that some of the girls that have written saying that they just got their 1st period need help and it takes a few weeks for the comments to come up so they might not be able to get the advice they need in time! Thanks.....X."
--Aoife: -), 11

Message from IML: Hi Aoife! Actually, we post new comments every Monday and Thursday, so your advice shouldn't take more than 3-4 to show up. Later this summer we'll be launching a brand spanking NEW system where comments will get approved and posted within 24-48 hours! Hang in there and things will get better on IML!

"Well, I think the toughest part of going through puberty is that sometimes your parents don't let you do certain stuff like shaving or wearing a bra! Like I wear a bra like a real one (32A size) But my mom won't let me shave yet! But I have the hairiest legs in the 5th grade and my mom said the VERY last day of 5th grade I can start! And I just finished 4th grade! And it's also hard to have people staring at my larger breasts and really hairy legs, but they DON'T shave OR weaar a bra! So they laugh at me and my development. So good luck guys with shaving wearing a bra and getting your period, which I will get my period when I'm 12 Ôcause that's when everyone in my family got it! Thanks <3."
--Rebecca, 10

"Omg, this is so funny when I first got a bra when I was 10 I started crying cu it was so uncomfortable! LOL I was like I have 2 wear this 4 the rest of my life?!?!? Total drama queen! But now I cant even tell that I'm wearing one!"
--Kristen, 12

"Well let's see, I really want my period. Anyway, getting mad, then sad, then happy, then surprised, then normal, then mad again...The mood swings really stink. Also, all of a sudden I want to have someone to crush on. I mean I think one dude has a crush on me but he happens to be THE ugliest dude in the entire school! Well all the boys are ugly in my school. I mean little kids are cute. But not the older ones."
--Hannah, 11

"I can't believe I told my mom about my period! I finally did! Thank you all and thanks IML! I'm so happy! --Jacoby Ellsbury's girlfriend."
--Madi : -), 12

"I think the hardest part of puberty is the emotions because when I was 10 I would just get over something I dislike, but now I'm 11 and I'll start crying. It is hard to get over something. The way I deal with it is to get away from everybody."
--L. E., 11

"Scary."
--Lauren, 8

"I started "Developing at the age of 10 and now I am a month away from being 13 and I have grown like 5 centimeters! Why is it taking so long for me 2 develop?!?!?!"
--Cindy, 12

"Auroralynn, just by kissing a boy when you have your period doesn't get you pregnant. There's much more to it, and you'll learn when you're older. But still, I think kissing at 11 is kind of stupid. I mean seriously, you're still kids, so enjoy it while it lasts."
--Jessie

"Jodie- The reason we have puberty is to make our bodies capable of reproduction. So basically, we go through puberty to be able to have babies someday. It may feel like a pain in the butt now, but it will be worth it when we're older."
--Jessie

"Paris- You're ten yrs. old and you're 3'9 and weigh 76lbs! I'm 12, and I'm 5'4, and I only weigh about 85lbs! My ten yr. Old sister is 4'7 and weighs 74. But still, I think 76 lbs is not tiny for 3'9."
--Soccerpal, 12

"I'm jumping on the female bandwagon and going with my period, or menstruation as the toughest part of puberty. Actually, I'm on my second one as we speak [type]. I have a plethora of reasons. PMS. Now those are three letters that I hate to see together. Cramps, headaches, mood swings...Yeah, self-explanatory. Also the very menstrual blood itself is fairly annoying. Since this is only my second experience, I have not developed many ways to deal with it, besides, of course, pads [and/or tampons for others]. Other than that, I just tell myself to carry on, and that this is a normal part of growing up."
--Emily, 11

"I don't think about it."
--Rolanda

"Hey Justin 12: did u actually mean 5 foot 7 or 4 foot 7 because isn't 5 7 kinda tall for a 6th grader? that's what I think I mean I'm going into 8th grade and I'm barely 5 foot am I too short?"
--HAPPY: D, 12

"I'm worried I'm gonna get my period but my mom said I will get it when I'm either 12 or 14 'cuz she got it when she wuz 13 and I have some pubic hair which is REALLY awkward @ camp where I have 2 get changed in front of 16 other girls and I have mood swings and am partly depressed one day then happy the next second. PLEEZ HELP ME!"
--Guitarfreak =), 9

"I've started shaving, and I'm saving up for the save-a-blade. Any ways to make the money?"
--Miles, 8

"I have been having cramps in my lower stomach, does that mean I'm going 2 start my period soon? and I have hair "Down there" and under my arms, and my breasts feel swollen. And I have whitish discharge in my underwear, AND I kinda get little pee spots in my underwear! I feel all weird about talking 2 my mom. Can some1 PLEASE help me!"
--Anonymous, 12

"I know this is a stupid question but what is erections!?"
--Anonymous, 12

Message from IML: Please check out our section on Puberty to learn all about erections and other "guy stuff"!

"I am 12 years old and I. Well, lets just say I'm FLAT. I have no breasts. I have hair down there and whatever. Can someone tell me if I'm 'normal'?"
--Ella, 12

"Hey...Here I am again...I don't come here often, but I'm here. Lol. Dear Auroralynn, 11 I see you have 2 letters, so ill respond to both of them. I think you should really talk to you mom about this. Tell her how much it would mean to you if you could start shaving. If she says no, tell her your growing up and your hair is really taking a growth spurt. She'll most likely understand. As to your other letter, NO! Under no circumstances is this true. There is a way you get pregnant- and trust me- that's not it. Well, I hope this helps! Dear Natasha, 10 I'm glad you asked. You period is an extremely private thing. If you feel better keeping your period on the very DL, please do. This is also another way of preventing anyone else from knowing. But, if you really trust your friend, feel free to. Just know- I know from experience- telling someone, even your BFF, a secret, ANYONE can find out. Someone could be listening and you may not know it. So, if you choose to, make sure you in very private. Hope this Helps! Dear Embarrassed, 10 Well, there are a lot of things. Especially the fact that you were wearing this color underwear. It could've been something with the washer at home, OR it could be "It". When you get it, it doesn't necessarily come out in the toilet all the time. It could have just come into your underwear without you knowing. I think you should talk to your mom about it. Hope this helps! NOTE~ If you want more info about period and growing (for girls) I suggest looking at the book "The Care And Keeping Of You". It's an American Girl book all about that. I use it when I write here, to check and find out stuff. Hope I help everyone! <3."
--Salt-water-girl, 12

"The toughest part of puberty for me is when ur breasts start growing and everyone makes a big deal, plus people start looking (the boys! )."
--Natalie, 11

"Well the toughest part is growing breast. My breast are kinda small so I wear padded bra's. Every girl in my class is 36B and 30C. I'm only a 34B and I can't wait till I get to a 36B. I feel so left out some times so padded bra's make me look bigger and no one knows, so I wear the ones that are padded but have no wire so they seem natural!"
--Janell, 11

"I think it was getting a bra with my mom I have no clue why but I was terrified of being seen."
--Marina, 11

"OMG! I was so scared when I first started growing breasts! Then when I asked my mom about it she told me that I was finally going into puberty. But then I learned that it was the right time for it."
--Rabina, 10

"How do grow breasts? People I know have them."
--Emma, 10

"A couple of days a go I went to a water park and guess what my period was on. So I had to go on all the fun rides and playing around with my friends with a tampon on. Can you say UNCOMFORABLE..."
--Jasmine, 13

"I think the toughest part about puberty is probably telling your parents that you just had your period. (especially telling your dad! )."
--Camille, 10

"There's always that pad "Shape" that would be on your butt when you wear pants. Guys sometimes know somehow. AND, during your period...Many girls leak, and it is gross with that big red dot on your butt for everybody to see! Most of the time you don't know if you leaked, so always check your butt."
--Hannah

"You don't get your period till like 13 14 15 and don't be afraid to ask your mom this and other questions about puberty likes about your chest."
--Vanessa, 11

"How do I know that I in the puberty age."
--Quarnain B, 11

"Hey IML I know many people have suggested this already but I really don't see any change. I was hoping that maybe you guys could have one section for girls and another for boys. I don't want to sound like I'm complaining but it's kinda weird that guys know that some of us have our periods and that they have their erections and stuff so please can you make this as soon as possible. Thanks LUV YA IML."
--HAPPY: D, 12

Message from IML: We are working on it! The whole You Said It system will be a little different this summer so when we switch over, we will have two separate boards for Puberty (one for boys, one for girls).

"My breasts aren't very big and I wish they were bigger I'm in a swim team I hope my period doesn't happen there!"
--Emma, 10

"Embarrassed, 10, It sounds like you got your period. When you get your period, you do not actually "Pee" blood. It just sorta of comes out. Try to talk to a trusted adult on what happened and they can help you out more."
--Pop

"Auroralynn, 11, I don't think that is true, I mean kissing doesn't do anything. I really hope that isn't true 'cuz I kissed a guy and I have my period lol! --Jacoby Ellsbury's Girlfriend."
--Madi : -), 12

"D0t123, 11, yes I do have advice. Don't think about it. It is a good thing you got a sports bra they are best to start with I think. But if u don't think about it a lot you will really not feel it as much. Hope this helps. Try putting lotion where u wanna scratch. --Jacoby Ellburys Girlfriend."
--Aka: Madi : -), 12

"What do I do in the case of abuse?"
--35492, 10

Message from IML: If someone is abusing you, please tell a trusted adult about it right away, such as a parent, relative, teacher, or school counselor! If you don't feel you can do that, please call one of the numbers listed on our page. Good luck!

"Why was the video disturbing Lars?"
--Olga, 8

"Dear Auroralynn- You will not get pregnant by kissing a guy. Talk to an adult for more information."
--Becca, 13

"I believe in all of you! Remember, It ok to feel sad! There is ALWAYS hope! Good luck I say to you, my friends! Good Luck I say to you!"
--McKayla, 13

"Well gee I don't know I am 13 and I haven't started anything or anywhere I am just a normal kid living a normal life and I don't need to worry about anything. So you 9 year olds move on with your life after years of waiting you finally just get bored with it so enjoy your young innocent lives while you have it. Have a great life you young skalliewaggers!"
--Becca

"Auroalynn, No you wont get pregnant if you're on your period and you kiss a guy."
--Someone, 11

"Hello pplz! Sakura here! Dear Auroralynn, 11: I know you're eleven, and I'm eleven too. But I really think you're too young to kiss a guy. And I don't think that's true, I mean the period thing. My point is, don't worry about kissing a guy. And the other thing. Don't pay attention to what your friends think. Pubic hair is perfectly normal. And moms are there to help you. She's been through puberty. You can ask her. She'll understand. She's probably been through it too. Hope this helps! Dear Natasha, 10: Think. Do you want to tell your friend? If you do want to tell her, if she thinks it's strange, that's her problem. If she doesn't, fine. Don't worry about what she thinks. It's NORMAL. Every girl goes through puberty. You're not alone."
--Sakura, 11

"You want more privacy."
--Hannah

"When puberty never happened I used to have nicest friends but when my breasts came, my friends think that I'm too cool for them and said that I can hang out with the cool girls. What should I do?"
--Ada, 13

"Well so far it is mood swings. Unlike other ppl. I want bigger breasts ( I am 11 and I am soo flat. ) and I want curves and I really want my period. I already shave my legs (yay). I am not sure if I have discharge...It is a yellow color. By the way, how do boys go through puberty?"
--April, 11

"At One Point Everyone Will Go Through The Same Stage Just At Different Times. Sit Back And Watch Your Body Go To Work. It Doesn't Mean You Aren't Normal To Start Your Breasts And Period Really Early Or Just Really Late. It's At Different Times And No-One Should Make Fun Of You 'cause At One Point It Will Happen To Them. Just Smile ( : x."
--Tiffany Babe <3

"Auroralynn don't worry my friends made fun of me to they called me a bear it's fine just ask ur mom when ur alone oh and if u have ur period and u kiss a guy u will NOT get pregnant that's impossible trust me."
--Jess, 11

"Omg I know people I can't my old jeans over my stupid hips it's annoying."
--Jess, 11

"My penis is growing hair and I'm so embarrassed to tell my parents about my erections."
--Michael, 12

"Is growing hair down there...I was really freaked out. When I told my nanny she laughed. The kind of laugh that says oh my gosh. I can't believe that! So she told me when I was about 8. I will never forget it...Also going through my period was really hard. I thought I could die. But I learned when the time is right I had it and by that time I learned to accept it."
--Danielle, 10

"It's embarrassing when my parents make my sister and I sit down and talk about what's going on "Inside us"."
--Ryan, 13

"Hey Madison 11: I just wanted to tell u that emo is just a short word for emotional. When someone is emo people refer them as to people who hurt themselves. Ur just 11 so if u don't know what "hurting" means then ur too young and not ready to know. Hope I helped!"
--HAPPY: D, 12

"I do not want aunt flo to visit me any time soon!"
--Battygirl100, 12

"Well like the hardest part of puberty is the annoying erections...Uh heh yea."
--Kogeyniko, 11

"Derek: Thanks, I needed that. I'm just beginning to go through the early stages, and I'm wondering, how do I tell my dad so he can give me advice?"
--Anonymous Boy, 12

"I hate that I had to tell my mom about my period."
--Allie

"Bella, 9, I hate to tell u this but that reddish brownish stuff probably is ur period. And I know plenty of girls who started at 9. --Jacoby Ellsbury's Girlfriend."
--Aka: Madi : -), 12

"I find puberty very difficult because I was an "early bloomer". I'm 5'9, have a d cup bra and got my period at 10! It's really gross because guys in COLLEGE think I'm older and hit on me. I wish I was normal!"
--Maggi, 12

"I think puberty is really hard because how my penis is getting bigger and me pubic hair is growing and how my voice is changing. I really don't like it when my penis is growing."
--Joshua, 12

"I have a VERY IMPORTANT question, when you get discharge, should u keep it there, or wipe it up? Yes, it's 6/24/08. I already wiped it up but...As you know this is my first time so I'm not sure what to do. PPPLLLLLEEEEEAAAAASSSSSE HELLP ME!"
--CTBcutie, 9

"I am 12 years old and I am 5foot 7 and I want to get taller before I start grade 6. Because I am going to be the least tallest student before I start middle school."
--Justin, 12

"Puberty is when your body is changing in to your ADULT form. Yeah sure you may think it's GROSS but it's just part of MOTHER NATURE and how we GROW UP and MATURE. (That's my DEFINTION of PUBERTY! )."
--Cindy, 12

"Don't girl's know when they start PUBERTY when there PERIOD starts? The same for boy's but no PERIOD it's when their VOICES CHANGE?"
--Candy, 10

"I haven't got my period but when my mom sat me down and talked to me about it was really awkward."
--Hannah, 9

"The toughest part about puberty is the zits! I started going through puberty when I was ten, but the pimples are getting worse and worse! My mom buys some Clearskin from Avon. It is too weak for my skin. Plus I have all this pubic hair that shows thru a swimsuit. I haven't gotten my period thank god. My breasts are huge 36B in women's. I feel like my body hates me."
--Grace, 12

"I just started my period in April. It was hard, even when my mom let me stay home. But it will get better. You'll get used to it. : ] <33."
--Ally, 11

"I just ended the 5th grade and the video all 5th graders had to watch was disturbing."
--Lars, 11

"My leg hairs are really long and even my friends make fun of them! I don't know how to tell my mom and if she says no, how do I convince her? HELP!"
--Auroralynn, 11

"I heard that if you had your period already, then you kiss a guy, you'll get pregnant. Is this true? That is why I'm afraid to kiss a boy. Someone tell me!"
--Auroralynn, 11

"I hate looking in the mirror and seeing my breasts! But God made them so that means they are good!"
--Jeanna, 9

"I don't like when my voice cracks. It's very embarrassing in front of people."
--Jeffrey, 12

"I got my period already. But I am not sure if I should tell my bff 'cuz I don't know what she will say. What should I do?"
--Natasha, 10

"I think the toughest part is that you can't wear the cute clothes you like from the kids section anymore because they don't fit with your breasts and your stupid hips! And I am getting hairy in places I don't want to be! Like armpits seesh! I deal with it by just saying "God created me a special way, just accept who you are!"
--Caylee, 12

"Well, I haven't gone all the way through puberty yet, but I am going to say that for girls, discharge for the time before your first period is a HUGE pain in the but."
--Alysha, 11

"Cora, no offence but I really don't think you should be telling 10 year olds they are to young. They really aren't. I started when I was ten and I'm not over weight at all. People call me skinny. So no offence I just don't want some 10 year old to read that and think something is wrong with them if they start. Sorry. I really just don't want any hurt feelings. I totally don't want u to feel offended, and I also understand that it could have been I typo or something, but plz I'm trying to keep things right, it's ok if u start at 10."
--Madi : -), 12

"Anonymous, 13, I went 1 and a 1/2 years with out telling my mom so here is my trick, if she is brushing her teeth or concentrating on something else but can hear u just go in and blurt out "I just got my period." if u really don't think about it, it works so well. I hope this helps!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Was wearing hot pink undies today, not sure if my period was here or not. Got a darker patch of a redy-pinky stuff on my undies, but wasn't peeing blood. What happened!"
--Embarrassed, 10

"I've been wearing a bra for 4-5 months now, and I'm a size 32aa, but if I like fall on the ground. They are REALLY painful!"
--Rebecca, 10

"My doctor said that I might have my puberty in like, two or three months. I'm so scared. Can some one fill me in on what to do when I get it!"
--Elyse, 10

"Emo is short for emotional it's a bit like goth. I um kinda used to be emo I wore black eye shadow and eye liner."
--Lauren, 12

"I got my period in like January and it was like that for a week then it stopped and it didn't come back until like the end of may. Uhhh what happened? My health teacher said her aunt or someone was like that and she had to get surgery because something was slowed down with her ovaries or something."
--Anonymous, 12

"Madison emo is when some one is like punk and goth mixed together and some emo's express themselves with self harming which they should not do but do it anyways in anguish hope this helps."
--Keonna, 10

"I think that the acne and growing is the worst because it makes you just wanna not go through puberty."
--Lupe, 11

"Dear fellow people: I just had my period for like the 4th time, and for the first time, I experienced cramps. I hope that doesn't happen as bad next time. PS: DON'T want your period. It's the worst!"
--Meshelle, 11

"I just got a bra and it itches like crazy! But I'm getting used to it. It's a sports bra. Got any advice for first time bra wearers?"
--D0t123, 11

"U will know ur going to having periods when you find red spots in ur underwear."
--Robin, 13

"I think that the hardest part of puberty is that you feel like nobody gets you like understand ya know?"
--Keonna, 10

"When I first started puberty like a month ago I was to embarrassed to tell my parent but they understand. It was kinda embarrassing when she started running out to get pads."
--SARA, 12

"What happens to your hair when you have puberty? And why do you have puberty?"
--Jodie, 10

"The toughest is keeping bff's."
--Hannah, 12

"Lauren, 10, ok, first I don't know why these girls are in stage 3 at 10, that (don't tell them this) but it might be unhealthy. I was flat at 10 also. Then wow I'm 12 and I'm just going in to stage three. If they tease u just change the subject. She if the get the hint after a while. If they don't and they are teasing you still just say something like "Omg I cant believe u. Why would u care how big my chest is? I tell u something, I'm slender. And someday soon I'm gonna be slender AND beautiful. So why are u doing this?" and just roll ur eyes. Don't scream it, but say it. They need to know, if they are smart they will understand. And u are lucky that u don't have ur period. They aren't that fun. But I understand why u might want it. I knew these girls that ALWAYS talked about sex stuff, and I couldn't tell them I had my period 'cuz I hadn't told my mom so they never let me become their friends 'cuz they thought I couldn't talk about the stuff they wanted to. I hope this helps if u have anything else u wanna know just ask! I."
--Aka: Madi : -)

"The hardest part is periods because the blood!"
--Sophie, 10

"Plz help us were having our period and no one is with us there all away and are pads are gone to help plz!"
--Gabby&cc, 9

"It all stinks, but everyone goes through it. I think going through puberty is much harder for girls though. Periods stink! If you don't have it [yet] be glad! I don't know why you would want it. Also, having big breasts is not that great [trust me]. Mine are big, && I wish they weren't. I hate having attention [to that degree] drawn to myself. Guys notice...&& it's weird..."
--Anonymous, 12

"Period! Omg for the first time I can't handle it! Eek!"
--Anonymous

"Puberty's tough. Even more for girls. Don't be scared though. Be cautioned though for feeling changes. Don't let it get you worried. I already been though it though."
--Haley, 9

"Period to much blood cramps bloating mood swings it makes me want to SCREAM!"
--Aiyanna

"Madcow: I agree. =)."
--Anonymous, 12

"It's really nasty but after a while u get use to it and I hate it when I get really sad or sensitive an I don't even have a reason why. And the worst part is bra shopping with my mom 'cause I'm really embarrassed to go shopping with her when it comes to those kinds of things. So now whenever I go bra shopping my cousin Cece comes with me. There are so many problems when it comes to puberty I just sometimes wish I never even got my periods. And there was this one embarrassing moment where I didn't have any more pads left and my mom was at work so I had to ask my step dad to go to the store an buy me some!"
--Future Mrs. Ruiz, 11

"I don't think my body likes me very much...Lol. I'm short and scrawny for my age. My period is completely irregular, and it always comes unexpectedly. I'm also basically as flat-chested as a 5 year old, and I get teased at school about it all the time...Oh well, everyone has their bodily issues."
--Abbey, 13

"I don't know if I got my period yet. I mean there's stuff in my underpants that's brownish red. And I don't know because I'm young, I have an older sister who should be getting her period in a month or so, and it's occurred when I talk to my mom about it, so I don't talk about it with her. Man I really have a problem."
--Bella, 9

"Hey. I really know a bit about puberty but don't be afraid that puberty will happen it is just a way of life."
--Karththikan, 11

"I am so scared! I already have discharge, a little, and my doctor said a year ago that I might get it when I start school next year, and I'm going into jr. High! HELP ME!"
--Ssgirl, 12

"I don't really feel different."
--Raven, 12

"Is it normal having white discharges."
--Raven, 12

"Definitely the hardest part for every girl is periods. It gets confusing, you worry it will start and you won't know and everyone else will see. You don't want to start it, but at the same time you do because your friends have it. You wonder when it will happen, where and if your friends will get it first. What girls don't get is it's really not a big deal. Some girls really want to get it because they're a "Late bloomer" but it really is not a big deal if you want it or don't. It gets a little bit of a hassle and sometimes you get cramps, but really not a big deal. If you're worried about starting at school just bring a pad in a purse and maybe a change of undies if you want..."
--Lelia

"My worse times going threw it is when yew break out on your face, chest and back. I hate those times. You can't wear any spaghetti string shirts..."
--Creole

"I am sooooo frustrated ugh! I am 5'4 and have to where clothes for teenagers but I don't have breasts to fill in that area so my mom has to adjust them. Then my dad just laughs that I want breasts. Yet my mom says that I cant where a bra till I am her size which is a 38 b in women's. All of my friends have ditched me and my only friend moved 15 hours away and hasn't called in a month. I have tons of pubic hair that shows when I'm in a swimsuit yet I don't have my period and my mom got hers when she was 17. I feel so alone."
--Pretty Horse, 11

"One of the toughest parts of puberty is my period, and the worry that comes throughout the month about when it's gonna come. Also I'm sooo scared about going though it over the summer, 'cause how am I gonna tell my friends I can't go to the pool that day. Another tough part about puberty is that I start to feel like such a loser 'cause some of my friends are turning beautiful, and wanting to grow up to fast, when I still look like a dork. Anywayz, going through puberty in middle school is sorta ok 'cause every single person around is too :)."
--Callie, 12

"Not yet but I am growing hair eeeeeewwww and my breasts are growing and I'm embarrassed!"
--Danx, 10

"Emma R. (13), if you don't want to use tampons, use pads."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"WoOt (13), yeah, your period is most likely coming if you're having mood swings & stuff. Do you have discharge (white stuff in your underwear) & pubic hair? Then, yes, you are most likely going to have your period in a few months, weeks, or possibly a year or years. It actually depends."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"My breasts are growing and boys tease me because I'm more developed than the other girls, and I don't like the hair in other spots and...The pimples! I haven't even had my period yet and I'm already complaining a lot. But, I'll be fine..."
--Tara, 11

"Hey you guys puberty is nothing to be scared of or anything it just means your body is maturing and so your going through changes just wait a little and sooner or later you'll get it under control."
--Anonymous, 13

"Daniel 13, mine itches too. It's sort of hairy and my dad said that it is completely normal, so u got nothing 2 worry bout. :) I hope my advice helped u out."
--Nikko, 12

"The toughest part of puberty would probably be your period because I don't think anybody likes that. But if you're a boy maybe it's the mood swings."
--Rachel, 12

"The toughest thing about puberty actually happens before it or in the early stages. You worry about it SO much, and then when it happens, you start to feel less self-conscious. First you worry about how you look, will it hurt, will people make fun of you, etc., but after some time, everyone will be going through it. You aren't alone, so don't stress out!"
--Catherine, 10

"One of the things I hate is everyone is at a different level! Like some girls talk about sex, others talk about there interests others talk about guys, like yesterday some 'popular' girls asked me if I knew what emo meant (they know I don't) and when I couldn't explain it they started laughing and laughing. And they told everyone! I was so embarrassed. Is emo something I should know? I think they were calling me emo. Anyway can someone PLZ tell me what emo means?"
--Madison, 11

"I started when I was 15 year old you 10 year olds are to young to start periods but my cousin started when she was 17 and my 2 cousin started when she was 9 and you may think this is crazy and I am lying but I am not weird I know..."
--Cora

"How do you hit puberty?"
--Gabby, 9

"I have size 36a I hate periods."
--Anonymous

"Jared, personally, I think that if she really is a good girlfriend, she wouldn't care if you did or didn't have armpit hair."
--Anna

"I think I got my period right now! Oh my gosh! I thought I started in 5th grade, but now I did!"
--Polarbearluvr, 13

"The worst part is not knowing when you have your first period! It could be swimming or even at school!"
--Kourtney, 11

"I started my period some days ago, and I'm too embarrassed to tell my mom. What should I tell her?"
--Anonymous, 13

"You will know when you get your period. I started my period when I was twelve yrs. Old. You have cramps, mood swings, and anything that comes at you. Why I'm I have cramps?"
--Melissa

"I cry because I have only just started puberty I am 13 and a half! I'm embarrassed of myself and I get teased!"
--Anon., 13

"My voice change happen sooooo slow I did not notice it."
--Bubblezx, 12

"Angel 13, what's wrong with a tampon? Maybe you'll like it. Just try!"
--Moi

"Ok, so we were learning about puberty in school and 1 day I came home from school and my mom brought out this book all about having sex! Ewww! I was soooooo embarrassed and I think my mom was 2. I hope that never happens 2 any of my siblings!"
--Angie, 11

"I have pubic hair and hair under my arms but I haven't started developing breasts. All of my friends are in at least stage 3 and I'm flat chested! My best friend always teases me about not having breasts. I don't know what 2 do. I don't have my period yet. I do wear training bras, but then again, so do all my friends. When will I grow breasts? Madi: -) please help me- u seem 2 know about all this stuff and understand ppl. Thank goodness. =) my best friend who teases me about my flat chest's has started developing breast but doesn't have a period or pubic hair or armpit hair. I really need some advice. Madi : -), please, PLEASE reply!"
--Lauren, 10

"Bubbles (12), do you have hair DOWN THERE if you know what I mean? If so, then you most likely will have your period soon. Be expectant and prepared! See yaa!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Kymberly (11), that stuff (ick) is discharge and that means YOU are going through puberty. And probably several months (years, maybe? ) away from your period. Eww, I know, I thought it was gross when I first saw it. I was so shocked when I realized what it was. But now I'm not! Yay! See yaaa."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"RAV (12), no, periods aren't painful for everyone. Wait, IDK, but when you have your period it's not painful (not that I've had it yet. ) I think it's only painful from cramps. If you do have cramps, take a warm bath or exercise. I think the more athletic you are, the less cramps and the better, anyway, so be athletic, people! See yaa!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"CTBcutie (9) and Person (12), these are some signs showing that your are getting closer to your period: discharge (white stuff in your underwear), pubic hair (hair down THERE), cramps, mood swings? (IDK, I think so, I'm pretty sure), and that's pretty much it. CTBcutie, If you have no one to talk to, talk to your school nurse or some female that's gone through puberty or is going through it that you trust or know well."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Cherry (10), no periods don't hurt when you have them except for some cramps. Don't be scared, but if you do have cramps, take a warm bath or exercise. Here's how you know when you're getting closer to your period: pubic hair, discharge (white stuff in your underwear), cramps, and mood swings (I think...). To verify when you should be expecting your period, talk to your school nurse, doctor/nurse (I think you'd be more comfortable with a female? ), parent, or female you trust that has gone or is going through puberty."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"At first I was scared to use the bathroom, because it thought I would start my period. And then I think it was after my last day of school I started my period, but now I'm not scared to use the bathroom, because I know what to do if I start my period again. Now my cousin is scared to use the bathroom, because her doctor said she would start it in 6 months, and I think it's been 3 already and she's only 10."
--Anonymous, 13

"For the people who are scared to start there periods, it's not really scary, I was really scared to start my period, but I started it last week, and ended it two days ago. And it doesn't last that long, maybe like a week,."
--Janessa, 12

"I think that this site is great for advice on puberty as most of the other sites say you have to be at least 13 to join but us girls need the info and advice of others at the age of 9 or 10 when we are starting puberty and getting our periods. 13 is a bit too late."
--Jade, 11

"Well my period didn't hurt at all. Today is my first day getting it...But I didn't tell my mom about it...Because,,, I just don't know..."
--Anonymous, 12

"I think the worst is breast growth because it kinda hurts. And getting my period...But I haven't got it yet, but I'm pretty scared...I don't think it'll be too bad! At least I hope so."
--Tabitha, 11

"My breast are growing and it well hurts and it is embarrassing and I am hairy where I don't want to be."
--Caitlin, 11

"I am ten and I am scared but excited too. I think I will be fine. I think the hardest part is the period."
--Audrey, 10

"Some girls on here are complaining that us guys have it easy compared to them, but that's not true. We don't have to go through some of the stuff girls go through, but we have different stuff during puberty and we expected to be tough and play football. Not trying to brag, but I'm pretty athletic, so that's not a problem for me, but I feel sorry for those who aren't. Anyway, I just want to say that it all equals out, and God doesn't make things harder for one gender..."
--Kyle, 12

"Daneil 13: puberty is much harder on girls than boys so be happy that you are a boy and that is totally normal well hope I could help."
--Miley

"It's not so hard. U just have to deal with it."
--Julissa

"I like the big breasts the other stuff is weird."
--Anonymous

"Charleyy- about you not having your period in three months, don't worry about it. I read that you won't be able to fully predict your period until at least two years after you get it."
--Tay♥, 12

"I can't stop thinking of guys. Is that part of puberty?"
--Luis mcloven, 12

"Ok my period came on Thursday but 5 mins later it was gone and the next day it came back on and it was regular and then sometimes I feel nervous and stressed out and my breasts hurt a little am I changing or something I definitely need to know any advice or tips here?!"
--Anonymous

"Lina (12), what you have is discharge! (EWW! LOL, JOKING. ) Discharge is stuff that, well...Ask your mom. She should know! Or a nurse works. If you have that white stuff in your underwear, try using pantyliners. They're like pads (for periods) only thinner and more comfy. And, yes, I think that's normal. When the discharge is dry, I mean. If it's wet and yellow, I think you need to see a doctor or something."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Hello, I'm Derek. I can only speak for the boys here. Puberty is nothing to be ashamed of. Don't worry about how much pubic hair you have or don't have, it's perfectly normal. Neither should you worry about the size of any part of your body, you are in the early stages of puberty and will develop later in your teenage years. I personally have already gone through the early stages of puberty. Believe me when I say that puberty is nothing that should be rushed. Let it take its course."
--Derek

"To Eva, 10 our advice is to talk to your mom about what your dad said, and tell her how you feel about it. Then have a serious talk with your dad, and have your mom there to back you up. We wish you luck!"
--Jade/haily, 9

"Jared, from a girl, if u don't have armpit hair that's ok, u will look hot in a cut off shirt anyway! ANYWAY, ARMPIT HAIR IS GROSS!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Jonathan, 11, why is ur voice embarrassing? Is it to high or low? I like guys with either 'cuz low is hot and high is cute."
--Madi : -), 12

"What is a yeast infection? How do u know if u have one? How do u get them? Plz answer! I still haven't told my mom about my period but I'm trying to today! And I'm scared about a yeast infection!"
--Madi : -), 12

"OMG! I finally told her! I finally told my mom I got my period! I'm soooo happy right now. I didn't tell her the truth but this is big for me 'cuz I got it in December 2006 when I was 10 now I'm 12 and I finally built up the courage to tell her! OMG I'M SO HAPPY! I year and a half later I finally told my mom! Thanks for everyone's help! And thanks IML, u helped me a lot also! Thank you so much everyone!"
--Madi : -), 12

"I've been wearing bras since 3rd grade and I'm in 5th! Plus sometimes it feels like I am having a period when I haven't even started it! P. S my real name is not Samantha. P. P. S I have pubic hair. EWWWW!"
--Samantha, 10

"All of us have to grow up but this stinks like crazy I hate not having a girlfriend."
--Anonymous

"I think the toughest part, for girls, is stressing over our periods. I've had mine for almost two years and the worst part is the cramps. I don't always get them but when I do they hurt so bad. Other than that, I've grown to learn that puberty is a natural thing that everyone goes through. It's not that big of a deal anymore. : -)."
--Katie

"Obviously my name isn't skibunny. But I HATE acne. I have a huge zit that makes me look like a witch and now my crush is actually making small talk with me! It's weird."
--Skibunny, 10

"I think that the toughest part about going through puberty is when you have your period, growing hair and worrying about what to do just always calm down and before you start thinking to far no matter what you do it is always a big help when you talk to your mother about when you are starting or how you feel about it going through puberty."
--Sabrina, 13

"I not growing tall, or hair."
--Jonathan, 11

"OK...So maybe I'm still 9 and the only signs so far for me are a few pimples, but I'm just trying to help. I have this one book called The Care and Keeping of You and I think a lot of girls would be better prepared if they would read it. A lot of girls who wrote here have questions about this whitish discharge in their underwear. I just wanted to tell them that in the book it says that the discharge is usually clear or whitish and has very little smell and if it is greenish or smells strongly you may have an infection. Also, I think the hardest part for me will definitely be my period."
--Hannah, 9

"The best thing about puberty is that you shoot up in height, but not all parts will grow at the same rate, sometimes you may look and feel like a puppy whose paws are too big for it's body, but don't worry that will change, during puberty you shouldn't have to worry go on with your life, don't listen to all that teasing, you are perfect the way you are. Don't feel self-conscious, don't stuff or say you have your period unless it's true, don't LIE about your body! Be thankful for yourself!"
--Bethani, 11

"Well I'm only 8 and I started wearing bras I never knew that having breasts was a hard problem. When I came to school, my friends kept laughing but it went by as fast as a bird."
--Monica, 8

"How will I know if I'm close to starting my period."
--Person, 12

"Ack. Ack. ACK. Blood. ALL. OVER. MY. NEW. JEANS. That's the worst part."
--Madcow, 11

"Heyah I started my periods about February this year I am going to Greece with my friends family and really scared if I'm on my period I don't want to use a tampon. Reply soon as possible."
--Emma. R, 13

"I think it's everything. I really hate being taller then everyone. I'm in fifth grade and I'm taller then a lot of the eighth graders. I also started to get breasts when I was like 8 or 9. I have a period. I got in when I was 9. And I have "Hair down there" and hair around the pit area. I also have braces and glasses."
--Rachel, 11

"My mum started to talk to me about puberty but got very embarrassed so she said perhaps I was still too young and we should wait a while but I wanted her to know I have started puberty I just got shy."
--Megan, 9

"I'm like having a nervous breakdown, I'm like crying but I'm also so mad, I got 5 sharp pains today, I still never got my period. Is that coming?"
--WoOt, 13

"When I was 11 I used to get white discharge everyday but after I turned 12 it all of a sudden stopped. I don't have discharge anymore but I get cramps sometimes. Am I expecting my period?"
--Bubbles, 12

"I really don't want to wear a tampon but there's a pool party tomorrow! What do I do?!"
--Angel, 13

"Daniel, 13, u asked if puberty is harder on guys then girls. I would say girls, I'm not saying puberty is not hard for you, it is, but we have periods, which I think is the hardest thing, u have to tell ur mom, there is nothing u need to tell anyone. So I would say girls. And anyway, guys are so hot with low voices, girls are cute b4 puberty too!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Once, I wore white pants to school. Then in the middle of class, everyone saw the big stain on my pants. I got my period! OMG!"
--I. C. U. P, 13

"I don't have it but my best friend does."
--Ash, 10

"It's scary it feels like there's something on your face. My friends keep asking me what I have on my face. OUCH!"
--Baobai, 9

"I have breasts and I got hem when I was only 8. It is nothing to worry about."
--Kate, 13

"I have white mushy stuff down there. What does that mean?"
--Kymbely, 11

"The toughest part of puberty is that people notice how much you've grown."
--Geneva, 13

"Some people might think that the hair is the hardest part but (ya, I know this seems weird), I'm not sure if I have my period yet! I can't seem to tell my family about it. NONE, and I mean NONE of my friends have it yet so I don't know what to do. HELP!"
--CTBcutie, 9

"I went shopping as usual with my mum and when we got to the isle with the pads she said it's about time she got me some to keep in my room for when I start and she helped me pick a pack out. As soon as I got home I put one on I felt so grown up."
--Tanya, 10

"The scariest part for me is not knowing if I have my period or not. It seems like it and I don't wanna tell anyone. Uhhh. I grew hair in my armpits at 7. YA. Really early. Now this is the scary part. Hair on my vagina when I'm 5! In 1 month and 8 days I'll be 10 so that makes it seem less weird becuz I'm near the right age to have it. I DON'T KNOW WUT TA DO!"
--CTBcutie, 9

"One of my nipples is hard I'm a boy and the other nipple is soft is this part of puberty."
--Josh, 13

"There is hair growing on my penis and I have an erection multiple times per day. My voice cracks a lot, so it's definitely changing. I have wet dreams every night. What do I do?"
--Peter, 11

"Listen Anonymous 12 u shouldn't be afraid of changing becuz of the wrapper sounds. U have ur period and u need to be sanitary there is this thing u can do u can go during class or flush the toilet when u are to open it so u cant really hear it. I mean ur 12 if kids at ur school are immature and don't have their periods then u can't do anything about it. Confront urself tell them u need to and that it is necessary. Or just ignore them. U know u need to change becuz ur mom is right u can get a yeast infection. Now ask urself will u change during school and be sanitary or would u rather gets a yeast infection? think about it."
--HAPPY: D, 12

"I would have to say Periods! They stink!"
--I'M NOT TELLIN

"I absolutely hate the hormones! I used to hate this one guy and now I'm in LOVE! I don't know how or want to stop it. The problem is he has a girlfriend. Help!"
--Paige, 11

"When I went to the bathroom and I saw brown stuff on my underwear! I wasn't going to ask my mom but then I got the nerve to ask my mom she laughed of what I said and then she said it was normal so she went to the store and bought me everything I was going too need pads, bras, deodorant and a razor. So I have to really thank my mom for all of this."
--Meggie, 10

"I know some girls wonder what happens in your chest. Well, I will tell you. My chest is on stage 3. Well, your nipples get hard, and you feel something hard underneath. Your breasts get tender, and hurt when you press on them. Then the skin around your breast kind of gets bigger. For girls starting to get breasts: Wear a training bra, or a bra that fits you..."
--Taylor, 12

"I'm the only one in my class that gets their period."
--Anonymous, 9

"I was sooo embarrassed in 1st grade becuz I had to use deodorant SO early! It wuz hard!"
--CTBcutie, 9

"IML, please make the separate boards soon, because I really need some advice from other guys but it seems like anytime a guy posts on here with an important question about puberty it gets overlooked by the few other guys that come on here. Plus with all the girls posting on here, the few posts about erections, wet dreams, etc. Seem a bit awkward. Please do this soon, I really needs advice and my friends are no help and my dad thinks I don't even know about it. Thanks!"
--Anonymous Boy, 12

Message from IML: Okay, you got it! We'll be switching over to a whole new You Said It system sometime this summer, where your comments will go up very fast, so when we do that there will be separate Puberty boards for boys and girls! Stay tuned!

"Thank god I got my period at home and not at school. I got it 2 years ago and it's a pain my back hurts and so does my stomach it only last a week so phew. I'm done developing as my mom says, I got my period, shave my legs underarms etc, I wear a b36 in bra sizes and my voice changed. Puberty is hard but well it's just hard."
--Sam, 13

"I started my period exactly 1 month ago. It ain't fun. + Having breasts."
--Taylor, 11

"The toughest part of puberty for me is my period. I feel like I'm to young to have it! I can't even tell my friends, I'm too embarrassed. I know I shouldn't be ashamed, and why I have it, but I just don't want my friends to tease me about or tell everybody."
--Olivia, 12

"I have a girlfriend and I'm scared to wear cut off shirts because she might see that I have no armpit hair...What do I do?"
--Jared

"The toughest part for me is that like you like guys, but now you have even worse reactions to the ones that you like: (."
--Hsmrox, 13

"I'm 11 years old and I am 52 inches and 86 pounds. I am still skinny. I want to grow taller..."
--Aaron, 11

"No you can not do what you normally do you can not go swimming and never try on new clothes because they will not fit nice."
--Anonymous

"I have a small chest and already started my period. The period is the hardest. With cramps and what not. It's so not fun."
--Beverley, 13

"The toughest part of going through puberty is pimples Ewww They get everywhere. Wash your face every morning and night. Try to after you sweat most of the time, and that should help prevent them."
--Mandy, 13

"Hi! Carmen is not my real name by the way but I do not want to use my own. In school we had to watch a movie about puberty. The boys did it separate though. Puberty is something everyone goes through. I know that but I have not gone through puberty yet. For you girls, (we know who we are) you get pubic hair (the hair that grows between the upper part of the legs), breast development, growth in height and of course the PERiOD! I know, WHY DON'T BOYS GET THE "PERiOD"? It is not fair! Well, you get the period when your brain tells you that you are ready. Then you release an egg and you have your period. Hope that helps girlies, T. H."
--Carmen, 10

"I got my period when I was 9! Everyone made fun of me because I told my friend and she told everyone! My mom says everyone will start soon though. When I started it was at school and I had no clue what was happening! Just hold on tight and try to enjoy the ride. Oh my question is, is it normal to start your period for one month then stop the next three!"
--Riley, 11

"GETTiNG PERiODS!"
--Bubbles, 12

"Are periods painful for everyone? My older sis has hers and she say they are really painful."
--RAV, 12

"Well ok I have a problem were I sorta pee myself a little like without knowing so sometimes my mom lets me wear a pad (like ones for your period) so the first day it was uncomfortable but now I don't even feel them I don't even no they r there I'm wearing on rite now and I don't notice it yesterday I even did like cartwheels and high kicks with it, you cant notice it and you will be able to do everything you do with out one. So don't be scared for ppl who are. But now I'm like prepared for when it comes."
--Anonymous, 11

"All of my friends have their periods but I don't. How do I know if I am going to get my period."
--Anonymous, 11

"I have pubic hair already but how long will it take before I get my period."
--Please Answer, 11

"My Voice is embarrassing!"
--Jonathan, 11

"I've got the biggest chest in my class & I get BAD, BAD, BAD pains there 2."
--Pigsluver1997, 11

"Wat do you do if you are scared to have your period I got it like 7 times but I'm scared to change in the bathroom in school because the other kids laugh when they hear the rappers wat do I do and I get in trouble when I come home because my mom says I might get a yeast infection plz help meh."
--Anonymous, 12

"I'm turning 14 in two months. My voice is really soft people have a hard time hearing me. I have a lot of pubic hair growing more than normal. I also got an erection in class while I was standing up. I get so many wet dreams like every 3 days is that normal? I can't stop thinking about girls it get frustrating!"
--Bob, 13

"I hit puberty at 10 so it's weird."
--Khriston, 12

"Puberty is so hard! Hair grown on my privates then on the underarms [oh gross! ] and my breast is okay because it's not so big and not so small : ]."
--Sandra, 12

"Gwen use secret it works good they have gel or regular and flavors that smell great. ^^."
--Latrisha, 11

"Hi. It feels nasty."
--Emma, 10

"I am growing long hairs on my vagina! (scary)."
--Gentry, 10

"I have been having many big pains in my lower stomach. I went to the doctor and they said it was my period. What should I do when it comes this summer?"
--Hannh, 11

"U know I want 2 say that not having big breasts is ok. My mom said don't be jealous for girls with breasts before you because they are gonna have bigger breast as they get older. And having big breast for me is not my thing for boys to be attracted to only. And if you have no breast or getting there or small breast it's ok because your breast is not only who you are! True!"
--Naughdia, 12

"Hey, I am only 10 and I already have hair in my armpits and on my private. I am developing my breasts, I've had a growth spurt, I might need to shave my legs soon, and I have mood swings from time to time. I'm still worried about one thing-my period. Does it hurt? How do you know when it's coming?"
--Cherry, 10

"How should I ask my mom if I can shave my legs."
--Gurl, 11

"I went to a pool party and I saw a girl in my class there. She's really popular and I don't talk to her much. I did see that she stuffed the front of her swimsuit. When I saw her in class that day she was a lot smaller. Why on Earth did she do that? Did she want attention? Did she want bigger breasts? I just don't understand why a 6th grader, not even out of elementary would stuff her chest. She didn't get in the pool, thank goodness! I'd feel so sorry for her if one of her enormous pads floated away!"
--Janessa, 13

"I am growing long hair on my private. And I feel embarrassed."
--Gentry, 10

"HAPPY- just talk to your mom/dad and purchase a reliable antiperspirant."
--Anna

"Why is it that you know what's happening to you and yet you're scared before it begins and can't except the fact that it's going on or is going to go on in your body?"
--Kim, 11

"Hi, I'm 57 inches and I just turned 11 5 days ago. I have a lot of hair down there and my boobs are kind of hard. My mom hasn't talked to me about menstruation, sex or anything, what do I do?" --Sarah, 11 Well Sarah, If that is happening you should tell your mom what is happening and she most likely will tell you about it and help you. My mom has told me about menstruation about a year ago but not sex. If you don't want to talk to your mom, you don't have to, but you will have to eventually. But I'm in 6th grade and not many girls in my school have had their period yet so you might not get it for awhile. But since I'm in 6th grade people say a lot of things and I'm just like what? Ôcause I'm one of the only people who haven't had "The talk" so you could always do what I do if you don't want to talk to them about it, search the dictionary ;)."
--Michelle, 11

"(different person) well, I'm going through my period, and the worst part is the mood swings! I hate them! And I really haven't told any of my friends yet...I just don't know how to put it to them. I don't really want them to know because there was a rumor that (place name here) had her period and everybody laughed at her. I'm so confused! My mom took it pretty well though. (I woke up in the middle in the night and told her about it...THE GUILT WAS TOO MUCH!"
--Vicki, 11

"For all you girls out there, when you get this white stuff in you underwear, you will start you period."
--Kittmcdibbs, 11

"I started my period when I was 12 and it was monthly, but I haven't had one for 3 months now. I don't know what to do. I mean I like not having the hassle with a period but I'm sure it's not normal. I'm worried about my breasts as well due to a small size of 32a! Although my mom and relatives are Bs and C cups. It just doesn't make me feel like a woman. I'm becoming 15 next week and my friends are all a decent B, which makes me jealous. I like to go to parties but get embarrassed as I can't wear low-cut tops. I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice to give? x."
--Charleyy.

"Itchy underarms and bo."
--Chelsea

"I have a lot of hair on my penis and it itches a lot and sometimes I really want to itch but I don't think I should. Should I shave the hair? is this normal? I have wet dreams almost every night it's so confusing? anyone please help answer my questions is puberty harder on girls are guys?"
--Daniel, 13

"I think the toughest part of going through puberty is the cramps you get. I went to my doctor and she said that I should be drinking some pills for that so she gave me the pills. Since I had those pills it worked, now I don't get cramps."
--Anonymous

"I have this stuff in my underwear and when it is wet it is white but when it is dry it's yellow is that normal? All the books I read it says that it should be white should I be worried?"
--Lina, 12

"The mental part for sure! You get mood swings a lot, and you have a different and harder ways of dealing with things. You tend to become a lot more sensitive and defensive!"
--Lauren, 13

"Well like I had like major mood swings last week and a few cramps my mom said I might have my period soon, so like I also like I on this sounds weird put like pee myself without knowing like a little bit a lot so my mom bought pads incase I want to wear them for it but I think she bought them for another reason..."
--No name, 11

"Mia: I know how you feel, have black hair on, legs, private part and armpits. I hate the shaving. All the shaving!"
--Jordanlover, 10

"It's really hard to change in front of my older sister ever since I grew my breasts."
--Dallas, 10

"Oh ya, Mia, I am expecting my period soon too, discharge, hhhuuuhhh, it stinks."
--Anonymous

"I would say the toughest part is not knowing what will happen and if you are a girl the guys will be really rude."
--Kathryn, 11

"Kklp, 11, I would tell ur mom u would like some, at first I really liked sports but now I like cups better. Give each kind a try and decide what u like better."
--Madi : -), 12

"I started my period exactly 1 month ago. It ain't fun. + Having breasts."
--Taylor, 11

"When I told me bff I'd had my "You know what" She didn't talk to me for, who knows how long. She was actually talking to other people about it! (at least they where all girls) I didn't mind much though."
--Taylor, 11

"What will happen to my chest."
--Tatum, 13

"I'm 11 and I haven't started I'm so glad."
--Anonymous, 11

"What happens 1 month before you get your period."
--Jordan, 11

"All the guys say I'm chestless and I am growing a little and I want to know if u can grow breasts in 3 months."
--Shannon, 11

"I started when I was 10 and so did all my other friends but they all wear bras and trainers and all have their periods but my mom don't let mi wear bra or I don't have period something's wrong with me and advice plz! Sos!"
--Addy, 12

"I think the period is the toughest part and it's not that hard to deal with."
--Steph, 12

"Reena, when u get ur period, it might hurt it might not. Some girls don't get cramps some do. If it does hurt it is no big deal u should still be able to do everything u normally do. Just take some Tylenol or ibuprofen. Something like that. U will be fine."
--Madi :-), 12

"Kirstin, 13, don't feel bad. Ur sister probably feels AWFUL. Imagine how hard it is to but way bigger then ur older sister. It must feel really awkward. My mom got her period when she was 15 and I got mine when I was 10. Ôcuz I take after my dad, not my mom. And my dad is a lot bigger then my mom. Ur sister might not even have her period. Maybe ur mom got her pads in case she starts. Lots of mom's do that."
--Madi :-), 12

"Elizabeth, 10, r ur legs REALLY hairy? Or do u just want to shave. Think about that. Ok, here is how I got my mom to let me shave. I wear riding boots because I ride horses. So I was wearing short socks under my boots and I got a blister, my mom told me I needed to go back 2 long socks. And I said that they itch. She said, maybe u need a razor. And then I just kept reminding her she wanted me 2 get a razor until she finally went to the store and got 1. Hope this helps."
--Madi :-), 12

"IML, about the boards for boys and girls, I think that would be a good idea, but I also think we should keep this one for boys and girls. None of us know each other so I'm well I'm homeschool so I know stuff about girls but I feel like I need to learn about boys just because well I don't know but it seems like a need 2. So I think we should have 1 for boys 1 for girls and 1 for both of us. Is that a good idea?"
--Madi :-), 12

"Coby, 13, ok I know, I'm a girl and answering ur question, but I think it is hot when guys have deep voices (NOT TO DEEP! ) but really cute and sweet and hot 2, when they have high voices..."
--Madi :-), 12

"Another I find about hard about puberty is people pressuring you to do stuff and while you decide you're all moody."
--Keonna

"It is hard to talk with your parents."
--TAYLOR, 11

"Reena: periods don't actually hurt when the blood flows. Yeah it's real gross when it's heavy, but the only thing that hurts is cramps. Here's to all girls with cramp problems: If you have really bad ones, take 1 (or 2 if your doctor says OK) advils every 4-6 (for 1 pill) or 6-8 (for 2) hours. It even helps make the blood lighter."
--Rose

"Tom (13), maybe you should talk privately with your parents, or write a letter expressing your feelings and why you do not want to watch this video and slip it somewhere they are bound to see it. But why don't you want to watch it, anyway--If you don't want to watch it, that is. I mean, it's best to know what's coming in future (or what's happening) years."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Ehh; the worst part is pimples & pubic hair; I mean like ick!"
--Anonymousecutie[;, 12

"I hit puberty at a young age I hit it at 10 and I'm 12 so it was a very short process I even have a mustache."
--Khriston, 12

"How do girls start periods?"
--Anonymous

"I really don't know if I should use a tampon I am worried it will hurt I use pads (since I got my period) I think it will hurt if it dose not fit my hole I think my hole is small."
--Jenifer, 12

"To Reena : I Have gotten my period but it never hurt me YET. I just get really MOODY."
--Jackie, 10

"When I had my period, I was depressed and didn't want to talk to anybody. When I had it, I was scared out of my mind. But don't worry every boy and girl has some kind of cycle that they go through. It's part of growing up!"
--Destiny, 11

"Reena, just saying, but I don't think periods hurt. You barely even feel 'em (not that I've had one, yet)! I mean, it may be red, but that doesn't mean there's a lot of blood. I think only about 5% (maybe more? ) of it is blood. Well, see ya!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Emily (12), don't be ashamed of your "Smaller" chest. That's fine if your chest is the smallest in the school. Everyone's chest grows at a diff rate. My chest is pretty much huge (well, not that huge), and I hate it! Anyway, don't worry, Emily. All you can really do is wait."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"I don't know what it feels like going into puberty. And my chest hurts! Am I growing breasts?"
--Olga, 9

"Periods and zits stink."
--A (notmyrealname), 12

"What physically happens like mood changes, how will I react to people when they start to talk to me etc? what will I have to do?"
--Curtis, 12

"To Tom- Just take a deep breath and go through it. Everyone on this earth has or will go through it."
--Sarah

"I just want to say way to go Hannah, 10 I think you ROCK for saying that. My doctor says I'm about to start my period soon too. Maybe you could write back and give me some advice, I'm really nervous and don't really want to talk to my mom about it..."
--Tyler, 10

"How do u know if a girl is gonna have her period?"
--Kelsey, 12

"I don't have my period yet but I am having bad moods and getting up at 8am! But lucky for me I am homeschooled. Anyway my mom and dad have been getting me up to early. And my dad said he doesn't care I am having hormones and just stop having bad moods but I cant stop! And I have been getting a lot of hormone rushes and I don't know what I should do, please help me!"
--Eva, 10

"I feel like to know a lot about it and if it hurts or annoys you and I get very scared sometimes but talking to my mom or a girl that's been trough it or even someone that's my age can always help ME! And it can help U too!"
--Nikki, 11

"I have my periods at 7 years old."
--Anonymous

"Well, I hate puberty, the zits stink, but I am getting through it alright. All I need is zit cream, and my face clears up."
--Cooliogirlsbffl, 13

"In two or three days, my period is back. : ( I feel that it's so hard and I don't like to put a pad it's so annoying! But period doesn't hurt. Why people thinks that? It's just that one day, you discover you have your period but it doesn't do anything. You feel normal."
--A girl

"I'm 12 I think I just started my period and how do I know that."
--Tychai, 12

"Reena, it depends on the person some people have it really bad some people don't it really depends, Emily, 12, wait until your body's ready to develop it a diff time for everyone my time was 5th grade that when everything but armpit hair happened for me, armpit hair happened later."
--Sarah, 12

"I got my period and I really want to use one but I am scared to tell my mom I do NOT want her to see me use one help!"
--Allyiah, 11

"I think the worst part was getting my period. Because I got it July 22 wwaayy before my friends. I was so scared. But I got over it now!"
--Anonymous, 10

"I'm 14 and I haven't started my you know dot & my mum started at the age of 13..."
--Sasha

"HAPPY:D (12), try antiperspirant. Deodorant is only supposed to stop you from smelling, but antiperspirant stops you from sweating--I think. Aren't I right, people? Oh, and talk to your mom, too, on which ones are best to use. Bye!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Marissa (11), don't worry. It's no big deal that every girl in your class has had their period. Everyone gets their period at a different rate, different time. Just toss your head the next time they tease and say something bold and brave, like: "Fine. Tease me if you will. What's the big deal with periods, anyway?" or ignore them or something. Or talk to your mom. Bye!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Kklp (11), do you mean you DON'T like the bras? Just asking, but if you don't, just be grateful your mom bought them. If you don't want to accept them, talk with your mom privately and tell her why. Maybe she thinks it's best that you start wearing bras, anyway. Bye!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"I hate puberty. Breasts, almost starting period, mood swings, and almost having diabetes but yeah I hate puberty also I'm like mad then sad then happy all over again. I'm only freakin 10 years old. Is that normal somebody tell me."
--Kiana K, 10

"Picking out a bra, I hate when people watch me because I have big breasts."
--Gina

"Hi Anonymous. Put toilette paper in your undies. First of all, when your mom isn't busy, call her to your room/empty bathroom & tell her."
--Kklp, 11

"Mom offered 2 by me CUP bras. What do I say?"
--Kklp, 11

"Well the toughest part about puberty in my opinion is peer pressure. Many kids want to act older and laugh at me because They think I am small for my age."
--Coby, 13

"I have hair on my private part. And, I'm expecting my period."
--Mia, 11

"I think the most difficult thing about it is not letting girls turn you into a slave."
--Coby, 13

"Ugh, puberty. Periods and breasts can be hard! My period brings super bad cramps and my breasts hurt sometimes. (for all of you who don't have them yet, it isn't as bad I as make them sound, just sometimes)..."
--Gwen, 13

"I have a question what can I do to stop sweating becuz I know it's hot and everyone sweats but I wanna what I can use because the deodorant that says it prevents u from sweating is not working. Anyone have any suggestions???"
--HAPPY: D, 12

"D0t123, 11, remember when u were asking for help on ur breast problem? did u solve it? what happened? do u need more help? I will help if I can! Plz write back."
--Madi : -), 12

"Getting really bad cramps the day I get my period. I have to lie down for a whole hour!"
--Madeleine

"Jennifer, my mom said that too!"
--Tiara, 12

"Hello, I'm going to answer some questions I've seen on this page. 1. Dear Scared, have a serious talk with your mother and your family doctor or gynecologist; menstruating is serious, especially the possibly of a yeast infection. Dear Madai, It's simple: your breasts hurt because they're are growing! All the girls with period/ why do we have it questions: You do it because it means you are able to bear children now. The reason it happens now is because your body is changing with Puberty in your teenage years and sometimes earlier. REMEMBER 1 THING: 1. You're Period is not something to be ashamed of. I t means you are become older..."
--Anna

"When I started puberty I thought that you would get your period but I was wrong. All of the girls in my class got their period but I didn't so now they make fun of me. What should I do?"
--Marissa, 11

"My breasts hurt when they are pushed on...It's awkward when someone shoves me and I let out a huge yelp. I', also growing hair in my pits and other places...I'm glad not to have my period yet!"
--Megan, 11

"I think that puberty is like, a CURSE! Seriously man, it stinks."
--Tahaara, 12

"The toughest part was the period. Yeah. It is so uncomfortable, and at elitch's, I couldn't go on the water rides. It's such a hassle and you can't enjoy anything with it."
--Tahaara, 12

"Well when I am about to start my period my breasts get sore and they hurt when I bump myself. I mean they always hurt when I do but now it's like excruciating pain it hurts. But girls out there when u get ur period it's not that hard. U just have to know when and how to change and how to put on a pad. Once ur in ur 3rd month u'll probably get the hang of it soo don't worry. Everything will be fine just chill and enjoy life while u still don't have it! U don't have to worry about not being able to go into a pool becuz u have it. Soo enjoy life to the fullest!"
--Happy: d, 12

"My friend and I are talking about how we do not want to have our periods. We are soooooo scared."
--Vballchamp, 11

"Princess-the toughest part of going through it is when u are in school and u have a man teacher and u say I have to go to the bathroom and they wont let u go and u have to tell them that u started your PERIOD! Price- the tough part about puberty is dat boys and your breast u now u get BIG breast well that scares me."
--Princess and price, 13

"Getting random erections in front of people."
--Evan, 11

"I am 10 and I already started puberty. I have a very busy life, taking care of my dogs, dance classes for 3 hours EVERY night, school, music, and running errands for my mom. So it is very hard to squeeze in chores, and stuff like that. I bought a planner at the dollar store. I scheduled all the activities, and the times so I can be more organized, so ill have time to take care of my self the healthy way. Also when u go through puberty you get stressed, and it helped me not be so stressed."
--Anna, 10

"I do not like puberty. I don't like getting zits. They are making my nose itch."
--David, 10

"To Briana, age 9. What do you mean? Does everybody get puberty? Yes, everybody, absolutely everybody. The age can be very early, very late, or just in between, but everybody gets it..."
--Angie, 11

"I don't know what period feels like yet. I'm wondering if it hurts A LOT."
--Reena

"Well ok my class will watch this puberty video and my mom or dad needs to sign a slip but I don't want to have them sign it what do I do?"
--Tom, 13

"Being so short for a 12 year old and all the people in my 5th grade class except one is taller then me."
--Rachel, 12

"I am 10 and I started my period."
--Hannah, 10

"I think the hardest part is to not let your friends catch on to what is happening to tour own body Ôcause they think something is wrong with you so you can keep your friends close to you!"
--Aaliyah, 11

"Well I'm not normal for my age see I have the biggest chest in my school well as a child and I get made fun of it. Most of my friends are worried that I may steal their so-called boyfriends. Just wondering how can I be proud of myself for just by being myself. HELP ME!"
--Monica, 12

"My 11yr old sister is way more developed than I am I wear a training bra and she wears a real bra, and I have now seen in her room she has a pack of pads."
--Kirstin, 13

"I get worried sometimes because I don't have big breasts that the other girls what should I do!?"
--Emily, 12

"I have a very small chest."
--Zoe, 13

"The hardest part for me is like doesn't everyone want to eat healthy? but I just wish I could suggest something maybe a little bit healthier than what I am now."
--Keonna

"Ughhhh! Sometimes I bump it (chest) and it hurts! Why?"
--Anonymous, 11

"Omigosh, Aurin (11), we watched (BTW, I'm in 5th grade) THE MOVIE already. It's the growth and development movie. Anyway, the 5th grade teachers said it's the school district's law or rule that we (boys and girls) watch this movie (which is about boys and girls). And I MEAN, it's all in ONE movie. It's SICK! And there are girls and boys dancing at the end--And that is TOTALLY not how WE dance. Was that, like, made in the 80s or something?"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Sharon (12), don't be afraid! As long as your mom went through this situation (which, BTW, she probably DID--All women did, didn't they? ), she'll TOTALLY understand. During puberty, you have to face lots of problems and deal with it--And I'm guessing this is one of them."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Anonymous, a girl can use deodorant at mainly any age. Perhaps 9 or 10 is when the average girl starts. But it doesn't matter. When you feel as if you are ready, you are ready. Talk to your mother or some older female you trust and ask her for assistance in looking for antiperspirant (that covers up sweat and smell) or deodorant."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Hi, I'm 57 inches and I just turned 11 5 days ago. I have a lot of hair down there and my boobs are kind of hard. My mom hasn't talked to me about menstruation, sex or anything, what do I do?"
--Sarah, 11

"I want to have big breasts."
--Chandice

"It's the mood swings. Mine change every 30 minutes. I'll start crying, then smiling, then mad! I HATE it!"
--Starfire, 11

"Well can I tell you an embarrassing thing that happened to me once when I was swimming I was wearing a shirt over my 2 piece suit but when I took off that shirt I had my cupped bra on by accident and then my crush that's so cute came up to me and said when you changing because I'll hold the towel around you and I said I'm changing in the bathroom so you cant see my breasts duh!"
--Olivia, 10

"I don't like it. Some times I want to develop but then I'm scared of it..."
--Lena, 12

"Uh discharges."
--Just chillin, 10

"Anonymous, 11, if u mean u have started ur u know what then u have 2 tell an older sib ( that's a girl) and if u don't have one u need to tell your mom, I had 2 tell my mom when I did in grade 5."
--Sarah, 12

"I'm 9 and I have hair on my private, a little on my armpits and a little on my legs. I'm wondering if I'm growing too fast."
--Reena, 9

"Just forget about it."
--Nichole, 13

"Yeah, girls have to worry about periods and crops coming in, but guys have to worry about random erections. I hate having to stand up and ask a question with a you-know-what! I get like 15 every school day, I hope it's not visible when I have to stand up."
--Anonymous, 13

"Hi, I am wondering about puberty, to be specific "Breasts. How do you know when your growing breasts, it feels like there never going to come, will I be flat as a board forever!? : -c."
--Anonymous, 11

"Madi and Taylor ok thanks! I have tried talking to my mom about shaving and she said "Why do you want to shave!? Is it because your friends shave?" when she asked why I want to I really didn't have a reason because she doesn't believe my legs "LOOK" hairy...It's just because I know she doesn't want me to grow up! So I either shave WITHOUT permission or I shave when I'm 14 and have MAN LEGS! My mother would freak if I shaved without her, she is also afraid that I'm cut myself and she doesn't want to get me an electric because she said my dad would freak (either way)...I'm ALWAYS begging her to let me get a razor but she will just say "Your to young I shaved when I was 14, why do you want to shave anyway?" and I have to answer..."
--Elizabeth, 10

"Okay I had early puberty and soon I was amazed to find out that every girl in my class wears a bra but when somebody mentions the word I get scared like an odd icky feeling inside."
--Dogluver, 11

"I was just wondering. Can we have separate boards for girls and guys, because I don't want to type "Girl-stuff" and have guys read it and vise-versa. I think that others would feel the same way but this is my opinion. Maybe you could do a poll at the top of this page. It would make me much more comfortable. Thank you."
--59ckm, 12

Message from IML: We can certainly think about that! How does everyone else feel? Email us at itsmylife@pbs.org and tell us what you'd like us to do!

"The toughest part of going through puberty is peer pressure. Many times you hurt people just for being cool and you don't even notice you hurt somebody's feelings."
--Coby, 13

"Hey guys, I read through some of your comments and hey don't worry about it puberty happens, and girls if your concerned about small breasts they will grow with time. Don't worry about what other people look like around you and if it's guys that concern you some don't mind small breasts. Periods are not fun but every girl goes through them. And discharge is perfectly normal. So don't worry, puberty is normal. :)."
--Ally

"Hey, if ur worried about your period, don't B! It doesn't hurt. Trust me I already went threw it!"
--Petsey 2, 10

"Listen folks! Here's how U can tell when ur gonna get your period. I got my period when I was 9! U can tell when your gonna get this. It matters on when U start 2 grow breasts. I grew mine when I was 7or8! Don't worry, it's nothing 2 worry about!"
--Petsey 2, 10

"I didn't start to develop but my chest is so big and my friends think I look weird. They didn't develop yet, help me!"
--Minty, 10

"My voice is still a little boys voice is that ok?"
--Coby, 13

"Here's some tips on what to tell you mom when you get your period. Leave a note in her underwear drawer!"
--Rachel, 11

"I had a really really! Bad pain my mom said it might be my period coming soon and she bought me pads..."
--Jennifer

"Uhhhhhhhhh where do I start well I think it's the rumors when you're all emotional Ôcause it will have a affect."
--Amanda, 12

"I mean like it IS SO HARD WIT PUBERTY! O. O."
--O. O

"Help I'm starting my period and my mom thinks it's a yeast infection plz help me."
--Scared, 10

"I felt bigger and normal but a little surprised when my penis was bigger and I had pubic hair: /but then I got use to it and it was cool."
--Anthony, 11

"Why do your breasts hurt."
--Madai, 11

"When I got my period I got soooo freaked out like totally."
--Gabriella, 11

"Why do we get are period so early?? I have my period and it's not easy I don't want it."
--Dianne, 11

"Anonymous, I'm in the same position. It's been 4 months."
--Soccer Addict, 12

"I'm scared of getting a period."
--Puberty, 12

"I have my period and I don't want it because I never know when it's coming and I don't want it so early........Why are we getting our period so early in life now."
--Dianne, 11

"All my life I've never had an issue with size. I've always been a bit on the small side in height and weight but it didn't matter. Then puberty hit and I grew 6 inches and gained about 30 pounds! I feel huge!"
--Vicki, 11

"Sometimes you want to grow up but really growing isn't always the best be Ôcause you're on you own so sometimes it's best for you to slow down and enjoy life."
--Kate, 10

"Periods. I don't like them! When I first got it I drink warm water. It feels a bit better. God made us to go through puberty for a reason."
--Anonymous, 11

"I started and I'm only ten. Some girls in my class did too."
--Anonymous, 10

"I have not had my period yet but I do have pubic hairs and that stinks because some times they get stuck to your panties and your mom is always like let me see I see a question on this page u usually start when you are11-12."
--SAMI, 10

"I think developing at different speeds & times, (I have a VERY, VERY, small chest!)."
--Helpme!, 10

"Well today I went to the bathroom and when I saw something on my thing I was scared I told my friends and they all made fun of me I don't know how to tell my parents plz somebody help me."
--Anonymous, 11

"Dear PBS KIDS, I really want to use a tampon but I am scared to tell my mom I want one and I don't know what to do!"
--Sharon, 12

"My friend at summer camp had hers in the pool."
--Lexi, 9

"Erections because I'm in a swim team when I get in the water it's cold and that gives me an erection then everyone sees it and laughs."
--Esteban

"Anonymous: If a girl hasn't had her period for a while after it started that might happen when u first start. But it u started ur period less than a year ago, u could skip a few. Just talk 2 ur mom or doctor."
--Madi : -), 12

"CherryCheese, 10, just ask a question and I will try 2 help the best I can..."
--Madi : -), 12

"Mimi, 11, ok, ppl really, ur not any1 else! Ur u! I got my period when I was 10 and my mom got hers when she was 15! Maybe u will get urs when ur mom did, but u might not! Teachers aren't always right! I speak from EXPERIENCE! So listen 2 ur body, not ur moms, how many years have u had breasts, do u have discharge? just listen 2 urself. Sorry if this sounds mean, but I really want u gurls 2 understand!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Hair is fairly annoying I don't mind the pubic hair I have as it makes me feel older it's more the hair under my arms and legs that others see."
--Jenna, 10

"I haven't got my period yet but I'm waiting for it to happen should I wear a pad just in case." --Anonymous. Try wearing a pad only now and then and keep a pad, undies and pants in your bag just in case. Don't try a tampon till your period is a once a month thing. To tell when your period will steady out figure out when it began. If it began 10-11 years it'll take about 1-2 years to even out, 12-13 is 3-4 years and 13+ is 4 years+."
--D0t123, 11

"The word puberty just makes me laugh. We were doing the plant life cycle the other day and we got 2 fertilization and we couldn't stand. Miss was there going the word sex makes u laugh n then we all laughed. Sum1 came up 2 me and said "Sex" I was in tears so it's no big deal talk about it with sum1 u feel comfortable with. For m it's my Mom and my big sister!"
--Molly, 10

"The feminine issues. I deal with it by talking with some one."
--Melinda, 12

"I just got my period today and I feel good about it! I hardly got any pains and mine is really light. I just told my mom and she got me a pad and told me when to change it. It's pretty easy so far...But I got mine like 3 hours ago."
--Helen, 12

"How long will it take to grow a mustache if your are 9 years old."
--Kain, 9

"What age do girls usually begin needing to use deodorant."
--Anonymous

"Well star one way to get your "End of a sentence" is to not worry bout it if you do it will come later."
--A naruto fan gurl

"I mean like what is some signs your having your 'end of a sentence"."
--A smart gurl

"Maria: I have to disagree. You need to do something about puberty, don't ignore it. And for all you girls who have parents that won't listen, I have a tip. Talk to your school counselor. If u don't have one, talk to an older sister, an older friend, or even a close friend's mother. You'll feel uncomfortable at first, but they'll know what to do..."
--Taylor, 12

"Elias, 12: I know you're a guy, and I'm a girl, but if your, uh thing, starts hurting you need to either talk to a parent or doctor. Hope this helps..."
--Taylor, 12

"Miah: You are SO right, there is nothing you can do about it. You just need to go with the flow for a bit until others catch up to you. Meanwhile, carry around a pad or tampon, for secured safety, of coarse!"
--Taylor, 12

"Cherrycheese, 10: I'm sorry I can't email you. I'm not allowed to email strangers. I CAN however, keep writing to you through IML! : -) I'm really sorry that you can't shave yet, what you need to do is show your mom your legs. If she still disagrees, read THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU to learn how to shave. Then you can shave in the bath or shower. That's what I do. But, you SHOULD still have someone telling you that you ARE allowed to shave. Talk to your doctor at your next visit. Maybe they can have a word with your mom..."
--Taylor, 12

"Olivia: Breasts and breast buds probably shouldn't be considered "Sexy." They are a natural part of growing up. There's this girl in my social studies class named Nina, and she pulls her shirt down so guys can see her bra. They find it rather amusing. Once a boy touched her bra without asking, and it was on, and he got in big trouble. He SOOO deserved it, however..."
--Taylor, 12

"What is the sticky discharge in my underwear mean in puberty?"
--Katie, 10

"Hey Rebecca 13: I'm a little over weight as well and my breasts are a little bigger than they should be I am a 34A! And the bra I wear makes my breasts look bigger! AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!"
--Aoife:), 11

"I started a long time ago but I just started getting really hairy...I don't wanna be inappropriate but idk what to do...I'm scared to wear a bikini. My back. Butt. Arms. Legs. And bikini area is really hairy : (idk what to do..."
--UhOhhh

"Syd (12), if your pubic hair is already growing, expect your period to happen soon!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"Anonymous, it depends how long, actually. If you started having your period, you will have it at different, unexpected times. Like, one time it's too short between the first time you had your period and the second. Or it's too long. Until you've had your period for a while, you won't really know when to expect your period. Ask your school nurse! P. S. People! Stay in school! P. P. S. LOL."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"SadCar (12), I know this teacher who says tampons are more comfortable than pads. I guess you have to get used to it, but when you do, it'll feel like it's not there. The V-opening-thingie between your legs (what's it called again? ) has the ability to stretch and go back to normal size, so it's safe to use a tampon because when the tampon absorbs the blood-thing or whatever, it'll be alright. And expect your period after/during? your pubic hair grows and when you have discharge! Ask your school nurse!"
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"We're going to see a movie about puberty at our school and it is torture! The girls watch the girls movie and the boys! But I'm not worried about that I'm worried about the boys watching the girl's movie! It's going to be hard to get through the year Ôcause there probably gonna tease us a lot. The boys don't have to worry that much. It's going to be pure horrible torture next year and the next year!"
--Aurin, 11

"Breasts are too big and my hair is too ugly."
--Renesha, 13

"The worst part is the cramping. Usually it hurts bad. Also, I'm usually in school."
--Michelle, 13

"The toughest part about going through puberty, I'd say, for me, was accepting that it was true. I read all about it, and I denied it, thinking it's not true, because I don't want it to be. And talking about it, I hate it when guys talk about it in front of me. I feel like screaming "Guys get it easy!" and there's so much, just getting into it all in my head, the shaving, the bras, the period, he zit, & everything. When it happened, I would look at little kids, and wish I were them to not have to go through puberty, and be young and carefree again."
--Emily, 12

"How old do you need to be, and how do you know."
--Sierra, 10

"I think we should evolve out of periods. I hate them. It's gross and you cant run/play. Plus ur "Stomach" kills! I don't have pms that bad though. No moodiness."
--Rose, 12

"Does everybody get it."
--Briana, 9

"Every boy I see is hot especially emo guys idk why though ps I'm in the 6th grade I may be 11 but that's ’Äòcause I was ready for school then."
--Paris, 11

"The toughest part I would say is the feelings that I as a girl get about things and how I make people mad at me and I didn't even mean it. And the periods ugh...Don't even get me started on those. DIFFICLUT!"
--Y would I tell u?, 13

"One of my testicles goes down like half an inch farther than the other should I be worried?"
--Jonathan2426, 12

"Everything has happened to me except I haven't got my period yet! I already have to wear a size b cup bra, I shave my legs, I have bad body odor down there and I have had discharge for 5 months! Is something wrong with me?"
--Jessica, 11

"Um this is for a IML person umm do you think we should have a section for boys to talk bout puberty and a section for gurls to talk about puberty?"
--Keonna

Message from IML: Hi Keonna! That's a good question. In the beginning we felt it was healthy for guys and girls to share their experiences together, especially since this is a totally anonymous board. But if everyone would rather have it be separated, then we can do that. If you want to cast a vote for having different boards, email us at itsmylife@pbs.org.

"OMG! This stinks my breasts are hurting way bad!"
--Daycee L, 12

"How come GAL lives have to be sooo hard?! And BOY lives DO NOT?! HU HU HU HU?!"
--Olga, 8

"Hey Vivian I have a guy teacher too. It makes you want to run out of the room ’Äòcause he know it's going and it's hard to ask stuff they should split us up in health on and guy don't need to pick on us. In a few years they'll like you. Hey did you watch ever changing for girls."
--Me, 11

"Rebecca you don't want breasts. I wear a b. It's no fun. if you want ’Äòem for a guy well if that's what they want they're jerks."
--Lil, 11

"Do you get fat at the beginning?"
--Me, 12

"Period."
--Jayme, 12

"The toughest part of going through puberty is when you get your period and you need stuff..."
--Destiny, 11

"I just got discharge and I just got a boat and we are going on it every day I am scared that I might have to use a tampon! I guess I will have to get used to it!"
--Katie1, 10

"Hi even though I am only 12 I would say I am fully developed. I wear a c cup bras and have fully grown pubic hair and my periods are regular but puberty does not finish until you're about 18."
--Amanda, 12

"What happens if a gurl has not had her period for a long time even though they had started."
--Anonymous

"I get hard a lot and I'm home schooled so no one really cares but they happen a lot."
--Caleb, 13

"Hello my breasts are developing and it's really painful is there anything I can do to make them feel better?"
--Emily, 11

"Makena, 11 u aren't ur sister. Ur urself. U'll get everything in ur own time. Not ur sisters."
--Madi : -), 12

"Taylor, 12 OMG! I LUV THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU! It is an awesome book and I think all girls should read it!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Charlotte R, 11 I'm sorry it's so hard for u. It happens at different times. Maybe this is a good thing ask ur friend more about periods, then when u get urs u'll feel better then u 2 can help the next and the next and the next!"
--Madi : -), 12

"What I do 4 cramps is I get in a warm bath it help relax you. And exercise. And placing a heating pad on your lower abdomen."
--Anonymous, 12

"Thank You Madi : -), 12, Taylor, 12 and D0t123, 11...I really didn't want to think that this would be happening now! 0_0 I'm really scared so could y'all like e-mail me, maybe give me more advice? Because I really need more help on this! I'm scared very very scared...I really need more help then the book...I guess I could also talk to my 2 puberty friends about also...And no I don't wanna talk to my mom about it, my legs were SUPER hairy and I shaved them and my mom said "No to young" she was gonna let me shave at 14! I can't talk to her about this! So yeah just really! Email me please! (O) _ (O) ~Elizabeth was :) now : ( and I HATE THIS! : D."
--CherryCheese, 10

"My check up is almost here! My doctor is a guy. How can I let him see my vagina and breasts? Last year was no problem ’Äòcause I didn't start puberty yet. I already have pubic hair over there."
--Vivian, 11

"MAN! Last Friday, we watched a movie about puberty--And they showed PARTS, both boys and girls! It's the growth and development movie we had to watch. And I thought it was plain nasty. OK, right now I have discharge and my pubic hair is growing and I'm expecting my period to happen any minute (man, that STINKS! ). I don't wanna wear a bra--It might hurt and people will STARE. LOL, but anyway, I hope puberty ends soon."
--C_Angelie_S, 11

"I have huge breasts. Hey are almost DD's and everyone makes fun of me. Guys always stare at me and say inappropriate things. I like the attention sometimes but other time it makes me feel uncomfortable. I sometimes have to wear 2 bras or a 2nd shirt just to keep them covered."
--Jigu, 13

"I am scared because I haven't got my period yet! I am I have been growing breasts and I have been having a lot of discharge! Does that mean I am close?"
--Syd, 12

"The toughest thing about puberty to me is all the mixed emotions. Some days I'm as happy as ever, the next I'm all depressed. It's a ROLLER COASTER! I also feel really uncomfortable because I feel my chest is too big for me and everything I wear is too little because I'm too chesty. Also irregular periods...Ugh."
--Becca

"Ok I am in menstruation but I have soo many stomach cramps. Can someone help. What should I do?"
--Jamie, 11

"Erection can hurt a lot!"
--Anonymous, 10

"Not being able to shave! My mom won't get me the materials needed and I don't know how! My hair is already really dark and long."
--Angela, 12

"I'm getting taller, and I'm discharging, but I'm not getting breasts, and all my friends have them, it's not fair I'm 13 and have no breasts!"
--Anonymous, 13

"I haven't got my period yet but I'm waiting for it to happen should I wear a pad just in case."
--Anonymous

"Hey for all of you that haven't hit puberty or their period just to tell u that they are not such a big problem you just have to know when to change but most likely you would know. And the pads you'll get used to them in about 1-3 months into it. So don't worry about anyways if you are barely 9 or 10 chances are you wont get it yet, rake it from me I got it when I was 12 and I still am but ill be turning 13 soon so all of you girls just chill. Eventually you'll get it. So don't stress out if your barely 9 or 10 just chill. My sis got it when she was 12. So I didn't need to worry about me going through it first. Soo all of you girls just enjoy that you don't have to worry about when you'll get it and when to change. So take care. Luv ya guys!"
--HAPPY: D, 12

"CherryCheese/Girl, 10, if u have breasts u already r in puberty. But ur period. That's different. U might get ur period soon. That's fine. I got mine when I was 10 2!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Lokita, 12, I know it's weird I'm a girl and answering ur question, but I think everybody needs 2 now about the opposite sex. Guys grow it down there on the lags in their arms. Same places as girls."
--Madi : -), 12

"The worst part of puberty is the development on my chest it seems as if people are looking at my chest instead if me I'm only 13 and I'm already a 36C I wish I had normal sized ones but there's nothing I can do about it."
--Miah, 13

"Does it hurt to wear a tampon? When do I get my period?"
--SadCar, 12

"I'm moving on to fourteen pretty soon. Wet dreams I can deal with but it gets so annoying getting erections because it feels like everyone can see it through your pants. I have pubic hair but that's it no armpit leg hair. I start to wonder if my parents know."
--Bob, 13

"U can't do anything sorry to say but everyone go though it even boys! But girls go though a lot. More from GROWING BREASTS to "You no when the big day comes" it's never easy so try to talk to your mom or your dad they will be glad to help. P. S. Girls I've already got my you know what."
--Brandi, 12

"I am flat-chested and every other girl seems to be happy with big breasts. I just entered middle school last semester. I wear glasses, weigh 92 lbs. And am 5' 5"."
--Sara, 11

"I think that the worst part about puberty (other than the period) is the mood swings, one day you love someone the next you HATE them as if they murdered your best friend."
--Kat, 12

"I'm only 11 years old, I started growing my breasts about 2 months ago, and I haven't saw from my private spot yet. What should I do?"
--Alanna, 11

"The toughest part for me is seeing my friends struggle with it. One forgot her tampons at home and asked me for one. And I haven't started what should I do?"
--Morgan, 11

"I hate having breasts. I'm a little over weight, so they are bigger then they should be. It's so embarrassing because some people can see the bra and some VERY rude boys may pull on the back strap. AHHHHHHHHH!"
--Rebecca, 13

"Well I think I have just started puberty because my breasts are popping out a bit. I wore a tight shirt and it was popping out so I wore a tank top under it all my friends have breasts or bra I have neither."
--Candice, 12

"My penis hurts at times and sometimes I feel like I really wanna kiss a girl! I mean I have a girlfriend named Shanyaya and she just doesn't listen."
--Jacob, 13

"This is for girls out there. Okay u know how when you take like health class and the teacher (my teacher is a female) tells u that when u have a period it's close to the age of your mom's. And she had hers when she was 11 1/2 and I'm that age and I'm afraid. So any girls out there that can give advice."
--Mimi, 11

"Let's get one thing straight...EVERYONE HATES PUBERTY! The toughest part is when you have your period it's soo annoying! My brother (Chris) says he doesn't like puberty because (for boys) your voice changes."
--Bridgette, 11

"OKAY SUpergirl- your the pro- (right) well, when I got mine I was freakin' out, but just don't rush it or be ashamed, it happens! It's cool the way God designed our bodies to work so perfectly! Be ready and always prepared, and ask your mom when she first got it so you can estimate when you might start your period and stuff...Oh, and Midol works wonders."
--Chels

"Star 12, u cant do anything. I know it's hard but ur gonna have 2 just wait. Sorry!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Ok, now everyday my...Hurts and my breasts have been really tender and itchy! Should that mean anything? I'm scared am I going into puberty? I have the different emotion thing everyday and the pain, and the itching! Why is this happening does it mean puberty because I think I'm way to young to be going into it! Help!"
--CherryCheese/Girl, 10

"I've been growing and developing for about a year now I sometimes get cramps about when will I get my period."
--Melissa, 12

"Now I don't have breasts but I have a period!"
--Monica, 10

"I am sorta embarrassed because I have bigger breasts then the girls in my class. At least my mom isn't' puberty crazed!"
--Shanna, 11

"I have little padded bras but I'm starting to get discharge! I don't want my period and my mom is weird she doesn't listen to me at all help."
--No name, 10

"I think that I have too much hair under my arms. I'm embarrassed at swim practice when we stretch. However there is this 4th grader who is worse than moi!"
--Shanna, 11

"Take it from somebody who knows...I've had my period for a while now and it's really not that hard to deal with...Breasts will come, and they will hurt, but don't rush them...All in good time. If you get tummy or back cramps just take ibuprofen or Tylenol or somethin'...Not too much...DON'T TRY TO RUSH ANYTHING...It will not help. You girls can shave now, so when you start bleeding, first ask a really good friend who your pretty sure has already had a period. Or your mom...She's gone through the same thingie your going through, and she understands how embarrassing it can be...Soon you'll not be afraid and just say, "Hey I'm on my period, so don't make me run in gym..."Or something like that. My last tip is always to keep a pad in your backpack. And extra shorts/undies. Dude it happens to every girl, trust your friends, and BE HAPPY! Nothin' to worry bout girlfriend!"
--Supergirl

"My Private hurts all of a sudden, and I'm a guy, MALES Help! Erection is also really bad for me."
--Elias, 11

"Puberty is so scary! We talk about this in health class. My health teacher is a GUY! He talks about the girl stuff and it is so embarrassing. The guys in my class learn this 2. N E 1 in this situation?"
--Vivian, 11

"I hate it when GUYS talk about girl stuff and U KNOW WHAT in front of me. I also hate health class on this topic with a GUY TEACHER."
--Vivian, 11

"I started my period like last Christmas it stinks, and if you play sports than it especially stinks because u get like bumps everywhere it's like totally normal but it still feels weird. Oh and some advice when your breasts develop and your wearing a bra with a tight shirt, don't feel uncomfortable guys think u look sexy. At least that's what mine says..."
--Olivia

"Dear Embarrassed, it's ok. I didn't get mine till I was 14, but now I have a normal cycle and a lot of other people don't. Trust me we are lucky we started later than others. Periods are no picnic...:)."
--Silly Sagie

"The toughest part is when you start to get pimples. I deal with it by not caring."
--Alexa, 12

"Will sleeping on your stomach and chest effect your breast growth?"
--Rebecca, 13

"I am going through puberty. I am getting taller ( about five foot seven), my feet are bigger (10 and a half), and I'm getting hair on my legs and other places! My mother says "Oh, you're becoming a MAN!". It's SO EMBARRASSING!"
--Ryant, 13

"I think the most hardest is wearing a bra."
--A naruto fan gurl

"Cherrycheese I think you should I mean it does not hurt to read it again and it will help you."
--Keonna, 10

"My breasts sometimes get hard why?"
--Megan

"Ashley: It probably was a panty liner, you put them over your underpants..."
--Taylor, 12

"My period was really embarrassing and I hardly get only about every 7 months is that bad. And my breasts are little and I want big ones like my friends. HELP!"
--Stephanie, 10

"The hardest part of puberty is the popularys. I guess I'm not the most popular in the class. I LOVE Harry Potter and Lord of the Rings so that makes me a fantasy dork. I even write on every paper at school HP and Lord of the rings rock. I don't have the prettiest face and the best hair and half the time I think people (even my friends) don't care about me. I just want to say don't worry about the new things that are happing to you just be yourself and you'll get through it. Anyway...HP + LORD OF THE RINGS ROCK 'n' ROLL!"
--Grace, 11

"Umm...Isn't it obvious? duh! Periods. Gosh, why do girls have it so hard but all guys get is like, voice changes at the most. Guys, give the X chromosomes some respect! We gave birth to u! (well not me, but other women)."
--Rose, 12

"The toughest part is telling your parents you had your period. Because your whole family might find out and it's scary!"
--Fatima, 12

"I hate it."
--Fatima, 12

"I got my period when I was in grade six and it was NOT at school. I thought I felt more mature, and there was nothing to be afraid of when you get your period."
--Alyssa, 13

"To answer Star Age 12: You can't make your period come sooner, you just have to wait till you get it and don't be ashamed if it's in front of friends. Say IT'S NORMAL! You cannot make your breasts grow faster either. Your body has to adjust to puberty. You know when you are getting cramps when you get a pain just below your belly button. Discharge is a white sticky thick type liquid and it comes out before you start to get your period, you get this to make your private moist. DON'T GET GROSED OUT! AND PLEASE BE MATURE! Don't worry about your breast size, they will grow. And when they start to grow you will get your period very soon. It is normal for them to hurt when you bump them, just be careful. You get cramps below your belly button. Doing a head stand against the wall will Not make your period start sooner. As I said before it comes at a certain time when you body starts to develop hair under your arms, private parts arms legs and more, other sighs are your breasts growing bigger, bad attitudes and more. The age range from when you can get your period is when you are either from 10or 9 to about 14 or 15, if you don't get it by the age of 15, no worries just go see a doctor or tell your mother. Your armpits are probably itching because they are growing hair. There you go : ) I hope that helped you star - 12. I am 13 and I already got my period so I know how it feels. Don't worry. Your time will come and I repeat you can't control when you get your period!"
--Alyssa, 13

"I got my period it's annoying but my friend has helped me through it. Also if you keep pads in your bag it's not to bad."
--Colleen, 11

"I think puberty is really hard when you are waiting for it to start properly. As a lot of the time it takes forever, like your nipples are sore for a year and absolutely nothing happens. It is so annoying!"
--Charlie, 11

"The toughest part about puberty? I don't think you can single it out like that. Anyone who has any questions-look in the body part, under puberty, read through that, if ur a girl go under 'For Girls' for guys, go under 'For Boys'. I've got breasts, B. O., & hormone changes. Apparently periods happen last, but there's a lot of worrying about when it's going to happen once you learn about it, like my mom's friend got it on the first day of middle school and there was a lot of blood, and she bled onto the stand, and they were sitting closest to the door and everyone saw it. But if u have one of these, don't worry. People won't make fun of you once they get it, and apparently for boys it's pretty bad too. The hard part is thinking you're the only one. If you look on here, a lot of people have questions. Breasts won't grow sooner, there's no remedy, but apparently bottled water has chemicals that make puberty come sooner, but it also increases risk of cancer; so it's kind of not worth it. For all of you guys out there that are still worried, don't worry..."
--Anonymous

"I think the toughest part is the period. It is so hard to get used to. I dealt with it pretty well though, all I did was keep a calendar, but since it was irregular for the first 5 months, I just carried a pad in my pocket and wore a pantyliner just in case I wasn't ready for it, since it kept coming at different times. I was 11 years old when I got it. I knew I had because all of a sudden in the morning I got up felt a sharp pain in my lower abdomen, went to the bathroom, and OMG THERE IT WAS! THATS MY STORY!"
--Rylie, 12

"Hi I'm Katie! My breasts haven't developed yet but I have underarm and public hair and think I could start my periods anytime now but I don't know how I can ask my mum to buy me some ads in case I start at school but it's not something I can ask my mum ’Äòcos I'm shy! HELP ME!"
--Katie, 10

"My friend is mad at me because I got I before her! Like what is her problem you don't wanna have it!"
--Jess, 11

"Bras."
--Anonymous

"The toughest part about puberty is when I have my period and the odor."
--Karen, 12

"Why do guys have to be so immature?"
--Baby phat, 12

"Where do guys grow their hair? Do they grow around there private parts?"
--Lokita, 12

"I don't like my penis growing it hurts."
--Anonymous

"The toughest part of going through puberty is if you start it before your friends. I've already gotten my period but my best friend hasn't so when I'm in the bathroom longer than she is she just doesn't get why."
--Jessica, 10

"I got a bra at 8."
--Anonymous

"CherryCheese, 10, u probably r going thru puberty. It okay, u wont hit the worst part for a while. And u should get informed so ur know what's coming! Good luck!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Getting my breasts my parents wont get me cup bras."
--Kaya, 9

"The toughest part of puberty is when acne comes and gets me everywhere!"
--Jennifer, 13

"Ughhh I HATE pimples they got all over my face I think that is the toughest part for me! I just want to have a clean FACE! I use proactive but it doesn't seem to be working!"
--Anonymous, 13

"For the first 3 days of my period I have such bad cramps. I sometimes cry it hurts so bad. Like in my lower back and my tummy. What should I do?"
--Silly Sagie, 13

"O. M. G. All of my other friends are getting breasts, and I am the only one in the class with no breasts. I feel so dorky."
--Brennan, 10

"One word...PERIODS ok this is how I handle it, I wear dark pants (just in case) and I take a mydol in the morning so it helps the cramps, and I tell my friends and I bring extra pads and stuff to school just in case I REALLY need to change: S anyway if u have your period DON'T WORRY it happens to everyone AND DON'T KEEP IT A SECRET tell ur mom RIGHT away so she can help you: D."
--Carrie, 12

"I already have had my period. I have not told my mom. I have pubic hairs already and I'm 11! I don't worry about anything. Periods are nothing so don't worry about it!"
--BLah, 11

"Hey guys, I feel awful ’Äòcuz all my friends are talking about "Emo" and I don't know what that means! Plz! SOME1! What dose emo mean? I know it is like "U r emo" but I don't know what emo means! PLZ HELP! PLZ!"
--Madison, 11

"T mac: talk 2 ur mom about this if she doesn't listen then talk 2 ur health teacher or aunt I hoped I helped."
--Hanaa, 10

"Hi, Brook, 13 You should tell your mom or dad that you have neck problems tell them before it gets even worse. I hope the pain in your neck doesn't get any worse. Bye."
--Jess, 13

"Hey I've got cramps right now and down below feels weird like it's tingling what is it and what are wet dreams also it's kinda embarrassing when I'm at school and in p. E ’Äòcause my friend is developing faster and I'm really annoyed y can't I develop like her I kinda fell left out also what is the average age to start your periods. 11 in April 26 so close."
--Someone, 10

"It's gotta be the periods. They STINK. They're horrible! I hate them. And BOYFRIENDS. U think u want to like guys like that, but u don't! Ends bad. Puberty is NOT fun."
--Eh., 13

"The scariest thing about puberty is knowing if something is normal or not. For instance, sometimes I get a white icky substance on my underwear."
--Sarah, 10

"I have a problem: I feel like everything has been refreshed in my life. Everything is turning good for me. The weird thing is that when this started happening, my sister said she hated me and she was mad. I know that's strange but is it puberty?? Or other?"
--Kessy, 9

"I started my period a few months ago at home. I just saw blood and got a little scared. The weird thing is that I started 2 days after my school talk to the girls about periods. After I told my friends (Vanessa and Cindy) I felt good so now I'm cool about my period!"
--Monica, 10

"I have started to get this white gooey stuff on my knickers it happened a lot for about 3 weeks but I haven't started my period yet why is this???"
--Sarah, 11

"My period just started 2day on the Boston Duck Tour boat. 04-16-08."
--Won't_tell_U

"I have to wear this bra every day. All the boys stare when I play sports and I hate it. And I hate how showing a bra can be."
--Taylor, 12

"What on earth causes discharge? Is it a sign of a period?"
--Taylor, 12

"Jack, 10 you should not worry. It happens to everyone of all ages. It's called discharge..."
--Cathie

"IckyVicky, Don't get creeped out. It's OK! Just watch the video. About you hair, no need to worry, it's normal."
--Supadupa, 12

"Yes I am in forth grade and I do wear bras and no one make fun of me."
--Jennifer, 10

"Fiona, if you're 8 you probably aren't starting to go through puberty. You'll know. When my breasts started to develop I felt them ache when I put pressure on them. For periods, you'll see a red thing on your pants. But if you ARE going through puberty tell a parent. They'll help you through it."
--Taylor, 12

"Sumbuddy, discharge is when white stuff comes out of your you-know-what..."
--Taylor, 12

"Kaylyn, Omg, no need to worry! Most girls don't start until they are at least 12, like me. You'll know when you get your period, trust me."
--Taylor, 12

"No name, I think you should ask a parent what a period is..."
--Taylor, 12

"MY opinion on boys is that thy should like you for who you are, not how big your breasts are..."
--Taylor, 12

"I think the hardest thing of puberty is PERIOD! I don't have my PERIOD yet, but my sister say she take MYDOL and it makes her feel waaaaaay better!"
--Nonyabeezwax1, 11

"I had a health class yesterday and they talked all about puberty (I absolutely, POSITIVELY REFUSE TO POST WHAT OUR HEALTH TEACHER TALKED TO US ABOUT!!!!! ) Thank you for your time. ;) :) : p."
--Kitten, 11

"Hey Guys"!!! Guess what I have not had my period yet but my sister just got it last year when she was 14 and I was 10. But now she is 15. And it was hard the few first months but now she is fine. My question is will I get breast, acne, and my period when my sis got it because I have not got discharge on my underwear yet and also I do not have breasts yet. My sis got her breast when she was 13. PLZ ANSWER ME I HAVE LOTS OF QUESTIONS!?!?!?!?!"
--Makena, 11

"I think the toughest part about going though puberty is getting all the blood stains that won't come out. Looks like it's time to go shopping again!"
--Emily, 9

"Hey Tanika I live with my dad too. And I'm already going through my period. I was on the website and my dad came in. At first I was scared but then my dad started talking about it. Then I didn't feel so bad. My best advice for you is to invite your dad into the room and go on this website, go to puberty and start reading out loud. That should brake the ice. Then ask your dad a few questions like, what was the hardest thing about going though puberty and then go from there."
--Emily, 9

"Toughest part about puberty to me is the rumors. Some kids have started rumors about me starting life and saying things that aren't true. I have advice for people like me. 1st don't show your offended, be confident, oh and don't be mean about it. 2nd if you can't talk to them about it around people try calling them or send them a letter telling them how it made you feel. And 3rd try to look back at it as if something might've been made up, seen, or heard by mistake. But whatever happens I'm wishing you good luck!!!!"
--Abigail, 11

"I started my period when I was 8 yrs old! My mom and family members always got me a bra for Christmas. My cup size when I was 8 was 32A and now it's a size B!!!!! I got used to have a big problem with it but I suddenly got used to it. You just go with the flow! :)."
--Savannah, 12

"I had my period."
--Blair, 11

"Julia: when u get ur period u slow down growth. Right? ’Äò’Äòcuz that is what my doctor said and I'm happy ’Äò’Äòcuz when I slow down I get 2 GET OUT OF THE *BEEPING* BACK BRACE!!!!!! I HATE IT!!! Now I just need 2 tell my mom that I have my period."
--Madi : -), 12

"Marlenne, 10: I have the same problem u have. When u get ur period say "Mom, I just got my period." She will understand I hope mine will."
--Madi : -), 12

"Shawanda, 12: we go thru puberty so we can MAKE BABIES."
--Madi : -), 12

"My hardest part about going through puberty is going to school and not knowing I was going to start my period. And also there was this time there was a girl in my PE Class. We were playing volleyball and all of a sudden blood dripped out, and she was so embarrassed."
--Cristina, 12

"I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE Puberty!!!!!!!!! It is sooooooooooooooo annoying! I get the mood changes and my guardians think that it is because I am stuck up!!!! And I Hate breasts, bras and the DOT. It is soooo annoying to have to worry about all of this stuff..."
--Brooke, 11

"Mary: when you start your period you will go in the bathroom and see red stuff on your underpants. Since your 12 like me and I got MY period, you might want to carry around some pads..."
--Taylor, 12

"Cherrycheese, 10: Mood swings and sore breasts are symptoms of puberty. The mood swings could be part of a period, or just something going on in your life. Read THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU for more!"
--Taylor, 12

"Marleene, YES! You are normal, and so are your breasts. I started wearing a bra at age 9! There is no ’Äòcause for alarm!"
--Taylor, 12

"Hi, I'm Elizabeth and I'm 10...Ok I don't want puberty or anything but yet my breasts are sore and I'm starting to sweat at random moments, and I am a bra size AA, and I'm getting new emotions and I'm having different emotions like mood swings! I read "The Book" as in the YOU book and it said I should be worried about emotions like I explained earlier! Am I going through puberty? Should I start reading "THE BOOK" again? Please help me!"--CherryCheese, 10. Everything is normal! You will get new emotions and the old 1s get stronger during puberty. You've felt emotions before, but now you feel really STRONG emotions. Instead of just disliking something, you HATE it. Instead of liking something, you LOVE it. You were a little jealous before, but now you're SUPER jealous. There have been times when you were sad, but now you feel TOTALLY DEPRESSED. In other words, your emotions have gotten more intense. Talk later about the rest!"
--D0t123, 11

"HEY GIRLS!!! Period problems: they totally stress u out and stress makes acne worse! Solution: chillax! Take hot baths, read or give your self a spa day and unwind AND DON'T STRESS OUT!!!"
--D0t123, 11

"Sarah: There is really no way that you can make your breasts grow other than waiting. Actually, you should enjoy them NOT growing while you can because when they do start it kind of hurts (no need to be worried, though! ). Everyone starts at different times."
--Advicegirl

"To Hannah: Try sitting down with your Mom (don't be nervous! ) Take a deep breath and say "Mom, I feel like I am ready for a bra." Also, explain what happens to you in gym. If your Mom says no, ask her for a training bra maybe. Hope this helps!"
--Advicegirl

"To JLynn, 11: You never know when you will get your period. Some people get it at like, 11 and some people get it at 16! Don't be worried. Just have fun!"
--Advicegirl

"You just ignore it and it will be over before you know it."
--Maria, 10

"It's kinda weird because one day you are fine but, the next you are getting taller, and other things are happening to you. It is really SCARY BUT, IT'S JUST LIFE IT HAPPENS TO EVERYBODY!!!"
--Bobby, 12

"Well puberty where do I start...I don't want to grow up and go through puberty and I'm ummmm 10! But I am scared and I have a book that tells me about puberty and I am really really scared my mom got it when she was 12 and got her breasts at well 12! But she was in the middle of a class in school and a boy noticed and laughed! I am scared that that will happen to me, will it happen when I am a pre teen or 11, 12, 13! Help!!!!"
--Alyssa, 10

"My friend started her periods last week but I wanted to start first in my friendship group. What do I do?"
--Charlotte R, 11

"Hi I'm Charlotte my friends call me Lotty and I am really upset. My Best friend started her periods last week and I wanted to start first what do I do HELP? P. S. I no it sounds horrible but I really need to no what to do?"
--Charlotte R, 11

"I feel so...Ugh. I think the worst part is the period..."
--May

"I actually like puberty. I like how ur body develops. My breasts are full grown now. I actually LUV wearing a bra. It makes me feel so adult ish. I just hate the pains."
--Carolina

"I haven't gone through my period or getting a bra but I am getting hair in certain places. I really don't like puberty but it is the first sign of be coming a woman!"
--Jeanna, 9

"To me the toughest part about puberty is growing breast. I deal with it because I do wear a bra it has been a year since I started growing breast and just to say I got use to it."
--Brandy, 12

"To D0t123, 11: If you are getting cramps down there, it might mean that you will get your period soon. Don't worry, I am about your age and I don't have cramps yet, but I do have some breasts. Note: If you get your period at school, you don't have to panic. Just chill! If you don't have a pad or a tampon, just fold some toilet paper up and put it in your underwear! Easy as that! Oh, and this isn't JUST for school, you can do this at any public place!"
--Advicegirl

"Well probably the bra. I deal with it by wearing strapless bras so boys won't be like "Why do you have straps? Is that your t-shirt?" If you can't find strapless just ask an adult you trust how to deal with it and don't buy shirts that make you feel weird."
--Kaliyha, 10

"Dear Lauren 9, you can get it between the ages of 8- 16 so you might get yours when your 11 or 14. Some girls are early but most aren't. So it's not unusual or weird..."
--Narnian girl, 11

"I have only just started puberty and my mum got me some pads to wear now to get used to wearing them by the time I get my period."
--Jane, 10

"I just got my first period in class and didn't know I talked to the teacher at recess and she gave me a diaper? it was a pull-up she is really weird and yes I wore it."
--Ashley, 12

"Alana: Try talking 2 a different family member (an aunt, 4 Xampl) or another trusted adult."
--Shoot4themoon, 13

"How did u get ur period at 8?"
--Chantel, 10

"Hey, it's me again. It's April fourteenth and I still don't have my period. I am so glad I don't want to have it. But I'm afraid of getting my period."
--Antoinette, 13

"How do you make your period start sooner if you never have had it. And how do you make your breasts grow faster? how do you know when you are getting cramps? and what is discharge? my breasts kill but there quite small still they have been tender since September! And it's April! They still haven't grown! And I don't know what to do when I get bumped or something like that because it hurts so bad and I just told my mom in march that they were tender! And she only said oh. What do I do! And where do you get cramps? how do you know it's cramps when you get them? I have heard a way to make your period start sooner is doing head stands against the wall is this true? how do you make your period start sooner? and is there a way to make your breasts grow faster? I have been having mood swings since the begging of 5 grade and I'm at the end of 7 and I haven't started my period when will I? my armpits are always itching and I don't know why will someone please help me!"
--Star, 12

"I have hair on my arm legs the private part and light hair under my arms am I going threw puberty and if you have pimples are you going threw puberty."
--T Mac, 13

"In school we had a bunch of classes on this to make sure we know exactly what is going on. It helps a lot to get it over with and to know more about what is going on with your body."
--Amy, 12

"I'm so flat chested and I wish I could wear a bra! Help me!"
--Anonymous, 9

"Hi, I'm Elizabeth and I'm 10...Ok I don't want puberty or anything but yet my breasts are sore and I'm starting to sweat at random moments, and I am a bra size AA, and I'm getting new emotions and I'm having different emotions like mood swings! I read "The Book" as in the YOU book and it said I should be worried about emotions like I explained earlier! Am I going through puberty? Should I start reading "THE BOOK" again? Please help me!"
--CherryCheese, 10

"Well, I want to be popular but there is no way I can. In middle school everyone has to dress alike think alike etc, etc, etc. I don't want to be like someone else, I like to be myself. If I won't be like anyone else, these one boys tease me about it ’Äòcause everyone has short hair and contacts, and I have long think curly hair and I wear glasses. In my middle school everyone is going out with someone but guess what...I have no one. Sometimes I get depressed about my looks, as if no one likes me, and I get depressed about my odor, I spray like the whole bottle of spray, 24-7 hours a day 7 days a week, and my glasses, I hate them! What should I do ’Äòcause I really don't want to tell on the people that tease me ’Äòcause they would tease me more and more. Please help me."
--Henasee, 13

"Star 12, I know just how u feel, I cant talk 2 my mom and I'm homeschooled, discharge is kind of clearish white stuff u will get in ur underwear b4 ur period. And cramps will just be like ur stomach is sore but u will notice ’Äòcuz it wont be just a hungry feeling lol."
--Madi : -), 12

"Alana, 11 I'm sorry for u. When u get it tell ur parents u were reading about it online on a PBS site called It's My Life."
--Madi : -), 12

"Anna, 10 and Jayda, 11: u will be between the ages of 8-16 and ur period is pretty simple, just stick a pad in ur underwear. Ask ur mom about it when u get it."
--Madi : -), 12

"Anonymous and No name: K, to both of u a period is when blood comes out into ur underpants. And bras don't feel much different then having an undershirt on. I recommend the book THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU. I can't tell u everything so books will help more."
--Madi : -), 12

"Me: o that's fine. I just didn't wanna get in a fight, u didn't sound rude! : -)."
--Madi : -), 12

"Hey I'm starting to get white gooey stuff in my underwear. What is it?"
--Nicole, 11

"How do I know when I well start my period?"
--Mary, 12

"I hit puberty when I was 9. I feel a little embarrassed about it, and I'm wondering why I STILL haven't gotten my stupid period yet. But it's not as embarrassing because I am homeschooled, so I don't have to worry about being bullied. And nobody knows but my mom and I. If you feel bad for not hitting puberty at a certain age, just think: some girls don't start puberty until they're 19! Imagine getting your first period in your early twenties! Plus, it's not a race and there are no prizes for being the first girl to hit puberty, wear a bra, and all that stuff."
--Chihuhua14, 11

"I am a early developer. I got a bra when I was 10..."
--Kelly, 12

"When I got my period I really scared because my older sister said that I would sop growing and I really wanted to grow more but when I found when the whole puberty stage ends you could sop growing now I hope I could be 5ft8 or7."
--Julia

"I already have breasts at the age of 10. Is that normal? Or is that just weird? What if I get my period at a time when I can't get any help? What do I do? I just can't ask my mom for a pad like a weirdo or can I? HELP!"
--Marlenne, 10

"Why do we girls have to go through puberty why couldn't we just enjoyed our lives as it is?"
--Shawanda, 12

"Trust me, periods are icky! I've had mine once, but I already know!"
--Ivana

"Ello, I've had my. For like 2 years now and it's not scary...Once you get past the fact you will be having this every month, it's fine...Just don't think!"
--WLlooo

"Dear Star 12, Go to a bookstore, that's how I found out and I'm homeschooled."
--Zoe, 12

"Dear Hilda 9, You're only NINE! I didn't start getting them until I was 11. Please, don't put yourself in peer pressure."
--Zoe, 12

"I have bras like little under wear bras and a sorta real bra but I have had discharge before but I don't have my period yet. Why? am I too young."
--Lauren, 9

"Ya wearing a bra I'm scared but I have to."
--Maeve, 12

"The worst part of going through a period is when there is a red dot on your pant that everyone is looking at."
--Maddi, 13

"My first period is like the hardest part of puberty. I didn't know how to tell my mom, but I did. I couldn't get used to bras, too. It toke me like 3 weeks!"
--Madi : -P, 11

"Have breasts no period."
--Someone, 10

"Hey, the toughest part of going thought puberty is getting my period. I hate it when I have to where pads to school...They are so uncomfortable for me...Is it because I just started and I'm just not used to it. Thanks a lot : P."
--Shy nb, 12

"The worst thing about puberty is probably breasts because I started developing a few months ago and I'm still not comfortable wearing a bra and wearing tight shirts. I feel embarrassed and awkward."
--Sophia, 10

"The smell I hate it when your tummy hurts."
--Sara, 13

"Although I have breast their not a big as my friends but I still were bras to keep them up tell your mom if you are developing otherwise people {guys mostly} will stare. {It's happen tome but I got a boyfriend from it! HA HA HA."
--Nyeila, 11

"Having to tell a parent that you have started your periods."
--Faye, 11

"GUYS HELP ON THIS! I'm getting these cramps really down low, like where my bladder is and a little bit lower where my...Um...Area starts. Is this normal? PLEASE help!" --Angie." PLEASE you guys! It seems like everybody else is changing except me! I'm 11 and 1/2 with no discharge, no breast buds, no hair, nothing! PLEASE HELP Advicegirl and Madi, 12. What's wrong with me?" --Angie, 11. I'm Just like you, age and puberty stats. Ever1 starts at different times. I have itty bitty buds and Karli in my class is flat! And those pains r normal. Part of PMS. (premenstrual syndrome). Happens before a period!"
--D0t123, 11

"The toughest thing is when you wake up with wet dreams and get erections and people see them through your pants/shorts."
--Benjamin, 12

"Crying Is tough because I never know when I'm going to cry so I talk to my mom dad heavenly father."
--Samantha, 11

"The 2 hardest parts of puberty is your period and legs I am 11 years old and it is hard because bleeding and having to shave and shave is the worst plus breasts boys want one thing and that is to be the coolest person either by dating the hottest girl ever or maybe even being caught kissing a guys girlfriend."
--Kayli, 11

"I think I have puberty. What should I do?"
--Fiona, 8

"I think it is bras. Because when my bra strap sometimes hangs out of my shirt my best friend always tells me and that's really embarrassing! I just tell her to wait till her Mom makes her wear one! P. S what is discharge?"
--Kaley, 10

"When I sent my last message, I was in complete fear of my period to start. Two months ago, it happened. For those of you who are curious, here's how it happened: I was at my Lutheran grade school doing homework. I'd also been waiting for my teacher to call on me so I could go to the bathroom. There I discovered the stains, so when I got home, I put a pantyliner on. The second won happened last month. So yah, I have a regular cycle . Lucky for me, I don't have mood swings or cramps. But I do have a question. What do I do if I have a heavier period in my school since we have no nurse or supplies in our office? Our school is so small our student population is 20 kids! That's it from me."
--Meshelle, 11

"Nia, to find out why girls get breasts, click Choose a Topic and go to puberty. In a FOR GIRLS section, one part should say The Breast Years of Your Life. Read that and you will find out."
--Caryn, 10

"When I'm asleep and semen comes out, embarrassing! But I wash my sheets now."
--Fernando

"I don't want to get breasts I am scared."
--Lauren, 12

"I hate breasts! So instead of wearing the padded bras my mom got me, I wear a jacket, but now the weather getting to warm for that. If the class sees I'm developing, I'll just die! Help!"
--Meshelle, 11

"Well idk about the whole puberty thing I mean u just got 2 live life and go through puberty every body does and if u need info ask ur parents that's what they're 4."
--Jazlyn

"This white stuff is coming out of my you know...Should I worry."
--Jack, 10

"I have white stuff coming out of my you know what."
--Dave, 12

"My periods."
--Donna

"Periods. They are such a pain. They catch you off guard, you get pains and you feel horrible. Also I hated it when you best mates seems to all have bigger breasts than you feels horrible = (."
--Chanel, 13

"When you go through puberty you get moodier. I think that's the toughest part of puberty because it kinda gets you grounded more. That's what happened to me."
--Kitten, 11

"Hey Anonymous (11) : Discharge looks like white sticky stuff in ur knickers! It's kinda like glue! Hope this helps! If u have anymore questions ask me!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"I know everyone says it's not a big deal, but to me, it's SCARY! I can't get over the fact that someday my period will come, and it's soon! HELP ME! I know it's nothing to worry about, everyone tells me what to expect, and STILL I worry! What can I do to help myself?"
--OoOoOoOo, 12

"Me having armpit hair some people laugh if a have on a tank top and it shows my hair. And also having hair on my bikini spot and me being fat me having pimples and bumps on my face."
--Iyonna, 10

"The hardest thing for me is stronger body odor. I take impulse and roll on to school and put more on every break and lunch :)."
--Fai, 12

"My breasts started getting tender and I feel to weird talking to my mom and I started getting hair between my legs about 2 months ago. What is discharge? and how do you know if your having cramps and discharge or not please I'm home schooled and don't get maturation and I am busy all the time so I don't get to talk to my friends and my mom is weird to talk to please please help me!"
--Star, 12

"I'm going through puberty now and I think the toughest part of puberty is that everyone grows at a different time and it's kind of hard to see your best friend look more developed then you when your both the same age. But every one grows at a different time."
--Allison, 12

"It's me, 11, don't rush it u won't like it much when you do get it."
--Sarah, 12

"Cortney, 11, okay so u will get it when your body's ready. Sometimes you develop more in other places earlier than when u get it."
--Sarah, 12

"Kenrox-Kendall, 11, in time everyone starts at different times. You can't just say a certain age."
--Sarah, 12

"All the girls in my grade are tall and have big ones...And they are all popular...I'm short and have a flat chest...How do I fit in?"
--Jamie, 11

"I feel soooooooo icky; seriously! My breasts feel weird and plus, my pubic hair is creeping me out. The kids at my school have to watch a movie about puberty (don't worry, the boys are separated from the girls) and there are "Parts." I have no idea what it's rated, but I think it should be rated "E" for "Exposed"!"
--IckyVicky, 11

"I am so scared to get my period. I go to an all-girls school and only some of us have started out period. We still refer to it as "The end of the sentence", and when I do, I feel very immature, but getting my period scares me to death."
--Catherine, 12

"Hey! Okay so...I am 14 years old and I've had almost the exact same bra size since 7th grade! (I'm in 9th now) when will my breasts start to grow again?!"
--Lindsey

"My sister is nine and she asked me why I have hair between my legs and she don't and so I gave her a little talk on puberty and what changes happen."
--Penny, 13

"I'm going for a physical next week, and I have a lady doctor, and the results of my tests come in the mail."
--Jake, 13

"Erections are the toughest thing. I have gotten them at school a few times, luckily I am sitting in a desk usually when they happen..."
--Shaun, 13

"My Aunt told me all about puberty! But I still didn't understand. What is puberty?? I don't even that red stuff!"
--Jazmine, 10

"I haven't started it yet but...I'm really scared. I'm scared because I know that when I have my period, I won't be prepared because MY PARENTS DON'T EVEN THINK I KNOW WHAT THE WORD MEANS! They won't help me and if I tried to bring it up they would yell at me wondering how I found out about it. All I know is, my parents aren't helping, so who WILL???"
--Alana, 11

"I still haven't started my period and my mom and sister started when they were 10."
--Anonymous, 12

"Albana, when u get ur period it hurts some girls but not all. It will mostly hurt ur stomach and below. Hope this helps!"
--Madi :)-), 12

"Angie, 11:) NOTHING is wrong with u Angie. Promise. Girls usually start puberty between 8-14. U will be fine. Promise. I understand this is hard but NOTHING is wrong with u. Ur body is on a schedule all its own..."
--Madi :)-), 12

"I really, really want to have breasts! I see some girls at school, the street, and in TV, they all have breasts! I'm always asking my mom if I have and she says a little bit, but I want to have more! Not too much but at least something that I can notice!"
--Hilda, 9

"It does not matter when you use tampons. I started using tampons during my second period. I had trouble the first time using them but I got used to them. I would recommend tampax pearl if you need you can get smaller sizes. If you do lots of sports it's easier and more convenience. For pads I would use always pads. I hope this info helps Leyte..."
--Virginia, 12

"The worst part of it is when you see the blood you might be scared but don't be it's alright every woman goes through it! If you are ok with it tell a grown at school at a sport (a coach)! You want to start with pads and when you get older you switch to tampons! It's ok to take a bath (I was so scared to take one! )."
--Ashley, 11

"The hardest thing is getting used to it. Everyone is acting all awkward now. & people think it's funny, but I take it seriously..."
--Vanessa, 11

"I have my period but I'm scared to tell my mother so what do I do oh and I'm almost in my moms bras what should I do raven?"
--Lizzy, 11

"Definitely getting my period. I was embarrassed to tell me mom and stuck toilet paper in my underwear till I could find pads! It was also kind of scary."
--Abby, 12

"Probably having wet dreams and erections. And having "The Talk" with your dad about sex. But I already know about puberty, but I don't tell my dad that, so he thinks I'm clueless."
--Samuel, 11

"Well, I just got my aunt flo at school, today."
--Anonymous

"I haven't had my period yet...But I am looking for some tips! Can some1 help...PLEASE!"
--Anna, 10

"How old do you have to be to get your period?"
--Jayda, 11

"Hey I have come on my periods an other times I have been on it has not hurt this bad I sorta heavy as well n it kills. What can I do?"
--Shannon, 12

"No way anonymous, wait a while and you will have stick-out breasts. P. S. I do not know."
--Laura, 9

"So I have these cramps in my stomach. My mom and dad took me to see two different doctors two different months. The first one said "Well, I think that she is just changing inside, getting ready for menstruation" My mom was cool with it, but my dad was kind of embarrassed. The next day my mom bought me pads! She let me try one on (That may sound weird, but I was wondering! ). It felt like wearing a diaper. I didn't mind, though. The next doctor said the same thing. My mom was cool with it, and my dad wasn't as embarrassed. What's worse is when I told my friends, and she got jealous :)/"."
--Rebecca, 9

"For girls with periods, I have found that if u do a lot during ur period it helps u forget about it and it feels like it ends quicker!"
--Madi :)-), 12

"Mariah, 13:) Nope, I'm not boy-crazy. YAY ME! THAT MEANS I'M NOT INSANE! (No offense 2 U girls who R boy-crazy. ) I don't wanna B distracted by them all the time now, & I don't wanna have 2 work 4 2 ppl in the future. +, I like being by myself & doing things my own way, & with a husband in the house, doing things only my way will B difficult. So far, my personality is not right 4 a family. 1s again, no offense 2 U girls who wanna get married--Actually, we need girls like U, b/c if every girl thought like me, the human race would go Xtinct!"
--Shoot4themoon, 13

"Mine is sweating! I hate it I just keep my arms down all day!"
--Shane, 11

"I haven't had puberty yet but, I have been wondering since getting the period is so scary and tough why is it? What is so scary about it? I don't get it? Is it a big deal? What happens when you have it? please help. My mom says I can go throw puberty any time. So please help."
--Anonymous

"I'm really afraid of puberty. I have a few questions. Can some friendships end? What is a period? Don't worry I'm a girl. What does a bra feel like?"
--No name

"All my friends at school are like 6 months younger than me and my mom says that those small months apart make a big difference in the puberty ages. So I am coming up to puberty, ( ex:) starting to like boys, growing breasts, etc) and my friends aren't. It is hard but someone has to go through it first. I deal with it by looking up to all the celebs who say in magazines about puberty and how they dealt with it. I hope this helps some other girls like me! :))."
--Hanna, 11

"I am always worrying about when I will get my period and where. I keep a sweatshirt or jacket with me so if it happens I can tie it around waist so no one will see."
--Holly, 11

"Madi, 12- I wasn't really going to get in a fight about something as stupid as that. I just read over what I posted a long time ago...I am so sorry! I sounded so rude! I didn't mean for it to sound that way. Sorry, I should have said it in a nicer way."
--Me

"Okay I got my period, but what gets me is my breast. I get attention I don't want from boys. I feel really bad. But, I thought to myself and just ignore them or if you just can't tell them you feel uncomfortable of them looking at and if they could quit or quicker way "What are you looking at?" And if you still are feeling that way just talk to a female teacher on how you feel or mom if you can reach her quicker."
--Michelle, 11

"What's a discharge?"
--Sumbuddy

"The toughest part about going through puberty is (the period) talking to my mom about it. I know my dad is no help, and my little 5 year-old sister knows nothing about it. And I haven't gotten my period yet and I'm scared of asking my mom about when she got hers. I might get mine tomorrow for all I know!"
--Rhayna, 11

"I really need help. I couldn't sleep last night because I was thinking about this. I volunteer at a stable. Some of the other volunteers were misbehaving. So all of us had to have a meeting with the woman who owns the stable. Before she had said I was the "Sweetest" kid. And I admire her A LOT. And at the meeting she said something about not cussing. And I couldn't help think, I was cussing like crazy on Thursday with my friend. But we weren't cussing around other people so no one found out. But she seemed angry at me. I said nothing the whole meeting and let everyone else talk. I was scared she thinks I did something. I am never going to cuss again in fear someone might hear and I would get in trouble. I LUV the woman who owns the barn and I want her to like me. I admire her so much. But she seemed angry at the meeting. Is she just angry at me? Or that she didn't know this was going on in her barn? What should I do? I have no clue when the next time I will her her is! HELP! I was crying in bed earlier. I don't want to disappoint her! Is this just the emotions that come with puberty and it is really no big deal or what?"
--Madi :)-), 12

"Worst part or Puberty is when you get depressed and you get pimples. Especially when you have a boyfriend..."
--SceanGirl

"Mariah, 13- I don't think about BOYS BOYS BOYS BOYS. I think about GUYS GUYS GUYS GUYS LOL! SOME R JUST SO *BEEP* HOT!"
--Madi :)-), 12

"I need help to get my stomach to stop hurting."
--Ann, 11

"How do I know what to do when it does happen. My mom won't tell me what I want to know because she doesn't want to lose her Lulu. And a lot of girls don't know what to do because they have their period at school."
--Luna, 11

"Everyone else in my grade has started their period. I haven't so I guess the mood swings are the hardest for me. It is sometimes very hard for me to get through some of the hard stressful emotions that I feel. In my school I feel a lot of pure pressure too. I fell very left out. I know what to expect and I find myself every time going to the bathroom praying oh god plz give me my period! I'm pathetic! I'm scared and I don't like to talk about my feelings because every time I do some one laughs. I wish I had a true friend who understood."
--Natasha, 11

"I totally luv puberty except for cramps. Boys like me now."
--Emily, 9

"Yes I'm old people I just want to give you advice don't be scared! It's totally normal I remember when I was in 7th grade and my breast was growing and it was really tender so tender I cried! That's normal because now I had a 32d and I see why but yeah puberty is actually cool when you learn about it."
--Older dan all

"I hate blood so I am scared I mean WAY scared about the big changes."
--Aware, 11

"My parents have said that when you hit puberty you have arm pit hair (etc.). Well, I have had a mustache since I was 7 does that mean I started since I was 7? also not to be racist but I'm Mexican, and they are said to grow more hair than usual. Will that affect anything?"
--Sergio, 13

"When should I expect my period? what if it happens when I'm in the middle of something really important? why do people have a period at an early age? (my grandma had her period at age 8)."
--Olivia, 10

"Albana when you have a period your stomach usually hurts..."
--Theresa

"I am 13 and I don't have my period...I have ALL the signs (if u no wat I mean) but ppl actually make fun of me 4 not having it yet. I only weigh 94 pounds and I am 5 1 =[."
--Gurlygirl, 13

"It's hard because when you have everything else you are supposed to have...Mustache, etc. And you don't have a deeper voice yet but know this, Just think you're not alone, I don't have one either yet...I am a little depressed but I live."
--Justin, 13

"I already have a bunch of that stuff (breasts, hair etc) should I expect my period?"
--Jessica, 10

"Being way behind in developing."
--Esther, 13

"I deal with puberty by talking about with my best friends. And I feel comfortable doing that because we all go through the same problems in life and even though we all are at different stages in puberty that gives us a chance to share what each of us might go through and what not. Puberty is kind of a hard thing to deal with, especially with girls but it is a part of life that every girl and woman go through. So we might as well try to get used to it now."
--Annisa, 12

"The toughest part about going through puberty (my period), is the pain and the worry. I talk with my mom about it, and she tells me what to expect. Then I just don't worry about it, because it's really not a big deal!"
--Somthinglikechicken

"I got my first period! In a special place and time. At Bromley Mt. on the first day of states. So now I'm trying to fined out my cycle days...But I wont another calendar. Can you help me with that and some other things. First I want to now when I could start using tampons. What kind of tampons to use. Also what other kinds of pads should I try..."
--Leyte, 12

"Well the toughest part is that when your puberty is started when you don't know when it is coming on. You might be in class and all of a sudden you see a red spot on your pants, and it's not a marker dot than you start to see a whole lot of it."
--Love lee, 11

"What part of your body hurts when you have a period."
--Albana

"The worst part of puberty is you have to talk to your dad! I was scared but my dad understood...And the random erections!"
--Devon, 10

"Hayley, 12 and me. Lets not get in a fight over this. EVERYGIRL IS DIFFRENT. There really is not range. EVERY ONE IS DIFFRENT. So some get it when they r 8 and some when they r 16. Ist okay. Most commonly girls get it between 9 and 15. Some girls do get it later or early thought! LUV YA!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Hey girls. You females out there must be thinking the same thing every girl is usually thinking about: BOYS, BOYS, BOYS! You can't keep away from them at all. Submit your opinions about the opposite sex."
--Mariah, 13

"I have been discharging for a year now when will I get my period!"
--Sami, 12

"Well for me the toughest part of puberty is when a girl has her period during school and then you'll have to go to your teacher and say it but if your teacher is a boy ( and boys don't have periods) tell them you need to call your mom and if they ask why say it's important or that it's a girl thing and if you have a girl teacher and you feel comfortable with them then you can tell them or if you don't you can go to a girl teacher that you do trust. Or when you start and you where at home for it start brining pads to school."
--Alicia, 10

"Rachel, 13: I want to cry. All my friends have their periods and they think I'm weird. My mom thinks I should've had it by now I'm really scared. Please help." Trust me. You will be fine. My mom got hers when she was thirteen, and her friends and 14 and 15. As long as you have a few changes by now, you'll be fine. I know I'm younger then you but trust me please!"
--Angie, 11

"I feel like breaking down in tears every time I see somebody with breasts! I'm still flat, no armpit hair, and peach fuzz in the other area. EVERYBODY'S changing! Is there something wrong with me? P. S. What does discharge look like?"
--Anonymous, 11

"PLEASE you guys! It seems like everybody else is changing except me! I'm 11 and 1/2 with no discharge, no breast buds, no hair, nothing! PLEASE HELP Advicegirl and Madi, 12. What's wrong with me?"
--Angie, 11

"GUYS HELP ON THIS! I'm getting these cramps really down low, like where my bladder is and a little bit lower where my...Um...Area starts. Is this normal? PLEASE help!"
--Angie, 11

"I get embarrassed when I have to buy tampons every month."
--Sharon, 11

"The toughest part of going through Puberty for me is I think getting my period. I already have medium sized breasts and pubic hair. But I don't have it yet and I'm real worried and anxious about when I will get it. What If I'm in school. Oh, I'm so Afraid. Also I'm afraid to talk to my mother about this kind of thing."
--Antoinette, 13

"Oh, yikes! That one week a month is just terrible (girls, ya know what I'm talking about)! I guess I just deal with it like everybody else, but still, all week, I'm just fed up with worrying about it!"
--Rebekah, 12

"Madi, it's not a big deal. Just tell your mom. If she's anything like mine, she'll understand and help you through it..."
--Rebekah, 12

"I get erections and wet dreams all the time no big deal. I don't have that much body hair only my privates. My penis has grown about an inch. I have also become more muscular. Erections can be annoying especially if they happen at the wrong time. I'm moving on to 14 I can't wait to get it over with."
--A person, 13

"I am getting hair in you no where and I am really emotional. I am getting spots all over my face and don't no if I've started puberty. Plz help."
--Eilishe, 11

"Siria, 13: Thanks! I should be getting my period soon and I think it is really helpful just 2 have an idea of what she might say instead of being totally clueless! Thanks again. Liz, 12: Okay Liz. From what u say I would go ahead and keep some pads handy for when u do start. I would say u are nearing in on it and it might only be a few months away. Hope this Helps! Advicegirl: hey advice girl I know what u mean. I'll be helping if I can! Morgan, 12: No. This isn't true. But I would suggest not wrestle with him anymore. It might make ur breasts sensitive, I mean they r already sensitive and it could hurt! Ashley 10: I totally know what u mean! Here are some ideas. Do u have an old tee shirt that is white and too tight? U could wear that as a bra until u find the courage 2 ask her. Here is another idea. Ask her "Hey mom? R we going shopping soon 'cuz I think I might wanna get a bra." Whatever u do, be brave! Puberty is a hard time in everybody's life. Angela: That sounds like a tough situation. I would talk 2 ur mom about it. Honestly, us girls on the internet cant help u much. U should talk 2 ur mom. Aoife: it really just depends on ur school! It is there chose. I believe most do it in 5th grade. But some also do it in 6th. Sarah, 13: I agree Sarah. U should talk 2 ur mom Hannah."
--Madi : -), 12

"I think it's the toughest to deal with break-outs and heavy periods. When you have breakouts you have to wait a while before they go away, they make you feel like you have to hide your face from the world. Heavy periods mess up your pants and give you massive cramps. You might feel moody and not want to be around people..."
--Emily, 12

"It's scary to think the pad may not work and the would will know. But plenty of girls know what's going on!"
--Diane, 11

"I have a great trick if you stain your underwear. If you use black underwear the stain will not show! Or with white underwear hydrogen peroxide (the stuff that bubbles you put on cuts) will wash it away! I use it ALL the time. It works wonders!"
--Diane, 11

"I think the toughest part is your period. When I started mine, I went to the bathroom and saw blood on the toilet! But it will be okay. Luckily I don't have cramps but I do have mood swings. But how I deal with it is choose if u want pads or tampons. Tip: if you're going swimming, wear tampons!"
--Kelli, 13

"The toughest part of going through puberty is wearing a bra. I just go with the flow and don't worry about it. I am also going to have my period soon because I am always getting cramps. Can you give me some tips?"
--Anonymous, 12

"I hate being a girl! Guys r so free! No boobs no period! Just the voice change thing and hair! And boys don't have any drama!"
--Millicent, 11

"The hardest thing about going through puberty is when your breast start to grow and it hurts really bad when someone like bumps them or something. But how I handle it is I where a padded bra like on a gym day so if someone bumps them it doesn't hurt as bad."
--Briana, 10

"I just got my period, so I don't think it's a good idea use tampons yet, so I use pads. You might be able to tell by my user name, but I am addicted to soccer. I can't use pads while I'm playing, and I would die if I missed a game."
--Soccer Addict, 12

"I am a total athlete/tomboy, so most boys think that I won't go through puberty. So, when I started developing, one boy asked me: "Why I stuffed my bra?" I told him: "I'm a normal girl, you idiot." He said: "But your a tomboy."."
--Soccer Addict, 12

"The toughest part would be for us girls because we get more changes in our lifetime than boys. We go through a lot that would make us worry. To be honest, I haven't gone through many changes but just a few."
--M&M, 12

"Lol, I haven't got my period either, but I suddenly became grumpy and Emily, 10, I'm getting lots of cramps too!"
--Yessica, 11

"I'm so happy because my school is an all girls school and I can talk about puberty in class to my buds but we still use code names like 'have you started ur red blood project' and my teacher doesn't even know what we are talking about and there is no boys listening in on our conversations!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"Hey advicegirl I used to discharge normally (white) but now it's all different types of colours (light green, yellow etc. ) what is wrong with me? PLEASE HELP ME!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"To Kyky: Just tell ur mom that u are getting teased in school because u don't wear a bra! This may not be exactly true but she might consider getting u a bra then : -) hope this could help! If u need any more advice ask me!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"Me: omg really? I don't know that. I read in a book that is was 9-15. And then I read some girls can get it as early as 8! Sorry ppl! Mistake! Forgive me!"
--Madi : -), 12

"The toughest part is that it seems that it's only happening to you and no one else!"
--Richard, 11

"Dear Me: No offence, but Madi, 12 was just saying what was normal. In most of the books about puberty I read, it says girls get their period between 8-15. Plus, it highly rare that a girl gets her period after 16. My moms friend had to get surgery to get her ova REMOVED when she was 16 because they were cancerous. Perhaps Madi, 12 hadn't ever heard of a girl getting her period after sixteen, because in most books it says between 8-15. And in class they teach you what they read in the books."."
--Hayley, 12

"I haven't hit my period yet but my mom told me not to panic. This is just part of life a girl has to go through. I know it stinks. You don't have to tell your friends when you hit your period do what you want to."
--It's me, 11

"K. To ppl who say it doesn't hurt to have ur period, it might not hurt u but some girls get cramps. I have been there done that. So it might hurt. But it doesn't hurt all girls. Just wanted to clear this up! Thanks! Luv ya!"
--Madi : -), 12

"I have a really bad odor."
--Chanin, 9

"I've noticed a lot of people saying, when will my period come, when will I grow a chest? and other things, enjoy life while you don't have to worry about if your skirt is stained or if your straps are showing, you will get everything when it is time."
--Polarbearluvr, 13

"K: I now this must be hard for u. And why except the boy problem? I think we make a great team! We r always giving advice to the same ppl! And our advice is the same lol! K. So here is what I would do, u know I cant make ur breasts grow, so here's what I think: Ignore those other girls who make fun of u and stick with ur friends. If some1 calls u a nerd say "Well yeah! I KNOW ur a nerd! Every1 does!" Then walk off. And hmm maybe this when they tell u that u don't have any breasts say "Well that's ’Äòcuz I'm not fat like u!" I have been thinking all night about what u could say. And the boys. Don't worry. U'll get breast sometimes. Don't even worry about these boys. They are all 2 young! I don't like a guy until he is a least 13! ’ÄòCUZ OTHER WISE THEY JUST LOOK LIKE LITTLE KIDS! Hope this helps! Now, a note 2 ALL girls with periods. Please just tell me what u told ur mom when u got ur period and what she did in response. PLEASE! I NEED some more help. I have gotten the pep talk now I kind of need 2 know what 2 expect!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Madi : -), 12: Here's ur answer: My mom just Xplained everything 2 me when I told her. It wasn't that bad at all. And she didn't tell any of the guys in my family. If u think ur mom will tell ur dad or whoever about this, mayB the best thing 2 do is tell her how u feel about that. Ur mom will understand Bcuz she used to be ur age, 2. Hope this helps..."
--Shoot4themoon, 13

"Aoife: -), 11: Thanks but my mom won't let me get 1! She says I have to wait till my breast start to show more!"
--D0t123, 11

"I have been in puberty for over a year, and my breasts are bigger, and I have had a lot of pubic hair for over a year now, when will I start me period?"
--Cortney, 11

"Hey u guyz...I haven't started yet, but I have Discharge- I've been having it since last month (Feb. ) and I have a twin sister, she is about at the same pace. I have small breasts- though they r bigger than my twin sister- & I need 2 know when I will start?"
--Kenrox-Kendall, 11

"I started my period at a VERY young age, I was only 9, well I had my spotting then but I really started at 10. But I have been bearing this for 2 years and sometimes it is really hard to cope because my period is normally very heavy. I can't believe I am going to have to bear with this for a whole lifetime, I think. Thnx. Luv Nikki."
--Nikki, 12

"Well, I have been wearing a training bra for a while now and I am waiting for my period. Lucky for me, my mom is the kind of person to talk to about this stuff. By the way, do not worry. Don't be afraid to tell your mom. All girls have to go through it. Also, don't be ashamed to wear a bra. All girls will eventually wear one. It doesn't matter if it is visible through your shirt. Try your best and! GOOD LUCK!"
--Jessica, 11

"I haven't had my period yet, but I do wear bras. :) There's this girl in my math class her chest, fuller than mine. I want mine fuller to, but what I have learned is that if you're fuller earlier then bigger later, much later. But if you wait then you'll be proud that you did. You won't have to worry about your breast are to big because that's so uncomfortable."
--Naughdia, 10

"The toughest part is getting my period."
--Anonymous

"I have been started puberty al least for a year now. I don't have much body hair yet only in between my legs. I get erections all the time and wet dreams."
--Bob, 13

"I need help my period hasn't started yet I think but I am getting lots of cramps! HELP! B-ex."
--Emily, 10

"I don't know. But I would really like to!"
--Emily, 9

"I have really bad neck problems am I starting puberty or my period?"
--Brooke, 13

"OMG I just started my period an in 2 days I am going to camp for three days and I am so scared to ask my mom to let me wear tampons!"
--Meredith, 12

"The toughest part is my period and I start at 10 years old and when it happen it was in class and everybody laughs at me and my teacher give me tampons and pads and call my mom to take me to the hospital. After I did that I went to a sleep over and I start BLEEDING that night when every one except my bff called her parents and took me home! Ps I hate my PERIOD ALWAYS HAVE PROTECTION WITH YOU DON'T BLEED IN PUBLIC DO NOT WEAR A DRESS OR WHITE PANTS OK!"
--Jacqueline B, 13

"Hey =] okay well I am about to turn thirteen in a month and my brother and I wrestle a lot. I'm just now getting breast and I'm afraid that if he keeps hitting them they wont grow because that is what my friends say. Is this true...HELP!"
--Morgan, 12

"I have not had my p yet, I heard that some girls got it at school and that a girl made a temporary pad with a sock! I'm worried but my mom told me that hers started in the summer and so I'm hoping that mine will too."
--Amanda, 11

"I think waiting for your period is difficult. That's what I'm doing now. Just be patient-they'll come when you're ready. It's a good idea to talk to your mum before you start."
--Emz, 12

"I am too shy to tell my mom I want a bra."
--Ashley, 10

"I find it hard: ( peeps in my class are older than me but in puberty terms very immature I try having relationships with girls but they hold me back! I'm almost through P my hair is getting really long and my well...Eeerrr pride has almost completely grown."
--William, 11

"What is a erection? Please explain as much as you can. I didn't understand in the puberty section!"
--Mike, 10

"Last year I had problems involving excessive exercise and weight loss. My period had stopped. Now that my eating is back to normal and I've gained weight, my period still hasn't come back! Should I be worried?"
--Angela

"I don't know what to do, I haven't got my P yet but I'm worried ’Äòcause I heard that it can start at school! I don't know what to do, Should I have a pad in my backpack just in case or should I just stay cool about it? PLEASE HELP! My mom's pads are TOO BIG!"
--Hawkshadow, 11

"It's a hard life for me I'm going through it and believe me I'm almost at the finish line. I developed PB very early at 8 rare. PEEPS AT SCHOOL R TRYIN TO BULLY ME LOL IT SOOOOOOOO ANNOYIN I'M TRYIN TO GET WID DA GIRLS BUT MY REP IS GOIN DOW DA PAN! All these immature peeps in ma class grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr."
--William, 11

"I have my period a lot."
--Stacy, 13

"Evie 11- When u hit puberty u probably will get mood swings a lot! And u might get cramps coming up 2 ur period! But remember the most important thing is be happy about the way that u are growing find something that u like about puberty! But remember if u have breasts wear a bra that fits u properly! Get ur mum 2 help u 2 find a bra that fits u right! When u get ur period tell ur mum first and then think about telling others bcuz they will wonder why ur happy 1 min and depressed the next! So if u want ne more tips ask me!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"HELP my periods have started and I don't no what to do and my legs are getting really hairy but I guess it just happens and you deal but it is really soar when you have your periods."
--Andria, 10

"Hi Madi well I got my period 2 years ago and it was weird for me to tell my mom bcuz she didn't get hers until she was 14, but she was happy and said "You're growing up, that's good. Now we have something else in common! Do you have any questions?" She also said that periods could be a pain but she had learned a lot of "Secrets" on how to deal over the years so she would try to help me when I needed it. Sometimes we go out for "PMS Ice Cream" which is totally funny! Good luck with telling your mom, I'm sure she'll be glad."
--Siria, 13

"I am in 5th class does anyone know if I will get the talk this year or in 6th class? HELP."
--Aoife: -), 11

"Um, excuse me but, this question is kinda weird but I hate having weird talks with my dad!"
--Rain, 10

"I want to know when I'm going to start my period. It's driving me crazy. I look online everyday to try to find out but I never can find anything. I'm 12 got 32a bra size armpit hair for about a year discharge for about a year and a half pubic hair for a year. I also have mood swings and cramps and cravings. My mom started when she was 13 both my sisters at 11 and 12. I want it to come like know. Advicegirl please help me."
--Liz, 12

"My breasts are growing! : (."
--Mesha, 11

"Hannah- that is terrible. Have you ever tried telling your mom that story? I know how painful it is, but I feel so sorry for you. I hope you can find a way to work it out :)."
--Sarah, 13

"DOt-123: Don't worry what u should do is wear a training bra that is the smallest size u can get! If that is too tight then ask a female shop assistant to help and soon ur breasts will look fuller!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"Hey embarrassed-to-say: Coming up to ur period you will get cranky! When u wake up in the morning ur nipples may feel sore! And u may get cramps! I think u might know the rest but always keep a pad in ur bag or locker!"
--Aoife: -), 11

"There's SO much stuff that comes with it! Getting a bra, getting your period, (And feeling weird with a pad on. ) Mood swings, And A LOT more! The best way I deal with it is to take a hot bath."
--Mo

"You all should stop worrying about your breast size it will come soon enough. So enjoy life as a youthful happy person! I love you all!"
--Gabby

"Madi, 12: You shouldn't say you will get your period between 9 and 15. Not everyone gets it between then. Some people can get it as late as 17."
--Me

"Hey ya'll. I'm the girl who didn't tell her mom about her period. Well, if ya'all could just tell me what ur moms did when you told them I think I would feel a little better. I'm not asking for much."
--Madi : -), 12

"The toughest part of going through puberty for me is having to have my period because it gets annoying when I have to go out of my classroom to go to the bathroom and change my pad. One of the good things about puberty is the size of your breasts because that way you can wear sleeveless dresses. I deal with it by just going to the bathroom and changing my pad anyway even though I think it is annoying."
--Willow, 13

"Yo to everyone out there who said they are "Scared" of having their period, IT IS NO BIG DEAL! IT DOES NOT HURT @ ALL, OK? it's just a totally natural occurrence that has been happening to women since they first existed, and you can't change that, it'll happen sooner or later. Don't be afraid of it, that'll only make it worse for you. Get as much information as you need to feel comfortable with the concept. GO CAVALIERS! Love Labron."
--Cavalier_fan1392, 13

"I sometimes feel left out because ALL of my friends are wearing bras and I am not. It makes me sad because they all have been asked out or looked at by cute boys. I think because I am flat chested I have not been asked out."
--Katelin, 11

"Probably the first time I got my period, I was scared to death. And also that a lot of kids in my grade haven't gone through it yet, so I feel all alone and stuff. ;-)."
--Claire, 11

"Everything about puberty is hard. Mood swings, driven insane by the new feelings that come along. I feel like I am the only one in my grade that just happens to be going through the emotional part. Other girls, if you can't find how to confess your crush to the guy, turn to your parents. On my part I have to say do NOT take it fast! Say hi, become friends, THEN confess your crush. When it comes to periods, whether you use tampons or pads is totally on you; I suggest starting with pads. This all is normal, so all you need to do is take care of yourself, trust your close friends, and keep your cool."
--Sonja, 12

"The toughest part of going through puberty is depression. But don't be depressed about it!"
--Marketa, 13

"Well I've got pubic hair."
--Sadio, 11

"Emily, 10: It's Normal. Check out the puberty page, there is stuff all about it!"
--D0t123, 11

"The toughest part of going through puberty is first periods ('cause it hurts a woman's stomach) then it's pimples ('cause they r soo embarrassing ) then I can't even tell u it's breasts lol yea I know all about dis."
--Taylor, 11

"I haven't gotten my period yet, but that nasty white stuff has been in my underwear for a long time! I just want my period already so that it wont happen in an embarrassing place!"
--Janelle, 12

"Ummmm......Well I haven't started my period yet but I know it's soon but I have this stuff that's yellowish white I think it's called discharge or something and it's so uncomfortable I HATE IT!"
--Amber, 11

"Wow well I haven't really started yet except for my chest. I'm kinda scared about talking about things like that with my parents. Next Wednesday we are having a talk about puberty with the teachers in the school! Do you think that every single kid needs to hear about the yucky periods and things that are going on in their bodies. And thank you for the information on puberty I feel a lot stronger now about growing up."
--Montana, 09

"Well I think the toughest part about going through my period is the pain in the lower part of my stomach. It hurts very badly but I deal with it by trying not to think about it and closing my eyes and trying to relax. I usually spend most of my time during my period in my room, it helps to be alone without a little sibling asking you what's wrong. At least for me it is."
--Valerie, 12

"OMG! SHE IS WAY OVERPROTECTIVE!" --Madi : -), 12. Talk to another trusted adult (that's a girl) for help and when you do get it and you don't want your mom to know till later use tp (toilet paper) as a pad. Talk to a trusted adult like I said. Now do u have any advice for me? my PROBLEM IS I don't have my breasts yet and every1 except my friend calls me a nerd and stuff! And lately boys r acting weird around me like girls with breasts. It's hard. Help! YOU HAVE MORE EXPERIENCE I have knowledge of what goes on. Except the boy problem I mentioned. We could make a good team."
--D0t123, 11

"Jamie, 13. You can start anywhere between the age of 9-16! And a period is nothing to brag about! When you get it, it's the Pits! I recommend the book "Girlology". And if You start under the age of 11, It's 1-2 years till an expectable period, Start at 11-12 Up to 2-3 years, Start over 12, up to 4-5 years!"
--D0t123, 11

"Hi I've not got my periods yet and but I've been getting white stains in my knickers for about 8months when will my periods start."
--Natalie, 10

"I have a pad at home and I think am bleeding right now but I got used to it because the first time I got my p is when I was 9 years old."
--Michelle, 10

"I'm afraid I will get my period when I'm 12! My nana got hers when she was 16, my mom 15, my sis 14, my other sis 13 so I'm probably get my period next year but don't worry if u get yours late people just grow in different ways! Good luck!"
--Colleen, 11

"I got small breasts + pubic hair. I got discharge but no periods. Where are they!"
--Sarah, 12

"I am 12 I'm a boy my penis is normally 2 inches longer than when I was eleven it was only that big when I had an erection this makes me freaked out because I have hair above my friend in my pants and on it. I'm excited and nervous!"
--Logan, 12

"The toughest part about puberty is that all these things that are happening don't seem normal and you feel different from everybody but the truth is...It is happening to everyone around your age. It's kinda a cool thing because when it's over you feel like an adult. [=."
--Kellie [=

"I wish my breasts would grow faster can some one tell what me to do all my friends tell me to stuff but I don't want to like ewwwwwwwwwww."
--Keisha, 13

"I'm 11 years old and I have puberty. My friends don't have puberty and my breasts are way bigger then my friends and I have period and they don't. I have hair between my legs and I feel like I'm growing way to fast. I have the biggest breasts in my grade, which is 5th grade. The boys sometimes stare at my chest and they sometimes say to other boys like "Hey don't look at her chest" and it feels kind of weird. My bra cup size is like 36 and it feels weird because no one else has it. Why am I growing way faster then everyone in my grade?"
--Jennifer, 11

"I'm really scared to tell my mom because I'm afraid she'll tell my brothers or other family members. I really don't want them to know. My mom has asked me several times if she could she me (naked) all I say is no, my breasts started to grow last year and they hurt. There was this guy who bumped to me and I almost screamed (gladly I didn't). So, should I tell my mom? I'm really scared! Please help me! By the way, I wear a 30a or a 32aa bra. I haven't had my period yet, I hope not yet soon! I really don't know how to tell my mom. When she was a little girl--One day at school, she saw blood coming out of you know where. We'll, she didn't know what was happening. So she decided to ask her mom and her mom told her about the whole period thing. She was all freaked out. I bet I will too even though I kind of know about it. I don't know if I should wear a tampon yet. I've grown some hair you know where. It's been getting longer (scary). I haven't told my mom a thing about this..."
--Can't tell you, 12

"My mom keeps telling me about puberty. Now I'm all freaked out "When am I going to wear a bra? And tampons? And the rest of my friends have bras. When am I going to get mine? I've been developing for over a few years now! I'm so embarrassed not fitting in..."
--Alanna, 10

"Hey guys, relax! It's no big deal! It's normal. I betcha it won't be NEARLY this stressful in maybe at the most 2-3 years? Chill-ax! (Okay, maybe I was lying a little, you period and all this stuff IS a big deal, but you should chill-ax about it! )."
--Elizabeth, 11

"You can share what it feels like for you, but don't say it'll hurt for everyone or it won't! Different girls develop at different times, I know what it feels like for me but I'm a little uncomfortable sharing."
--Alana, 11

"The penis getting longer."
--Tom, 11

"Embarrassed to say, 11. I think I understand. Myself I hate my period but I understand how you might want it if all your friends have it. Once you start to get discharge and mood swings you are about 6 months away. At least that is what I was told. Hope this helps! Bye!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Well it will be tuff at first but you get used to it."
--Faith, 10

"Embarrassed to say, 11. You can start any where between 8 and 16! And remember, every1 starts at different times! Don't freak! And a period gets u in the dumps! Cramps, bloating, emotions.! It's terrible! Be thankful u don't have the curse* *a.k.a. a period."
--D0t123, 11

"To Cassie: You never know exactly when you will your period. On the weeks before you get your period, you may feel crampy or maybe even puffy. You may get your period in a little while, or maybe you'll get it in a few years. No one knows exactly! P. S to all you other girls, ask me for advice. I may be younger or older than you, but I sure know a heck of a lot about this stuff! Right your comment addressed to Advicegirl."
--Advicegirl

"Puberty is ok it happens to everyone don't be scared of it..."
--Alice

"To Angelica: If you haven't found out yet, you basically go on a ride of emotions, some good and some bad. Also, you may feel crampy or puffy. When these happen, try to eat healthy, (always eat healthy! ) take a walk or maybe write in a journal. Also, you may want to put some warmth over the places where you have cramps, which will probably be in your stomach or your back. Maybe get into a warm bathtub or put a hot/warm water bottle over your stomach. These may help. Hope it does!"
--Advice girl

"Sorry everybody, just want to let you know I can't respond to EVERY question, but I'll do my best to respond to some!"
--Advicegirl

"Pimples and breasts! So embarrassing!"
--Anonymous

"I hate having friends who are girls, because they, like, accidentally say bra strap or some thing and then there's this big, awkward silence. I just try to ignore it. Also, I hate having The Talk with my mom because she knows absolutely NOTHING about what I go through."
--Nick, 13

"I got my period about 3 months ago...It stinks your hungry cranky and you feel like your going to hit someone."
--Kristin, 11

"Comment to "Embarrassed to say", don't ya worry, I got my period in January, and I'm 13! And by the way, be happy you don't have it, It's really bothers you and it's uncomfortable, and you are talking to someone that was exactly like you in your age!"
--Marketa, 13

"Embarrassed to say, 11: Don't sweat it, everyone's different, so ur body will start menstruation when it's ready. I didn't get mine till I was 12. The norm is anywhere from 8-12. U can also talk 2 ur mom about it. If she was started puberty later than most ppl, chances r u might, 2. Hope this helps!"
--Natalie, 13

"My parents won't let me get a bra, and in PE the strain on my breasts is so bad I once cried because it hurt so much! You know what the teacher did, she offered me an ICE PACK! I'm just like "An ICE PACK for my breasts?!" "I don't think so!" And it was REALLY embarrassing. The teacher told me to talk to my Mom about getting a bra. MOST EMBARASSING DAY EVER! (except for when I accidentally peed on the teacher in Pre-school)!"
--Hannah

"I just went through a major growth spurt. I am only 9 and my breasts are growing! Now my sisters want to pinch them, and it HURTS! How can I get them to stop doing it, or it to stop hurting?!"
--Morgan, 9

"It's my fifth time getting my period and it really stinks. People out there that are afraid, don't be scared. It doesn't hurt. Just act normal and get on w/ your life. :)."
--Adaline, 12

"JJ, 11. Not a tampon for sure. But I got my period when I was ten. My Mom didn't get hers until she was 15. Just listen to your body and look for signs. You probably wont get your at the very same time as you mom. But if you start to have discharge. Maybe a month or 2 after that you could start wearing one."
--Madi : -), 12

"Jamie, 13. OMG! You are only 13! My Mom didn't get hers until she was 15! Everyone gets it at different times. Your friends are only bragging 'cuz they probably HATE periods and are trying to turn it into something good. Be happy for them. They are trying to make the best out of the situation. You will get yours in time. 1 or 2 years after your breast start developing."
--Madi : -), 12

"AMY, 11. You are at the perfect age for breasts. Lots of girls have them at 11. I do. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Nia, 10. So we can feed babies!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Thanks a bunch Amber. I just have a few more questions. 1) Should I be 100% honest when I tell my Mom? 2) It is really hard because she got her period when she was 15! And I am 11 (I am 12 in May but I like to call myself 12 because I hate it when people go "WOW! You are 12!". 3) I think I will have to grow up right away. 4) I AM WORRIED WHAT SHE WILL THINK! Will someone help me?!?!?!?! PLEASE!?!?!?" --Madi : -), 12 COME ON PEOPLE! I NEED HELP!"--Madi : -), 12. It's no big deal! When you talk to your mom she'll understand! Every girl has 1 but not at the same time, week year, etc! Be 100% honest. She'll understand you are growing up and should let you do it on your own. Unless she's overprotective. Like I'm getting my period soon but my breasts are NOT here yet! Weird, huh? like I said we all grow at different rates! Hope this helps! =p!" --D0t123, 11 OMG! SHE IS WAY OVERPROTETTIVE!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Well I've got pubic hair and armpit hair, everyone in my class has got an Adam's apple but I don't and their voice has gone low and they make fun of me."
--Paul, 12

"ALL BOYS READ THIS, because I'm clever and I know. I have only 2 and a half stages left in puberty and that's armpit hair, facial hair and I'm starting voice change. Talk to a friend that clearly has puberty or you know he does (make sure he is a friend) it works with me. All boys have a desire for voice change (you might not think it but you do) Know If you get a lump near the top of your neck it means you have something called an Adam's apple and your voice will deepen as it gets bigger. You have to avoid the talk until puberty is very clearly in you, you will see what I mean as you progress. Lay off the people who get periods and breasts, remember they probably started before you and they are going through a hard time too you know. Remember don't look backwards look forwards."
--Alex, 12

"The hardest part I would say is the hair and the period because first of all when you have hair people make fun of you and second of all when you have your period you have seriously hurting cramps in your stomach. They way I deal with it is say I'm going through a stage called puberty. And for my period I would take a Midol to make my stomach feel better and it works!"
--Markia, 10

"Yer hey everyone ill just like to tell u guys I started my period when I was 13 and trust me it's horrible. When the blood dries on the pad it stinks n ewwww...The whole lot of it is gross. Anyway don't want to scare u lot who haven't started yet, you'll get used to it :)."
--X-teen-x

"I got mines at my aunt house I was kind of scared to tell someone but I told my auntie I had a girls problem and she understood. She called my mom to tell her and she was happy that I had my period I was so confused how the way she reacted to the talk with her she said it's ok it all about being a girl. To all the girls who think it's a bad thing, it isn't. It's all about being a girl, taking care of your self, and showing that you are growing up so don't stress over it. It's ok. Just make sure you change ever time and don't let it over flow."
--Tinkerbell-girl

"Hello I am 10 and I just talked to my mom and she said that I am getting my period it is a little weird but if you think your getting it tell your mom they will know if you are and do not scared it happens to every one it is ok."
--Sierra, 10

"My breasts are small. My friend is my age and hers are like a 14 year olds! My little sister is 8 and hers are a bit bigger than mine. How can I get mine to grow?"
--Sarah, 11

"I haven't started my period yet and almost all my friends have. They brag about it and I think something's wrong with me. I want to cry. Even my mom thinks I should have it by now. What do I do? = (."--Jamie, 13. You can start anywhere between the age of 9-16! And a period is nothing to brag about! When you get it, it's the Pits! I recommend the book "Girlology". And if You start under the age of 11, It's 1-2 years till an expectable period, Start at 11-12 Up to 2-3 years, Start over 12, up to 4-5 years!"
--D0t123, 11

"I haven't started my period yet and almost all my friends have. They brag about it and I think something's wrong with me. I want to cry. Even my mom thinks I should have it by now. What do I do? = (." --Jamie, 13."All my friends have there periods and I feel so alone. They have their own inside jokes and I don't know what to do. They think something's wrong with me. Help me!" --Hailey "I want to cry. All my friends have their periods and they think I'm weird. My mom thinks I should've had it by now I'm really scared. Please help." --Rachel, 13 "I'm 13 and haven't had my period. My mom got it at early 12 and my grandma at 11. All my friends have it to. I'm stressing out. Help." --Hannah, 13. EVERY1 starts at different times! Remember, you can start anywhere between 9-16!"
--D0t123, 11

"If I feel the need to use the bathroom and I hold the urine from flowing will it affect my period?"
--Kayla, 10

"It's tough. Puberty makes you so different. You wake up one morning and feel like a stranger to yourself! It's hard to focus, too. At some points it feels like a burden not to yell like mad. I guess were not 100% kids anymore."
--C. J., 12

"I think the toughest part of puberty is definitely the hair. Sooo annoying! However, I haven't gotten my period yet."
--P, 10

"I'm scared to get my period. It seems really scary."
--Ashlyn, 11

"I live with my dad how do I tell him."
--Vicki, 11

"Hey. I have this black dots on my legs because my hair don't grow I'm tried of not wearing swimsuits and skirts. Can you help get this stuff of my legs?"
--Chinica, 12

"The toughest part of puberty is the mood swings. One minute I'm really happy, the next I'm running around yelling at everyone. I just try to control myself, take a deep breath, and deal with the fact I'm going through puberty, and this is going to happen."
--Anna, 10

"Guess what I just got breasts a couple days ago! YEAH!"
--Meredith, 11

"I want to get my period so bad. All my friends have theirs and I'm older than all of them except for 1. I have been feeling very tired and get cranky. I don't know why. But I need someone to tell me about when I am going to get my period or about stages of getting your periods. Okay? So please help me! Thanks."
--Embarrassed to say, 11

"I am 11 and I was reading the puberty pages and I have experienced most of the symptoms, do you think I will get my period soon?"
--Aoife, 11

"I just got on my period. I hate it."
--Tamara, 11

"Look I know it's a pretty hard thing, but there are worse times. I am experiencing it right now and I haven't had my period or breasts yet, but don't worry."
--Danny M, 11

"Halee, 12: EVERYONE has puberty at a different age. You will get your period between the ages of 9 and 15. My mom didn't get hers until she was 15. I got mine when I was 10. Your breasts on their own should too. You will get everything in time."
--Madi : -), 12

"Alyssa, 11: Puberty is hard. Periods, they will sometimes hurt. You might get cramps. But every girl goes through it."
--Madi : -), 12

"Steps, 9: OMG. You are only 9! Puberty WILL come. But at 9 not a lot of kids start..."
--Madi : -), 12

"Hair growth and body odor."
--Anonymous, 10

"My Grandma got her period when she was 15 my mom got it when she was 11 when should I expect mine?"
--JLynn, 11

"I'm scared about my period and embarrassed to talk it about it nothing has happened except my breasts have changed in 4th grade everyone had breasts but me I felt really left out."
--Valerie, 12

"My mom Got her Period at the age of 12 and 1/2 and that is how old I am now and I am wondering should I wear a pad or a tampon?"
--JJ, 11

"Hi! Even though I'm only 10 years old, I can tell you A LOT about puberty. It's a natural thing for girls AND boys. We mostly think girls only get it, because they sprout hair, and boobs. But guys have it to. And if you have pimples...They'll go away if you use the right stuff. I'm here as an advice giver. And I'll tell you a few of my experiences too. When you start growing breasts, they usually start hurting or itching. Now, don't be obsessed with them. You have to WAIT for them to grow. Guys sprout armpit hair, and they also change voices. A period is a scary thing to experience, but it's natural. I won't go through the statistics. It would be better to ask you mom or local doctor about it. Friends are good things to confide in. They can share their experiences, and they can tell you things you MIGHT want to know. Let me share some of MY experiences. I do not wear a bra yet, but am growing breasts. If I bump them, they hurt. And of course, I have hair. You already know where, but I'm not going to mention. Periods can happen any time to me. I'm scared, and I'm sure you are to. But, really, it's nothing to be scared of! Of course you're probably saying NO WAY! IT'S AWFUL! But, it'll happen one day. So will driving, a husband or wife (optional! ) and many other body parts. I love you all, and hope you have a great experience with all of this! Handle it well!"
--Anna, 10

"Yo dudes calm down! Lol. I got mine when I was at the movies with friends but I didn't know until I got home and I was scared but I just went and told my mom but she just says it's cool your now a lady! So don't worry I only got mine in the summer& I'm 13. So if ur under my age Dw lol You'll be fine =D xx."
--YupYup_, 13

"'Does it hurt. '--Shakira, 11. Only a little. You get a few cramps now and then, though! Hold tight! You'll get used to it!"
--D0t123, 11

"Help! Mine are smaller than everybody's in my class! You can barely notice! ANY GIRL out there HHHEEELLLPPP! I need tips! PS I know every thing but I haven't started."
--D0t123, 11

"I haven't started my period yet and almost all my friends have. They brag about it and I think something's wrong with me. I want to cry. Even my mom thinks I should have it by now. What do I do? = (."
--Jamie, 13

"All my friends have there periods and I feel so alone. They have their own inside jokes and I don't know what to do. They think something's wrong with me. Help me!"
--Hailey

"I want to cry. All my friends have their periods and they think I'm weird. My mom thinks I should've had it by now I'm really scared. Please help."
--Rachel, 13

"I'm 13 and haven't had my period. My mom got it at early 12 and my grandma at 11. All my friends have it to. I'm stressing out. Help."
--Hannah, 13

"I don't know much about puberty. Give me answers." --Evie, 11. What would you like answers to? I can try to give you answers!"
--Madi : -), 12

"The toughest part of puberty is having you period. My friends keep bugging me about it. Asking if I've had it. I just try to ignore it. It makes me feel like I need to hear up and grow up. And I still what to be a kid and hang out with my friends. It's so hard too ignore it."
--Ariell, 10

"HELP ME! I've got breasts and I am only eleven! Someone write to me now and help!"
--AMY, 11

"Puberty is not that big of a deal to tell you the truth. It may seem like a big deal when you're first starting out but you'll get use to it. After a while you'll be happy with the new things that have changed."
--Brittany

"Hey it's me again! Also if anyone is interested in naruto, puberty etc. Anyways puberty may be difficult but we all have to go through it so like talk to somebody. Or if it's too awkward wit ya mom go talk to someone else. And oh yea just chill. Breathe in then out it will be over soon."
--Sakura fan, 10

"The worst thing was at first I didn't know what in the world was going on! I was terrified. But then my friend told me what was going on."
--Amanda, 10

"Jayde, 13. OMG! You might not have to! Only, like, 1/1000 need an operation for that! Don't get so worried! And if you're worried you are not starting at the same year as your friends, every1 starts at different times! I deal with the same thing! LOL!"
--D0t123, 11

"Jeanne, 11. OMG! Don't do that get a padded bra! They make them look bigger! A bigger size DOESN'T WORK! It'll look way baggy!"
--D0t123, 11

"Sydney, 11. If you want them smaller DON'T get a padded bra! They'll look even bigger! Lol!"
--D0t123, 11

"Shamane, 12, Because when we are first born we look the same. Just a little helpless baby. But as we grow, we need to have a reproduction system. So we can reproduce. MAKE BABIES! So our bodies change. Was that a good example?"
--Madi : -), 12

"Why do girls get breasts?"
--Nia, 10

"Sydney is that u from Charleston if u r Sydney I'm Meredith from school. How do u know if u r going to have big breasts r really small ones?"
--Meredith, 10

"I'd say the toughest part is outgrowing your shoes every six months."
--Julia, 13

"Thanks a bunch Amber. I just have a few more questions. 1) Should I be 100% honest when I tell my Mom? 2) It is really hard because she got her period when she was 15! And I am 11 (I am 12 in May but I like to call myself 12 because I hate it when people go "WOW! You are 12!". 3) I think I will have to grow up right away. 4) I AM WORRIED WHAT SHE WILL THINK! Will someone help me?!?!?!?! PLEASE!?!?!?" --Madi : -), 12 COME ON PEOPLE! I NEED HELP!"--Madi : -), 12. It's no big deal! When you talk to your mom she'll understand! Every girl has 1 but not at the same time, week year, etc! Be 100% honest. She'll understand you are growing up and should let you do it on your own. Unless she's overprotective. Like I'm getting my period soon but my breasts are NOT here yet! Weird, huh? like I said we all grow at different rates! Hope this helps! =p!"
--D0t123, 11

"It's embarrassing and weird but I normally play soccer or my electric bass guitar to get my mind off of it."
--Eamon, 12

"Well there are a lot of tough parts of going through puberty. What hate is how sometimes you can get into anger problems with your friends just because of hormones. Sometimes you just have to deal with it. It's just apart of growing up, no matter what."
--Abby, 11

"Can anyone predict when I will get my period? Discharge-When I really started noticing it was April of last year maybe a little before about March? Breast-Since the same time (Left is much larger than right! ). Hair-Started shaving 2 weeks ago on legs, no underarm hair, some pubic hair for about 2-3 months maybe a little longer. Age-11 (mom started...At age like 13 or 14 I think. Not sure though)."
--Anonymous

"I have tender breasts. What do I do?"--Alexas, 10. It's natural! All girls feel that in puberty! 1 of mine is like that and the other is sore, OUCH! Some girls have really sore breasts so hope for the better!"
--Anonymous

"'How come we have puberty? '--Shamane, 12. Here is 1 part! Why do we even need breasts, anyway? Growing breasts are a major part of puberty because it means your reproductive system is starting to work. Just like getting your period is meant to allow you to someday have a baby, a girl's breasts are meant to make milk that the baby will need to survive. I'll write on the period soon!"
--D0t123, 11

"I don't know what to do. My voice has changed, and I have been needing bigger bras, and I have weird feelings about boys. What should I do?" --NONAME!, 11. That's all natural! Some girls have a change in voice!"
--D0t123, 11

"The toughest part is definitely my friends. All of them except me and one other of my friends have had it and they have their own inside jokes and everything. Help me!"
--Jen, 13

"Not that I want breasts, I want to know if there's something wrong with me. I'm eleven and I don't have any breasts. All my friends (who are my age) have them. Is something wrong with me?"
--Taylor, 11

"Ok I have had armpit hair since I was in third grade, pubic hair in fourth grade, and breasts in fifth grade, I am now in sixth grade and still haven't started. Is something wrong with me? should I see a doctor? help?"
--Hayden, 12

"I haven't had my period but I have small breasts I have hair down there and on my armpits I shave my legs I get discharge and I'm 13! All my friends have it please help me!"
--Jen, 13

"I never got my period does it mean I won't get it. I really, really, really want my breasts to get big and get my healthy period."
--Halee, 12

"I skipped one grade, so all of my friends and classmates matured before me. I was always waiting for the day I would fit in. I was worried after listening to what they told me. Sometimes, I felt left out when they compared period deterrent strategies and bra sizes, but in the long run, it all worked out. One day, I know that we will al be older and probably close to the same time in the maturation process. ` (o. O) `."
--Kelly, 12

"I would have to say my period I have a story about my experiences. I was with a boy and I was wearing blue jeans and I got my period and I said I have to go home and he said why and he looked down and said ok."
--Ashlee

"I am afraid to start my puberty because my mom says it hurts."
--Alyssa, 11

"I am afraid of getting my period."
--Shawna, 10

"My mum saw me naked for the first time since I started puberty when I came out of the shower last week even though she knew I had already started she was surprised at how much I had developed. The most embarrassing thing was I had just put a tampon in and I am sure she saw."
--Joanne, 10

"I am in stage 5 of pubic hair thick dark and curly and a 36b bra. Done forget all the good things about Puberty."
--Sam, 11

"My 10 yr old little sister has now started puberty (hair) already she now thinks she is grown up and keeps wearing my bras now. At the weekend we are going to buy her own ones and some tampax."
--Naomi, 12

"I only have peach fuzz and no breasts I want puberty to speed up."
--Steps, 9

"Been in puberty for about a year (breasts and hair) now getting used to using tampons (not the easiest)."
--Marie, 10

"I am the first in my class to reach puberty I noticed when we get changed from swimming no one else has any pubes one or two have breast buds but none are as developed as I am."
--Jade, 9

"my mum bought me some pads today for the first time as she gave me the puberty talk and I told her that I already had pubic hair. She didn't believe me at first until she checked and she was like oh my little girl is growing up."
--Suzy, 10

"'What should you do when you start seeing changes in your body...Or starting your period? Kayla, 12. Talk to someone! Not online though! Your mom might help! For advice talk to IML mentors, your mom, nurse, doctor, or friends! Hope it helps! LOL!"
--D0t123, 11

"Hey girls from my experience what I have learned is that most of those scary changes that you don't understand are normal when going through puberty. For those girls that really don't want their period don't worry too much because it's totally normal and telling your mom or older sister (if you have one) only makes things easier because you don't feel so alone. For those other girls that really want their period and are worried 'cause they don't have it yet well stop worrying because everybody grows differently I didn't get mine until I was 14! And guess what no breasts until I was well 14 too but now I just keep growing. Oh and by the way no your period doesn't hurt u can't feel it and also tampons aren't uncomfortable you can't feel them either."
--Scarlett

"Well every time I wake up in the morning I have an erection and sometimes it really scares me because well it doesn't normally happen to me. And some stuff came out and it was clear."
--Speedo3, 13

"If you're a girl it's periods."
--Faizah, 11

"My toughest part of puberty is my period because the mood swings that I get make me say mean things to my friends."
--Sara-Lynn, 11

"Well I got my period when I was in 6th grade and I was 11 years old and now I'm in 8th grade and my breasts are really small I wear a 36A and all of my friends have bigger ones than me so that stinks."
--Carla, 13

"For me getting breasts are too difficult because boys start looking at them when I talk and when I do sports. And also I hate periods why do we even have them even if we don't want too have kids."
--Kris, 11

"I cry a lot and wear bras sometimes."
--Anonymous, 10

"How come we have puberty?"
--Shamane, 12

"Well the toughest part is your period. I haven't started it yet but I'm starting to get cramps. But that's ok cause everybody goes thru it lol!"
--Dawn S, 12

"I hate the breast thing! Like I only have size 30A but they don't look like they are! Then I need like bigger bras and like I don't know how to ask my mom..."
--Jeanne, 11

"I think it is very hard. But I mean that's what we have to do to be healthy. And some of us just don't know when puberty will hit us I hit it at the age of 11 but that was ok I guess."
--Clara, 13

"I have big breasts and I'm only eleven. Should I get a padded bra?"
--Sydney, 11

"I have tender breasts. What do I do?"
--Alexas, 10

"I want my period really badly!" --Maggie, 10. OMG! Don't say that! You will regret it! I PROMISE! You are only ten! Just get the facts and be ready when it comes! Once you get it you will NEVER be able to go back! Just think about that!"
--Madi : -), 12

"Hey my name's Jayde I'm 13 nearly 14 and I now it sounds weird but I really can't wait 4 my period I now it's meant to hurt and everything but I really cant I have breasts and pubic hair but not a lot of armpit hair which is good lol I'm a bit overweight and fat but oh well. I should still start but my mum had 2 have a operation to help her start I think she was about 17 or something some1 plzzz HELPP I hope somebody feels the same way so just plz help x."
--Jayde, 13

"Thanks a bunch Amber. I just have a few more questions. 1) Should I be 100% honest when I tell my Mom? 2) It is really hard because she got her period when she was 15! And I am 11 (I am 12 in May but I like to call myself 12 because I hate it when people go "WOW! You are 12!". 3) I think I will have to grow up right away. 4) I AM WORRIED WHAT SHE WILL THINK! Will someone help me?!?!?!??! PLEASE!?!?!?" --Madi : -), 12 COME ON PEOPLE! I NEED HELP!"
--Madi : -), 12

"So who cares if you started your girly stuff every girl has it."
--Alyssa

"I'm not having puberty yet, but I'm going to in a year or two. I wonder what it's like..."
--Sakura, 11

"I don't know much about puberty. Give me answers."
--Evie, 11

"Getting my period in Florida and not going in the water."
--Julianna, 12

"Puberty is important thing for girl and boys."
--Lauren

"I just do."
--Kimmie, 12

"Help! I have to go to the doctor's. I don't know what he is going to do! I have started puberty so yikes. HELP!"
--Gertie, 13

"Mood swings."
--Sarah

"When your breasts grow it hurts. But when it does I don't think about it."
--Taylor

"My friend said that as soon as you've hit your period and as soon as you think it will be all dun. I really want it to be over! I'm scared!"
--Amy, 12

"I had my period."
--Anonymous

"Why do I have puberty."
--Shania, 11

"There is a problem...At my school there is a 1 or 2 grader that has HUGE boobs."
--Girl, 10

"I don't know."
--Jemimah

"The hardest part of puberty is hormones. I am in middle school and there are a lot of boys. All I can think about is boys and what they think of me. I am 5 feet and 5 inches tall and I wear C and I'm ONLY 13. That is even big for my age. BOYS BOYS BOYS on my mind all the time when is this madness going to stop but the weird thing is that I sort of like it. The other thing is I have friends that are boys and they are 13 and 14. I want them to stay my friends and nothing more. They are really hot too. How can I handle this uncontrollable urge?"
--Jazzy Love, 13

"Eat a lot of veggies and they'll get bigger."
--Megan, 10

"I have hair on my private part and I also have little bumps on my butt at first I had something but I realized it was just part of growing up I put aloe vera gel to stop itching it's normal to itch to and I sometimes feel like I wont ever get my period and have kids because my 25 year old sister cant but the other females in my family do so I keep reminding myself if I was meant to have kids I will and breast they are getting kind of big and I have vaginal discharge it's normal it's like a off white sticky stuff I'll probably get my period in a year or 2 and do stop from getting my underwear dirty I use extra light tampons but if yours is yellow green or brown hurry and see a doctor because it might be infected I also have under arm hair and my mom wont let me shave so sometimes I use scissors but it's not good because it will only grow back thicker so I just wear sleeves and cute shirt swimsuits when I get older I'll shave. And also if you feel like everything stinks and you wont to die just let it all our start by writing it down and putting it somewhere and another way is to write a list of things that you hope will happen by next year and put it up and see what really happens!"
--Toosheyah, 11

"I heard we have to watch a movie about puberty at my school in every grade and it's not cartoon. And I am starting to get hair well you know and I have breast."
--Kaylyn, 10

"What should you do when you start seeing changes in your body...Or starting your period?"
--Kayla, 12

"'I'm getting my period this year I don't want one."--Abbie, 9. Every Girl has to deal with it. Remember you not alone! Get help from your mom, nurse or doctor!"
--D0t123, 11

"Toughest thing is the mood swings. One moment you're super happy and the next moment you feel like you could die. I've gone through days where I get more emotion changes than there are hairs on my head. The best ways to deal with this confusion and insecurity is to (1) pray, (2) talk to your parents or another trusted adult, and (3) write it out. When I'm angry I write the person a letter telling them how I feel. That gives me a sense of control because I don't show them the letter and I understand my feelings better."
--Leilani

"I have to wear pads ’Äòcuz I had this human growth and development class and I had all the signs of period I'm scared and PS: tampons look so uncomfortable...Lol."
--Megan, 10

"I think that the toughest part is keeping it a secret and not knowing what to do and the way I try and deal with it is I talk about with my friends and family. I think it really helps."
--Helen, 11

"Well, I've had puberty since I was 9, and I'd have to say the worst part for me was when I first had my period. I didn't know what was going on (I thought it was the candy I had the day before) so instead of using a pad I had to use toilet paper! Lol."
--Nicole, 12

"I was kind of an early bloomer. I first grew hair in grade 3, and I got my period when I was 9. The only thing is that my breasts are only a 30A, so I guess my chest is a bit slow lol. I remember going to a sleepover camp for a week. And how nice, I got my period there! I was so unprepared lol. So I had to ask for spare ones : P It was hard because I was in a cabin with a bunch of younger girls! They were like 8 and 9. And of course I was 11. So that was probably the toughest part of puberty so far."
--Lexxi, 11

"Calm down people just breathe in then out I have not had my period yet but just chill ok?"
--Sakura fan, 10

"The toughest part of going through puberty is hard to decide but, I'd have to say getting your period. All those aches and cramps. You never are sure when it'll happen, but when it does, it's a relief. Until the pain starts kicking in, but still, it's only once a month and everyone goes through it."
--Lilian, 12

"I have mood swings sometime. Like yesterday I was REALLY irritable. Is that a sign that I'll soon have my period???" --Lindsee, 10. It could be. And you are getting to that age. Just be on the look out and you will be okay!"
--Madi : -), 12

"I want my period really badly!"
--Maggie, 10

"The toughest part for me is that people make fun of me because I have no boobs."
--Sarah, 11

"I heard about the video girls and boys go in different rooms. Help."
--Blahblah

"I am 10 and started puberty about 6 months ago. It started with light pubic hair, which has grown rapidly and is now dark and curly and I am now getting breasts. Some of my friends are now starting puberty too. Having pubic hair makes me feel more grown up."
--Anna, 10

"I am afraid to start my period because I think it will hurt."
--Shawna, 10

"Does it hurt."
--Shakira, 11

"I'm getting a period this year I do not want one." --Abbie, 9. How do you know your getting your period. You never really know it usually comes when you least expect it."
--Dana, 12

"When I got my breast and I was in first grade and noticed these two mounds on my chest then I remember my mum talking to me about puberty it was awkward talking and bras are itchy."
--Devonna

"I don't really know what the toughest part was because I am twelve and I don't have anything close to puberty yet =[."
--Betsy, 12

"My doctor said I'll have a growth spurt soon, when is that."
--Rob, 13

"I'm the only guy lol. I think armpit hair is. I want it so bad, I below the waist hair is very hairy it's black and I'm blonde. I just want armpit hair. I'm already developing big muscles, as a result of weight lifting and push-ups. On Christmas Eve, I had my voice change. Man, I didn't like it, my voice sounded like an off-key singer. Sometimes deep, sometimes really light..."
--Dominick, 13

"I haven't had puberty and I am already 13! Why haven't I gone through it yet?"
--Vanessa, 13

"I am starting to be fat."
--Gerald, 8

"What is a period my mom wouldn't tell me!" --Emma, 10. Your Mom probably just feels uncomfortable talking about that like you might. Anyway. What I would do is try to get this book called THE CARE AND KEEPING OF YOU. But you will know you have you period because there will be a blood stain on your underwear."
--Madi : -), 12

"How do breasts get bigger I'm 9 and I have just a little it stinks I wear a 30a bra!" --Alex, 9. Everyone is different you get your and your friends get theirs. Everyone is different."
--Madi : -), 12

"I want one person to tell me puberty is harder for guys. SERIOUSLY, guys you HAVE to agree girls got if bad. Guys YOU HAVE IT EASY! What do YOU think girls?"
--Madi : -), 12

"To Alex 9, I know how you feel. There is no way to speed up the growth there. =). Even though you feel small, you are still 9. You have a ways to go until you take off. Then you'll most likely be asking "How do I slow down this growth!" It's ok. Enjoy being small while you can! PS I am not 13 yet but am posting because it is soon!"
--Polarbearluvr, 13

"Periods. Period=). Also shaving is hard. It seems easy but once you do it you have to keep up with it or you get ugly, unattractive hair on legs and pits!"
--Polarbearluvr, 13

"See her is the big problem my period did not come it is maybe 3 months and my head is like someone hit me with a stone or something very hard is it from smoking or what."
--Yara, 12

"The toughest of going through puberty is that you don't know when something's going to happen. So when I go into puberty I go ask my mom."
--Paetyn, 9

"My toughest part of going through puberty is having my period. I deal with it by going to the restroom al day."
--Willow, 13

"Everything."
--Sarah, 10

"I think about the opposite sex ALL THE TIME! I don't know what to do because it bothers me sooo much, I just can't stop. Please help me!" Anonymous. OMG! Every tween does. It is okay."
--Madi : -), 12

"The toughest part of going through puberty is that all of a sudden, unexpected comes an annoying erection. & Also growing hair everywhere all over my body. The Worse part is that in a month I'm going to have a physical done by my family doctor that I've been seeing since I was 9 years old, & when he sees the newly grown hair downstairs it's going to be very embarrassing. Because I haven't had a physical done in over 6 months, it's going to be pretty embarrassing when he sees the new hair under there. To summarize probably the worse of puberty would be getting a physical done by a doctor that's known you since before you hit puberty, & then all of a sudden he sees all of these new hair growing in places where there weren't any hair before-embarrassing. As for boys that are 13 & that haven't hit puberty yet & think they'll never hit puberty trust me you will. Because at age 13 only 50% of boys are going through puberty, but when you turn 14 that number raises to 85%. So 13-year-old boys don't worry because in 1 or 2 years tops you'll be seeing lots of dramatic changes happening to your bodies. Because once your hormones start raging at 14 or 15 you'll be getting a lot changes to your body. How Do I know? 'cause I'm going through it & it isn't fun a ride. So enjoy these last few days you still have with your childhood bodies, even if other boys already started changing just ignore them. 'cause Trust Me the childhood body beats the changing body of a teenage boy like myself. So enjoy."
--Boy

"I haven't gotten my period yet, but I do get very irritable, I get pimples, blackheads, whiteheads, and I'm definitely sweating more!"
--Emily, 11

"OMG! The hardest thing is when you start changing and ppl know! Like a GUY knows what is going on with a girl's body. It is almost like you are showing off around kids who haven't started I HATE it!"
--Madi : -), 12

"People say I'm so skinny, and I am! I hate when people say that. I eat A LOT of fat but I'm not getting any chubbier. I'm afraid I have a problem I wish I could change! A girl even calls me stick. My mom teases me about it ''cause she comes back from work and she's always grumpy, but I love her and she loves me back!"
--Lilibeth, 11

"Thanks Madi, 11. I have told my best friend, Paige, about it. She kinda laughed a bit and said "Well, I'm always gonna be here for you" I was happy I could trust her. Haha, funny thing is, it's only my grade four year and I've been to the guidance councilor about 12 times, just talking to her about puberty. It was really awkward!" --Rebecca, 9. You are welcome. I wish I were you! I HAVE NO FRIENDS! Not even kidding. We moved 2 1/2 years ago! And I have some friends that are younger them me. JUST STARTING! And some other friends that I HAVEN"T SEEN IN SIX MONTHS. I e-mail them a lot but my mom looks at my e-mail every once in a while. SO I DON"T WANT TO TALK ABOUT PUBURTY THEN! LOL! You are lucky. Glad I could help! : -)."
--Madi : -), 12

"What are the best things about puberty?" --Caeley T, 11. To: Caeley T, 11: The other day I discovered the best part of puberty! Being a teen! I was hanging out with these other girls and it felt so good. We had the radio on. It felt really good. I still don't know why!"
--Madi : -), 12

"I live with my grandparents and I'm afraid to talk about having my period with my grand mother so what do I do? PLEASE HELP!" --Someone7, 11. OMG! I got my period when my grandparents were baby sitting me! I never told her. Or my Mom. And I still haven't. So here is my advice. (I know, you are like "Why are you giving me advice?? You haven't even TOLD anyone about your period! ) But the problem is DOING it. Not coming up with what to do. ) Talk to another trusted woman. Simple enough."
--Madi : -), 12

"I have some hair down here but I have white stuff in my panties. What does that mean?" --Jenna97, 10. That is NORMAL. That just means you are closer to you period."
--Madi : -), 12

"The weirdest thing about puberty, is that everyone changes at different times. My two best friends Paige and Rose shave their legs already, well my mom said I can't shave until I'm 12. Me and Rose and another friend, Shayla, wear bras, well Paige is completely flat and her mom won't let her wear one. Shayla got her period, and the rest of the girls in the class are still waiting. When your friends are ahead of you (Or your ahead of your friends! ) It can be the most awkward position to hang out with them. Rose's mom bought Rose emergency Tampons for when the big day hits, my mom got me emergency pads, Shayla wears Pads and Tampons, and Paige has both emergency tampons and pads. Really, periods might hurt, and bras itch, and sure, pimples are a pain, but how puberty affects people at different times is tougher then the rest. I'm a little bit behind, and when I hang out with friends who are ahead of me, it just feels like I'm the little kid who follows the older kids around." --Rebecca, 9. I FEEL THE SAME WAY! There are these girls I know and they are like 16 and 15. So I feel like the little kid who follows everybody around! But then there are these other girls who are a year younger then me and they follow ME around. Puberty is soooo confusing. I try to organize my thoughts in my head. It really helps."
--Madi : -), 12

"Madi, 11. The first thing you should do is tell your Mom. It may seem creepy ( I almost cried when I found out) but chances are, she'll be able to help you get pads and stuff. Plus, she can keep track of when your periods start and stop, so you know when to expect them. She will also tell you what's real and what's not. Friends and magazines aren't always the most reliable source. Trust me, eventually, toilet paper will start to get annoying." --Amber, 10 Thanks Amber, I am working on it..."
--Madi : -), 12

"I'm getting a period this year I do not want one."
--Abbie, 9

"What is a period my mom wouldn't tell me!"
--Emma, 10

"Hormones...Your mind being confused, pit stains, once a month, breasts. Everyone's different and I think that's the hardest part. In middle school especially teens have the need to be like everybody else. Like if one person has breasts the other wants breasts and feels worse about themselves. Then they become obsessed over that. My advice...ENJOY THE TIME YOU HAVE WITHOUT IT...Believe me it's a huge pain having to worry about it. But don't worry when you do get it you'll feel a pride only produced by becoming a women."
--Advicegvr7

"How do boobs get bigger I'm 9 and I have just a little it stinks I wear a 30a bra!"
--Alex, 9

"I'm 11 years old I've already started puberty I am going breasts I have hair and zit's (witch is a problem) but haven't started my period am I going to have children?!" --Tarah, 11 You will get you period at your time. One or two years after your breast have started."
--Madi : -), 12

"Omigosh! I have these real cute white pants but I cant wear them ’Äòcuz I might get my period soon. I got discharge now. Date: 5/23/07."
--Noname

"Cramps! Cramps! And more cramps!"
--Briana, 11

"Well, I haven't exactly started puberty yet, but I am feeling very jealous of my friends. I do wear a beginner's bra- but I'm as flat as a pancake! I wish it could come sooner."
--Ivy, 11

"It is that some people would make fun of you and tell others. Also nobody would want to be your friend. Why do we have puberty going on?"
--Kim, 11

"I hate periods! I got mine a couple of months ago. I hate it! It's totally disgusting. For all u girls out there that can't wait for ur period to start...Trust me, it stinks. Boys/men, little girls and people who haven't started r sooooo lucky! I wish I got mine later. Periods stink ’Äòcuz of the cramps and the blood is really gross!"
--Someone, 12

"Periods stink! Mine is heavy and it lasts 7-8 days! What am I gonna do for swimming? I'm too young too wear tampons!"
--Rose, 12

"Thanks a bunch Amber. I just have a few more questions. 1) Should I be 100% honest when I tell my Mom? 2) It is really hard because she got her period when she was 15! And I am 11 (I am 12 in May but I like to call myself 12 because I hate it when people go "WOW! You are 12!". 3) I think I will have to grow up right away. 4) I AM WORRIED WHAT SHE WILL THINK! Will someone help me?!?!?!??! PLEASE!?!?!?"
--Madi : -), 12

"Anonymous: Yes this is normal. I noticed I had an armpit hair on me, and my brother made me shave it off. I was kinda worried because I have hair...downstairs, too. I am getting whiteheads, no blackheads. My breasts are like, big, I wear a 37A bra. I don't know if it can effect their growth but if it happens to many times you can get breast cancer, but don't worry. It's okay. You're just going through puberty. Don't ask if it's normal, I know you can figure that out yourself. It's okay. I turned 10 the 23rd of December. Well glad I could help, please put this on the page. Thank you, A. K. A. Valentine. B, but my real name is Alexis. Well b-bye."
--Brentlover10, 10

"The toughest thing that that I'm going through (and went through) is that I'm changing (are you? ). But the thing to remember is that it's alright to change during this time. Awkward? Yes. But remember who the person inside of you is. Hope for the best."
--Laura, 11

"I have red spots that are like acne that I cant get rid of because it's from hormones, how do you get rid of it?"
--Carina

"I have mood swings sometime. Like yesterday I was REALLY irritable. Is that a sign that I'll soon have my period???"
--Lindsee, 10

"The talk" in school is not so bad...I mean it's embarrassing at first, knowing that guys know about ur body, but just act normal! It'll be fine, and everything will go back 2 normal soon..."
--Me

"Dear Madi, 11: You'll know if (scratch that, WHEN) you get your period when you wake up or look down, only to find a reddish spot in the middle of your underwear. WHEN that is, though, no one knows, but I promise it WILL happen."
--Kayla, 12

"OK, 1st of all, I'm gonna have to say that periods, bras, and hair are NOT the toughest parts. The toughest parts have got to be, well, that everyone else is going through it. People always say, "Don't worry. You're not the only one going through it." But how does that help? You, your friends, and your guy friends are going to experience some MAJOR changes in your pre-teen/teen years, and it's going to be tough. You're BFF for so many years will like new things, or maybe feelings for a boy, or how different y'all may look will tear that apart. When you're on your period, you get stressed, and PMS will ’Äòcause you to say and do things that you normally wouldn't. Also, everyone's parents have different rules. You can't wear make-up, you can't date, and you can't go to that party. You may catch the eyes of all the boys, while your BFF hasn't been asked out once. Hormones are also tough. Example: your guy friend may develop feelings for you that you don't return. BOOM! There goes a great friendship out the window. All I'm trying to say is that it helps to talk, and to really think before you do stuff. Yes, remember that everyone IS going through it, but that doesn't make it any easier AT ALL. It just means that we need to have great friends who we can trust and count on to fall back on and not get jealous and vice-versa."
--Kayla, 12

"I think about the opposite sex ALL THE TIME! I don't know what to do because it bothers me sooo much, I just can't stop. Please help me!"
--Anonymous

"It's not fair that we have to get periods every month and I always take warm showers because it helps cramps."
--Marci

"I'M 12.5 YRS. And I didn't get my first period neither have my breasts developed. What should I do?"
--Casey, 12

"Why does people get embarrassed when they are going through puberty I think that they should not! I have already started and it's not that bad."
--Leandra, 12

"I'm 11 years old I've already started puberty I am going breasts I have hair and zit's (witch is a problem) but haven't started my period am I going to have children?!!!"
--Tarah, 11

"What are the best things about puberty?"
--Caeley T, 11

"My sister has started to grow breasts ad I have not. She is only 8 and I am 11..."
--Tina, 11

"My little sister robin and I have thing that feels like a miniature balls inside our breast. She went to the doctor about it. The doctor said it was the growth of her breast. I want to know if it is normal..."
--Tina, 11

"I really seriously hate my period. Sometimes I just wish I were a boy. It stinks, and the cramps and leaks are so annoying. I've had for 2 years already and I want this junk gone. Why do girls have 2 go through this? It is so not fair...WHY!!!!!"
--Shelley, 13

"I get sick all the time. I have a runny nose, sore throat. My dad was the same when he went through puberty."
--Lynn, 10

"If you are going through puberty, talk to your parents about it. They know what to tell you give you more confidence in yourself about puberty. Yeah, It might feel weird but, it is a natural thing to go through!!!!"
--Andriana, 10

"I'm going through puberty. I'm okay with it but I'm just nervous of what the doctor will say at my physical, which is in a week. Can anyone tell me what the doctor told their parents when they started puberty?"
--Jake

"The toughest part of going through puberty is the zit's. They're so annoying! I have them and it's embarrassing. For the people who don't have them: Be lucky!!!!!"
--Tia, 13

"I've been going through all of the symptoms of having my period and I have not hade it yet! My mom said I'm just don't worry about it. Can you PLEASE HELP!!!"
--Meaghan, 10

"Madi, 11. The first thing you should do is tell your Mom. It may seem creepy ( I almost cried when I found out) but chances are, she'll be able to help you get pads and stuff. Plus, she can keep track of when your periods start and stop, so you know when to expect them. She will also tell you what's real and what's not. Friends and magazines aren't always the most reliable source. Trust me, eventually, toilet paper will start to get annoying."
--Amber, 10

"Hey Ya'll!!! Madi - to answer your question about when to know when you have your period, it'll be pretty obvious trust me. You will see blood you know where. But just try not to freak. I was at school when it happened. I was in the bathroom and I go to flush and I see red on the toilet paper and I'm like OHMYGOSH! THERE'S NO WAY THIS IS HAPPENING TO ME! I was sooooo freaked out I was breathing heavily and everything. But it'll be okay. Just put toilet paper or something there. Or if you meant when will you know when it's coming, it may be just random, or you might have discharge (it's this sticky white stuff that just appears and it feels like you wet your pants) or you might have stomachaches (a.k.a. cramps). Best of luck to you!"
--MALLIEfromtheVALLEY, 13

"( which is white in your underwear usually before you start your period) Anonymous, 12: -x- THANK YOU! I didn't know what discharge meant, I was like "Uhm..."."
--Rebecca, 9

"Kitty lover, 11: That white stuff would be your discharge. You are a lucky owner of a soon to be period. Tip: Better stock up on pads and tampons!"
--Justine

"Thanks Madi, 11. I have told my best friend, Paige, about it. She kinda laughed a bit and said "Well, I'm always gonna be here for you" I was happy I could trust her. Haha, funny thing is, it's only my grade four year and I've been to the guidance councilor about 12 times, just talking to her about puberty. It was really awkward!"
--Rebecca, 9

"I live with my grandparents and I'm afraid to talk about having my period with my grand mother so what do I do? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
--Someone7, 11

"I have some hair down here but I have white stuff in my panties. What does that mean?"
--Jenna97, 10

"Hey, Sarah, 11, and Sassy, I shave my legs and you should just ask your mom if you can shave. It's really easy, don't sweat it."
--Jenna97, 10

"Hey Jazmine, I was wondering what white stuff in my underwear is? Sorry if this is too personal : (."
--Jenna97, 10

"I have been growing some hair on my private parts is that normal for a guy? sorry if it's a stupid question but I don't know and I've been having wet dreams and I don't really understand them and I get erections a lot now."
--Dan, 12

"How do I know if I've gotten my period??????? Can someone tell me how? Please?????" --Madi, 11. To: Madi AWESOME!!! We have the same name!!! You will know if you get your period. There will be blood in you underwear. : -) short and simple but true! : -)."
--Madi : -), 12

"Is there anything I can eat to make my breasts grow, I'm like 15 and they are tiny, I hate it. Help please!" --Louise To: Louise Sorry. Nothing. You are you. But girls start developing between the ages of 9-15 so don't sweat it. Other girls might feel the same as you. Think of your Adult self. Slender and Beautiful. I whish I could help more but there is just nothing more you can do. Sorry : - ( But make the best of it and think of all the girls who are sad because the have started really early. I know it is hard to bear. And I may sound corny, but I am jealous of you! I don't want to develop as early as I have. And there are lots of other girls too! Good luck!"
--Madi : -), 12

"I am worried. My penis will not develop, and my mates say theirs has. Why won't mine?"
--Anon

"Knowing if ur friends have a "Time of month" or not. I do and I wanna tell them but what if they don't and I'm the only one? then they'll make fun of me!!! Oh no!!!"
--Someone, 12

"I haven't got my period yet but I have white stuff in my pants every day it's disgusting what is it?"
--Katy, 12

"When will my penis grow? And also, I have only a little bit of hair around my testicles, is this normal?"
--James, 12

"My mom wont let me get a bra and I need one! I look really pointy because I don't have bras. How do I talk them into letting me have a bra? help!"
--Kyky, 11

"I'm called flat chested but I'm not I just don't wear a bra well jet! I have to wear a t-shirt in swimming because the other girls laugh at me. What should I do? when will get in to a bra? slow."
--Slow, 12

"I have to wear a bra. It stinks 'cause everyone starts looking at me!"
--Emily, 12

"Going though it is really hard. But when you think about it I know that other girls are. Going though the same thing. So don't go all crazy! About it. P. S. For more tips go to the icon BODY."
--Brianna, 9

"Puberty is a part of life everyone goes through it if they can't handle it and make fun they're just immature."
--Brianna, 12

"I'm going through puberty, and I'll tell you- it's pretty tough. It's odd having everyone moving at different speeds! I mean, in first grade, everyone was the same size, had the same grades, and was basically on the same page. But now you never know what to expect. Sometimes it feels like nobody gets it (even though most of the time they do! ). I'm still wearing a trainer bra and I'm sort of in a stage where I'm almost fitting into a regular one but barely not. It's weird because you really don't know how to talk about it. My sister is three years older than me so I have to wear her old bras, but it's easier because I don't really have to talk about it to my mom. I haven't had my period but sometimes I can tell when I might be having early signs of PMS. Heh. I get grou-chy. I can sort of tell when my sister is having her period too, she is the PMS MONSTER. But puberty hasn't had its total crazy effects on me yet. Not yet. But almost."
--Zoe, 12

"I wear bras, I have an armpit hair (only 1 or two lol) and I'm developing hair in...Well other areas, I wear deodorant. I get blackheads/whiteheads and I am feeling like a kind of tenderness in my breasts sometimes. But I'm only 10! Is this normal?"
--Anonymous, 10

"Ten years old, and wears a 30 something size bra (A that is) normal? probably..."
--Anonymous

"Well, I got my first period a couple of days ago. I think this is the toughest. When I first saw the blood, I felt like I was puke. I have to change my pad every couple of hours and it's annoying. I've been out of school because I feel like I'm going to puke because of the blood. It's gross."
--Gabby, 11

"Why do I get pimples?"
--Madeline, 12

"Hi, I'm going through puberty and I'm confused. What do I do?"
--Geordan, 12

"Is there anything I can eat to make my breasts grow, I'm like 15 and they are tiny, I hate it. Help please!"
--Louise

"Hi, I started period when I was 11, Mostly time my back hurt. I wear bra all time. Have lot of headaches."
--Emily18

"I got my Puberty last year, and it was scary. My voice was SO high, higher than even girls and still is. Most of the people in school and even in my family make fun of my voice. Just want to say to all the boys who voices have changed are not alone."
--Sam, 13

"The toughest part was not knowing that other girls went through or would go through the exact same things. I wasn't the only girl that had underarm hair or had their period. Every girl goes through it all, just at different times! Don't sweat it!"
--Ashley G

"HELP! I'm just starting to go though puberty and it makes me feel really insecure because I'm the only one in my class...Any advice??" --Kathrine, 10 To: Kathrine I know how you feel. I was the first in my class too! And it is always hard around my older brother because he is two years older then me and his voice is JUST starting to change. The best advice I can give you is stand tall. Do you want a bra? It might make you feel better. If you get a sports bra they are harder to tell you have them on. Try talking to your mom. I know it may seem like the end of the world. But trust me. It's not. I went through this too! And felt the same way you did. I ignored it. I know it seems sooo hard. But really, soon everyone will catch up. Think about it this way, maybe you started sooner, so maybe you will end sooner too. It is just like getting it over with. Good Luck! : -)."
--Madi, 11

"How do I know if I've gotten my period??????? Can someone tell me how? Please?????"
--Madi, 11

"Can getting hit on your breasts affect their growth?????? Somebody PLEASE answer my question and SOON!" --Frizzyfreak3, 10 To: --Frizzyfreak3, 10 Umm no."
--Anonymous

"To: Rebecca Umm, to me, it might be easier to tell my BFF them my Mom. So if you do get it, it might be easier to tell you friend and ask if she has any pads you could use. And trust me. For a year I have been using toilet paper as pads. I HAVE NOT told my Mom yet. You'll do better. Trust me. Now, Would somebody help me????? I have had my period for a year! I have NOT told my mom. I have been using toilet paper as pads! HELP! PLEASE! PLEASE I REALLY REALLY NEED HELP!"
--Madi, 11

"I am 12 and a girl, and I'm in 6th grade. All my friends' breasts are already growing, and I'm totally FLAT CHESTED! I bet they already had their periods, too. When will I start?!?" --Anonymous You don't want to! Trust me. Enjoy it for now. You will catch up. But really, it you get breasts now you will NEVER be flat chested again! If you get your period, you will ALWAYS have it. Just think about that. (I found some other posts that say Madi age 11. That is not me. Well most of them are. But not all of them. From now on, if it has a little smiley next to my name that's me. But I did send in a lot of stuff with out little smiles. Anyway strait to the point. PARTY! I am 12! )."
--Madi : -), 11

"My mom says I'm probably going to have my period soon but none of the signs are there except sometimes I have hormones. She says and I'm really emotional. And oddly I want my period. AND I heard a couple of times that whenever your mom had it you'll have it sometime close to that age. She said she had hers when she was 11 and I'm turning 11 in 5 months." --Anonymous, 10 Yeah, maybe. But I got mine when I was 10 and my mom got hers when she was 15! Just wait as listen to YOUR body! You aren't your mom You are YOU! : -)."
--Madi : -), 12

"Ok I've grown some pubic hair and I've tried to shave it ’Äòcuz it bothered me sooooooooo much."
--Robby, 10

"Period lasts from 3-6 days."
--Mmmmmmmeeeeee, 10

"Is your period because you get stressful and sad and miserable and just crazy."
--Delicia, 10

"The weirdest thing about puberty, is that everyone changes at different times. My two best friends Paige and Rose shave their legs already, well my mom said I can't shave until I'm 12. Me and Rose and another friend, Shayla, wear bras, well Paige is completely flat and her mom won't let her wear one. Shayla got her period, and the rest of the girls in the class are still waiting. When your friends are ahead of you (Or your ahead of your friends! ) It can be the most awkward position to hang out with them. Rose's mom bought Rose emergency Tampons for when the big day hits, my mom got me emergency pads, Shayla wears Pads and Tampons, and Paige has both emergency tampons and pads. Really, periods might hurt, and bras itch, and sure, pimples are a pain, but how puberty affects people at different times is tougher then the rest. I'm a little bit behind, and when I hang out with friends who are ahead of me, it just feels like I'm the little kid who follows the older kids around."
--Rebecca, 9

"Ummmmm well it is like this every day I worry about "Getting it" it's so embarrassing talking about it with my parents or actually my mom and I have to take this class for a after school program called "Human growth and development" if I cant talk about it with my parents how will I ever talk about it with people I don't even know."
--Megan, 10

"I think the hardest part of puberty is telling your parents (asking your mum for a bra, asking for pads)..."
--Sara, 12

"Soo scared! I'm in 5th grade, and really soon, in less than a month, were watching a video on puberty. Yeah, I looked at it here, but still WICKED GROSS! We have to watch the boyz vid, 2. Plus we get a "Goodie bag" w/ deodorant, a tampon and stuff like that. I'm so scared! I already have hair in awkward places. I DON'T wear a bra, I don't have period. But I do get zits sometimes."
--Melissa, 11

"EVERYONE! Going through puberty and having a period and breasts are all natural. Just think: when you were little did you ever play with dolls? I did and sometimes I still do. Any ways if you want to be a birth mother you have to have these changes in your body! When you start your period responsibility comes with it. I know that some times it my be over whelming but just thin kit is a good thing. I haven't started my period but have had discharge ( which is white in your underwear usually before you start your period) in my under wear and I have to change my underwear twice a day! I have breasts and in my class if your not wearing a bra everyday you are weird. I don't think that that is right but any ways I have hair down there and in my armpits and people don't forget to take a shower every day while going through puberty! That is my advice and use it!"
--Anonymous, 12

"Okay I just turned 12 I am more developed than my friend but she just got her period the funny thing is anything that happens to her to do with puberty happens to me about a week later could this be possible that I might get it next week I also just had a major growth spurt and I have ha all signs for 3 years thanks HELP!"
--Megan, 12

"I'm also known as Bridgett 12 but oh well. Well anyway, me and my friends call the discharge "banana," ’Äòcause we like using nicknames so ppl don't know what we are talking about. Haha it's funny. I already got my period. I don't get cramps well not yet. But anyways all girls are gonna get either they like it or not."
--Happy: d, 12

"If you were a bra does it make your breasts stop growing as fast."
--Crazy, 11

"I am starting to go through puberty and I didn't get my period yet. Hope it isn't in school!"
--Erika, 10

"Me seeing my period."
--Sherice, 13

"What is my bra size?"
--Lilly, 10

"I feel embarrassed about it when my mother talks about it I feel weird!"
--Hannah, 9

"The toughest thing about going thru puberty is that most people make fun of me because I am getting acne and haven't been developing breasts."
--Hannah, 13

"I have started wearing bra's and mum doesn't think I need one because I am only 10. I also have lots of bumps on my forehead and I don't have a fringe to cover them up and I notice that kids walking past me at school just stare at my forehead with a funny look on there face."
--Katie-Jade, 10

"Ummm...I have started puberty but I haven't gotten my period yet. I have pubic hair and arm pit hair...Like a lot! I've been like getting this white stuff in my panties...What is that?? What are the signs of your period? I have very small breasts...I wear a bra...Not a padded one, a regular one. Please help me because I want to wear a padded bra but my mom says it makes you look like your breasts are big! HELP!"
--Kitty lover, 11

"I am so embarrassed at school because my friend always call me flat-chested it makes me feel bad why do we get creamy stuff in our underwear."
--Sarah, 12

"Well...I do nothing...It cant be stopped...The toughest would be getting your period...: D."
--MzR, 12

"Cramps are especially terrible for me. Sometimes I get really sick from them. Advil is your best friend. Trust me."
--Lidre, 13

"You know most girls have backs (a. K. A. Butts) but out of all my friends I'm the only one backless do you know at what age your going to start growing big backs?"
--Anonymous, 13

"Um I guess the toughest thing is mood swings. I get mad at people for no reason what so ever! Also I had a really embarrassing moment when I thought my period was over and like drenched my underwear! At school too! This year! It was awkward but one of my friends had a pad thank god! Also I feel weird when I'm on it like I hate blood so it makes weirder for me! But be glad you aren't a guy! Hahahahaha good luck girls!"
--Laura bby <3, 12

"I think the hardest thing in puberty is having to deal with lots of stress and drama one minute a cute guy likes you the next he's going out with your bff! I asked out a guy 3 times and he shot me down every time, but the weird thing is were like loved each other in 5th grade and now nothing. Over winter break my aunt brought her friend from Florida because they had no family in the US. Her friend had a son that was 12 years old and after a day or so we were crazy about each other then he had to leave. He called me 2 times since them and now I'm staring to think he doesn't like me because he is in 7th grade and has had a lot of girlfriends. I don't even know if we're going out or not I haven't been able to talk to him. Well gotta go!"
--Lauren B, 11

"I haven't started my periods but want to know when I will start how do I ask my mum."
--Lola, 12

"I have erections all the time."
--Brian

"Amanda, you started puberty. With the hair and stuff."
--Peace, 10

"The hormones I guess, I'm more quiet and I like reading more. To me it's fine, but when I was younger I was loud and crazy, so my parents notice a big change in me and don't really it too much..."
--Tixxy, 11

"I started to wear a bra a few months ago and all of a sudden I stopped. Now I'm growing faster w/out one..."
--Thunderbunny, 11

"The toughest part about puberty is having your period. I get really embarrassed when people ask me for a pad or tampon and that sort of thing. I hide a pad in my pockets and I make it into some kind of game, like you can't let anyone know..."
--Anonymous

"I feel like well when am I gonna get my period, I'm scared about..."
--Nonah, 11

"I got a little puberty I'm staying to grow hair in weird places."
--Josh4111, 9

"I think the worst part is the mood swings. Today I was talking to my friend about teachers and all of a sudden I burst out in tears! I am so irritable and when I am all sad I am usually sad about something from two years ago! PUBERTY GO AWAY!"
--Kat, 11

"HELP! I'm just starting to go though puberty and it makes me feel really insecure because I'm the only one in my class...Any advice??"
--Kathrine, 10

"Having breasts because everyone will know you are wearing a bra...And if I'm not wearing a bra and when it gets cold my nipples peek thru my clothes....."
--Anonymous, 11

"I'm afraid that ill grow up and not be able to do kidz stuff anymore I'm really terrified I haven't got my...Um...What do u call it the thingy with the thing and the creepy word u know my period yet but I'm like totally freaked out plz help me I'm so scared I haven't told my mom yet but can u help me."
--Bubbely bird, 10

"Well nothing really just the periods when they strike at the wrong time. Also when it feels like you have to take care of it..."
--Anonymous

"Since I am developing, sometimes I feel embarrassed or ashamed, but it's perfectly normal..."
--REEZE, 12

"Preparing for my first period. I don't really deal with it I just freak out. Plus it might be soon because I have a real bra pubic hair and vaginal discharge. I've had the discharge for 4 month's! Help!"
--Meshelle, 11

"The toughest part of going through puberty is that when you get your period you have to change your pad at school and at home. How I deal with it is that I ignore it or I do it..."
--Nora Katz

"After a while when you get older like my age you wont be so freaked out trust me. Sometimes I get an erection don't worry about that. Dan it's ok I have wet dreams sometimes too."
--Paul, 12

"When you go through Puberty your body changes a lot. A lot of boys and girls these days are going through puberty. When you hit puberty you start to have weird feelings and sometimes good feelings. Puberty is a natural thing to go through. Yeah, this might sound weird but, you all girls develop breast and all that good stuff."
--1, 10

"Periods are the number one problem with growing up. (other than not being able to be a kid again) Most of the time I just feel gross when it comes out on my clothes by accident. It really bugs me. But, you do get a talent for making up stories as to why you have a red spot on your pants..."
--Lauren

"Ok I got all my ears pierced when I was 5."
--Megan, 10

"I haven't got my period: (."
--Haha

"I think the toughest part is having to go through the physical and emotional changes. Now ur hormones change and u and ur friends and cousins are having issues with boys but it's straight. Jus keep a pad and remember to know when ur starting every month sometimes u don't get it every month but it's ok ya digg be easy."
--Kayla

"Just except it the way it is! Your still you! You still have all your friends! Your parents don't love you any more or any less! There is no point in getting stressed out about it! It just happens! And never ever compare yourself to Hollywood stars because they have professional makeup artists that perfect everything about them! Hope this helps to anyone who needs it!"
--Cari

"I have already had my first period and I had it at school I was the last of my friends to get it. I don't ware makeup or have my ears pierced ears although I want to, but my mom wont let me..."
--Jane, 13

"I got puberty when I was nine I was young for puberty in fact I'm the only kid in class who has puberty. It's tough. I'm not going to tell anybody except for my bff ’Äòcos what if it got spread? that would be a night mare oh by the way I hate to have to wear bras : (."
--Annie, 10

"Period I started mine on xmas day worst prezzie ever...But lucky enough my mum was calling past I don't see her any more tho."
--Babalicous, 12

"The toughest part is talking to your parents about the thing you changed. When I got my period, I was hardly falling in a faint when I told my mom about it. Period is a big big big trouble, when it comes, if you eat any cold stuff, like coke and ice cream, you will be sick. I think all those changes in puberty aren't the hardest part, but it will be so embarrassed when your parents ask about it. But don't panic, beginning is tough, soon you will get along with it though..."
--Sunny@@, 12

"I started my period about 4 or 5 months ago I feel really sick what should I do."
--Alex R, 13

"What if you start feeling cramps? what do you do?"
--Charlisa, 10

"I have not had puberty yet but I have no breast they hurt I wear a sports bra I have no period yet and my stomach gets cramps what do I do 5th no breast."
--Makayla, 11

"Hi my name is Lisa and I think that I have started my 1st period. But it seems very light and I have a lot more pee than blood and some discharge and I am scared because I think something might be wrong with my body. But I thought that where it was my first period it would be very light. Will someone please help me. Please."
--Lisa, 13

"I just found this huge zit on my nose, and tomorrow I start school, I am worried it's my first what should I do?"
--Sofia, 11

"I hate being like bigger then my friends and having bigger breasts and hair on private and under my arms. I weigh more then all of them I use to have a excuse that I was taller so I weighed more but know some of my friends are becoming taller and weigh like 10 pounds less it's just so embarrassing."
--Anonymous

"Well all of my friend don't wear bras and I do wear one (padded) so they all make fun of me."
--Shelby

"Omg when you have your period it's no big deal!"
--Roomer, 12

"I've had my period since I was like 12. It was kinda uncomfortable at first. Especially the pads. But I find that wearing a tampon is better than a pad. But, sometimes girls feel embarrassed talking abut periods like at school or something but really...It isn't that bad. I've never had the problem of my friend blabbing out that I had my period bcuz usually I'm was the one who said it. If you ARE scared to talk about it...You should call it your own name...Like...Crimson red/wave or say that ur aunt flow is in town or The Dot some thing like that lolz good luck! XD."
--Mariah

"I have a question: do girls automatically become adults when they get their periods?"
--Reese, 12

"I'm kind of scared of people knowing I'm wearing a bra."
--Frizzyfreak3, 10

"How do I know if I've gotten my period??????? Can someone tell me how? Please?????"
--Frizzyfreak3, 10

"This time it's the real me, Fritznie, not frizzyfreak3. I think bras are okay."
--Fritznie, 10

"What changes can I expect to happen? When do I expect them? Do I have to tell my friends when these changes happen? Huh? Huh? Do I?????"
--Frizzyfreak3, 10

"OMG! Periods are like, the worst thing that happens in puberty. I got mine really early. My mom got hers at 15 and I got mine at 11! It stinks so much! I hate it, if I could I would murder all periods! I got mine early and unexpected so it got through my pants. It was soo uncomfortable! I haven't even told my BFFs yet! I want 2, but it's 2 embarrassing! HELP ME HOW DO I TELL MY FRIENDS?"
--Someone, 12

"It's really hard but I don't feel embarrassed! My period is really annoying."
--Hannah, 11

"I just got 'it' I'm sooo young."
--Joan

"Can getting hit on your breasts affect their growth?????? Somebody PLEASE answer my question and SOON!"
--Frizzyfreak3, 10

"Here's sum advice to ppl who don't have breasts yet. It sometimes depends on ur family. Like if ur mom had small breasts than u'll probably have small ones too. If ur skinny (like me) u probably will get them later than others. Don't feel bad though. It's fun to be a kid."
--Sara, 11

"My name is Chenoa, on the computer I like to be called d0t123. I'm freaked about my period! And my mood swings are driving me crraaazzy! Cud someone plz help me!?! AAAAAAAHHHHHH!"
--D0t123, 11

"I struggle with how painful periods can be."
--Tammy

"I have hair under my arms and I'm growing a mustache I'm getting taller my 13 year old cousin and he is 5'6" I'm almost as tall as him do you think I'm going through puberty I'm also going to be ten in three months."
--Jared, 9

"I do hate getting this weird slimy stuff on my pads. I used to ignore it, b4 I wore pads, but it all ended up on my underwear. Now I wear pads and it feels much more comfortable. Puberty is fun, because you're not alone, and it's just a part of growing up."
--Farah, 11

"How do I know if I am going through puberty."
--Josh, 13

"It's all pretty tough but I just remember that everyone goes through it."
--Jennifer, 11

"Lucky I had my period during summer vacation, I HOPE it only comes on weekends and not when I'm at school."
--Anoymous322

"I actually don't know, because I haven't experienced my period, mood swings, pimples, zits, acne, headaches, cramps, discharge, smelly sweat..........And I think that's all I that I don't have yet. Hey, do any boys actually write on here. Now--Because of all the things people wrote about periods on here--I actually WANT my period to come. And before, I never wanted The Period Fairy to come."
--Frizzyfreak3, 10

"My friends wear a bra already and I am still flat chested and still don't have any hair down there. When will I get it all!"
--Paula, 11

"I want to wear makeup and have my ears pierced, but my mom says that I have to be in high school to get my ears pierced, and I don't know how long until makeup! I feel so left out! Everyone's talking about mascara, and the hot new eyeshadows and bare minerals and I'm like "I'm not allowed to wear makeup yet" and they look at me like I have 2 noses! What do I do?"
--Sum1, 11

"The hardest part is which bra to wear?"
--Melissa, 12

"I think that the hardest part of puberty for girls is period. When I have mine I have cramps which is normal. It is ok if you have an accident."
--Sweety101, 12

"Ok, so I have got 3 sports bra's, medium size (I don't know the actual figure! I just go to lasensa girl and there they only have small to large! ). I don't wanna start my period at a bad time, I always seem to have bad timing. I have been wetting my pants and wetting the bed for the last month, it all started with a dream...Anyway, back to the point, I have been getting stomach cramps and headaches, and I've been needing to go to the bathroom A LOT lately. What will I do if I have it at a bad place? I'm not worried about having my period at school or at the mall, because they have those vending things in the girl's washroom. From the time I turned nine I've been carrying $1.00 and extra underwear around just in case I need them. I'm just worried about getting my period at one of my friends houses or at the swimming pool, I've been really, REALLY stressed lately, Help me?"
--Rebecca, 9

"I think we've got plenty of info on girls through puberty. But I just want to share...There's this guy in my gym class whose voice is changing really bad. It's really cute lol...When he screams it goes so high pitched and echoes around the gym. And when he's talking it just breaks completely and he sounds like a little girl, awww. Guys, if you have this problem, don't sweat it ; girls love it : ] or at least I do lol. He's the sweetest kid, and my gym teacher makes him sing for the class every day! Harsh, I know! But anyways...That's my story!"
--MALLIEfromtheVALLEY, 13

"One of the very worst things is that when you are fixing to start puberty, your body tries to store energy for puberty, which means you easily gain weight. I eat a lot, but every other day (just about), I get plenty of exercise. I'm 120 pounds. Eat right, be active."
--Katie, 12

"The pain of the period! Cramps, headaches, and mood swing, s oh my. (the zits are bad 4 me 2)."
--Kati, 13

"What kind of help would I need? what do I need to know more about?"
--Darya, 11

"I think the hardest part of going through puberty is a girl having there period. I know how it feels to have your period. But I don't have big breast like my friends but there getting there."
--Mia, 11

"My mum came home from the mall one day and gave me a 28 aa bra and I was like mum I'm a 34a and she was like oh haha."
--Leigh, 11

"To all girls you will know when it starts if you end up with blood in your undies it doesn't hurt but you will have cramps it's ok if you are late one but the later the better I say."
--Kami

"Today my mom & dad were going to town ( I live in a little place called Boss, MO. ) But I asked my mom if she would get me pads and she will probably tell my dad, and my brother is making me really mad right now. Well I guess I'll get off here. BRENT, I STILL LUV U! HOPE U LUV ME :)."
--Brebtluvr, 10

"Okay so I'm 13 right I've already started and I think it's okay. It's not all that bad until it comes time to get more pads and tampons. Also when ur tampon falls out [that's the worst] and once my bra came undone at school [lol] it felt weird considering I wear a c-36."
--Anonymous

"Ha, you don't know the half of it, I started 2 years ago and I still fell weird. And to make matters worse, and sooooo flat. I mean I need a bra, but I'm soo small I done fit in a 32A. Is there any tricks to making my chest bigger?"
--Natto

"I hate the fact that I have to worry about my armpit hair. One day I was going to answer a question and someone saw my armpit hair. She said "You are a boy ''cause you goy so much ARMPIT hair." I felt so embarrassed. Now I shave whenever I need to."
--Savannah P., 12

"Last year my mom started making me wear a bra even though I didn't need one my breasts r still really tiny but I don't get made fun of because none of my classmates really have big or even medium breasts (there is one girl who has medium breasts)."
--Claire, 10

"Omg I am 12 years old and I haven't gotten my period yet. I am so scared all of my friends say my moods are changing and I am really scared that I will start...Please someone help me."
--Diane, 12

"Nothing, God made our bodies to be like this, so I can't worry, because God doesn't make mistakes!"
--ComfortablyMe

"I think the toughest part is getting your period. I deal with it by just forgetting about it."
--Kammi, 12

"Cameron, 10, what the heck is Nair?"
--Alex, 10

"I had to deal with puberty. My mom told me it lasts for no more than 7 or 10 days. The worst part about puberty is when you have it in school! I had it in school before and I needed to use a tampon. The tampons don't feel good. That's the thing I have to tell you about my life of puberty. P. S. I started puberty when I was 10."
--Katey, 12

"I haven't gotten a period yet, but I have to wear a bra. They aren't that bad, but they're ITCHY! But I'm getting used to it & they hardly itch anymore. I think that if you haven't been forced to see the video, you shouldn't get all worried. But if you have, if you started your period congrats, but don't take it too far. XD If not & your being teased, I bet periods would be a pain in the rear, anyways!"
--Haylee, 11

"I got an erection in class! It was so embarrassing and my private parts itch all the time."
--Josh, 12

"My mom said I'm going to have to wear bras. But I really don't want to."
--Isobel, 8

"I am ten years old and the only parts of me that have noticeably started to develop are my hips, and sometimes that can be a pain because my friend Dornier is always showing of how developed her breasts and other body parts are."
--Catherine, 10

"well I am having change going on with my chest it that thing that is about to blossom it hurts OUCH OUCH MY CHEST HURTS MOM! She says there some thing that is starting to blossom."
--Nasheya, 9

"I think it would be your discharge. Because I just hate my discharge. It's annoying, icky. Ewwwww but I haven't had my period yet soooo..."
--Cammy, 12

"What is that white sticky stuff on my underwear."
--Erin, 10

"Heyy Nonname I have my period the age you should get it is around 11 and 12. Signs of your period are when you see like little drips of blood or in a really bad mood and fill crampy. Seya!"
--Angi, 12

"Well I started puberty when I was kind of young and it seemed so embarrassing. Nobody knows except for my older sister and mom. I HATE my period."
--Faizah, 11

"I've got hair but noting else is that normal."
--Anonymous

"I have cramps and dark spots I'm I going to start my period."
--Kristen012547, 9

"I think the hardest part about going through puberty is growing pains. They hurt badly after sports. Another thing is getting an erection is school is embarrassing. If someone makes fun of you for getting an erection at school it's most likely because they were made fun for it before. I've had this happen to me during P. E class. So don't worry. Everyone is going through the same stuff so just ignore them and walk away..."
--Keenan, 13

"Everyone saying you are turning into an adult."
--Anonymous, 11

"I have a large itchy rash under my arms where I have hair what is it..."
--Lewiiisss, 13

"Well, I am just starting to go through it. Kids at my school are starting to make fun because I gained weight. It is all puberty. I am sooooooo mad at those people, they will have it to. How would they feel if I made fun of them."
--Erika, 10

"Well 3 of my BEST FRIENDS have there period. ( I DON'T ) Well anyway they are always talking about it and it's really weird! They talk all about it in front of me! So I get ticked off. But weird things are happening to me. I get cramps a lot now. And 1 time I was sitting watching TV and started to have cramps. Then I went to the washroom and it was all bloody. That was on December 18 of 2007. I haven't told my mom 'cuz I'm not sure. But I'm still kinda scared! : (."
--Carli, 11

"Erections are like incredibly hard to deal with so why don't you guys get on here and write? I need some advice!"
--Nameless, 12

"Emma 10: It depends when you get your period. Everyone's different. So you will get yours when you are supposed to..."
--BeachBumm88

"I'll have to say your period because you get really moody and another part of puberty that stinks is getting breasts. So yeah that's what I think..."
--Ashlie<3, 12

"The toughest part of puberty is getting your period. Then my voice changes and everything else. I have to share a room with my little sisters Mahkaylah and Shakaylah and that's not comfortable for me..."
--Jahkayhlah, 12

"I have breasts, but I haven't had my period! It's not like that I want my period, just when, and can it happen in school? I don't want to grow up."
--Unknown, 10

"Help puberty crises."
--Damian, 12

"I am an 11 year old girl in sixth grade. Dose anyone think the hardest part of your period is telling your MOM???? I think that was soooooo hard. I ended up sending her an e-mail! And to anyone who wants your period. Really, enjoy being a kid! Because once you get you period, it is not having it that is the hard part. You know like taking care of it. It is know that you have it, and then you feel like you HAVE to be all grown-up. But if you don't have it you can kind of go easy and be grown-up but let it go sometimes too. Wearing a bra and stuff is NOT hard! Really. Sports bras are the best! They are so comfortable! And they make you look smaller! So the hardest part I think is going through everything and being around people who haven't! Or if you are like me and you have a 13 year old brother who doesn't know the first thing about puberty! And he hasn't started yet and you have your period already! Just being around him makes me shutter! And then the other hardest part it telling your Mom you just got your period."
--Madi, 11

"I'm in grade 6 and most the people are girlz like me. Over half of them have developed and I have barley started, like about 5 others and people don't hang out with me except 1. It's hard to not notice me NOT develop. L. O. L. ^__^."
--D0t123, 11

"Starting is hard. I only tell people I trust. I haven't told my parents. I'm 11 and the oldest cousin and I only told the 2nd oldest cousin...And guess what! She started 2! It's really hard to talk about. AAAAAAARRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH! LOL."
--D0t123, 11

"I haven't got my period yet but I cant wait till it happens...Though I'm a little worried. I mean my sister got hers when she was in fifth grade. I'm in fifth grade...But I don't want to grow up just yet, I want to stay a kid!"
--Madison, 11

"Breasts definitely they show through my shirt so bad even with a bra on sometimes I cry boo hoo."
--Anonymous

"Da toughest part bout going thru puberty is da belly aches buh I like it beca it helps me lose weight and when it pains a lot I jus go 2 sleep."
--Akeema

"I sit at this table and half the girls that sit there have huge breasts for our age, and I'm jealous, a lot of guys like me but I cant compare to the size of the other girls breasts and all of my guy friends talk about it, I really want mine to grow faster but I don't know what to do, I heard McDonalds chicken works for hormones but idk and gaining weight helps but that's no good for you. IDK what to do and ahhh."
--Ri, 13

"I think the worst part is your breasts growing, pubic hair, and underarm hair. My breasts are growing and they are very sensitive that's the WORST. Don't be scared to have your period either. Your first time is a light flow and it won't leak through your clothes!"
--Sarah, 12

"Well, lemme see the worst part of it is that period thing omg it smell so much an it's embarrassing because one day I was in school right then I thought I was off so I bleed through my pants and onto the school chair and in less than like 3 days everyone an they momma knew about it yeah but I'm used to it so it didn't bother m much so."
--Dontwannasay, 12

"I have been getting pain below my belly button and been getting stressier I have discharge and I'm like 7 stone and a bit more I think I mite get my period soon an my mum started when she was 11 and I'm 12."
--Mel, 12

"I think it's my period. I haven't had it yet, but I'm scared. On the bright side, my mom told me when she had her period, my grandma took her home and got all sorts of treats and goodies for her. She said she'd do the same for me. It makes me less afraid. Also, my breasts are developing and I have a hard remembering to wear a bra."
--Kitten, 10

"I haven't started puberty yet but I'm totally freaking! I'm starting to have some mood swings...A lot. My BFFs talk about it sometimes. They haven't started it either. Our bones chill after the word "Puberty". Am I ready for puberty? How do I know when I start? So many questions."
--Olivia, 10

"I absolutely HATE acne. It's so embarrassing. : ( Periods stink, too. Ugh...Not fun..."
--Simba11

"For me it is definately the period. When I first got them, I had really bad cramps and had to go home from school at least twice. What made it worse was being unable to tell my mum. I was just too shy about it. Thinking back on it I don't know how I managed without using a pad but in the end my mum found out and was totally ok with it so if anyone is finding it hard to tell her, just do it..."
--Anonymous, 13

"I hate my period. I am embarrassed. I need breasts!"
--Bridget G., 10

"Puberty is very hard an it is also embarrassing. When I told my so call bff I had my period and that I was nervous because I never had it before, she laughed and told everyone. I was so sad and hurt because she even told my crush."
--Mia, 12

"Hmm. Well for me the toughest part woulda probably been mah period...I mean I always seem to get it at like the worst times lol. I mean like last year mah bro made it on an All Star team for baseball, and I got it when we went to our hotel. So like I couldn't swim, because for one thing all the boys were down there lol. And plus I don't wear tampons so yea lol...Periods r pretty easy to take care of. It's just the pain and everything with 'em lol."
--Anonymous, 11

"It isn't that hard because most girls my age R going through the same thing. Talk to your friends. They won't laugh, I promise. Also, the The Care And Keeping Of You book is really helpful. Bras can be annoying..."
--Girl, 12

"When will I start my period?"
--Emma, 10

"I'm 13 and a guy. I feel a little weird sometimes because I get constant erections in school, and it shows a lot, especially when I wear shorts. I really try to make it seem as if I don't, just so I can get it away--Mentally. But, I really am helpless and I have been looking for answers--EVERYWHERE. My parents kinda laughed. Please help!"
--Chris, 13

"My toughest part is wearing a bra and my breasts growing."
--Jen, 12

"I was at basketball practice and I was wondering if anyone had started it, so I asked my friend if she had, and she covered my mouth and said, "Ci". Or however u spell "Yes" in Spanish. She is a big girl. She is tall and kinda chubby, but she is a good friend. And I apologized for bein' nosy and she said that's ok. I asked her that bcuz I have been reading on this sight for a while. And no I haven't had my period yet. Bbye."
--Brentluvr, 10

"OKAY, TO ALL GIRLS WHO ARE FREAKED OUT ABOUT PERIODS! It really isn't that bad after you get used to it’ĶI mean yes, it's annoying and really gross and really a pain’Ķ but you just kind of get used to it and it becomes second nature. Just when you first get it, it's really scary. You'll be thinking this is NOT happening’Ķno way’Ķnot to me. It'll be so whack to think about you yourself actually getting your period. This might be hard, but just do your best to stay cool. If you're at school and it's bleeding through your pants, go to the nurse. Especially if your teacher's a guy- ugh, I got my period in 6th grade and it was during an hour with a guy teacher’Ķ don't tell them you had your period. Just say you need to go to the nurse. Good luck to you. Love ya'll. Muah."
--MALLIEfromtheVALLEY, 13

"My breasts are really sore and I have pubic hair and armpit hair. But my best friend already has breasts and I think I might be a little late. I really want to know when I'll get my period!!"
--Cassie, 11

"Hair. You start 2 wonder if others have it."
--Kim, 11

"I have a lot of hair down there."
--Homer, 13

"It doesn't hurt when having your period. It's just uncomfortable wearing a pad..."
--Vanessa, 13

"I think the hardest part is realizing I can never look and sound like the old me again."
--Me, 13

"I'm a girl and in grade six. This year we'll be taking a course and, well, um, reproduction. Last year it was puberty. In my class there a 12 girls, and 6 of them are developing and the rest are not. I'm in the middle, kind of. My least favorite part is when friends ask you if you've had your period yet or if you've started puberty. It's annoying because that's personal, and not any of the other's business. Do any of you suffer like this?"
--Person, 11

"The toughest part is my feelings. They always change. Once I yell at someone, I regret it after. I talk to my mom and she helps a lot."
--Ada, 11

"I'm 11 and I just started developing, but I have pubic and underarm hair. Will I get my period soon?"
--Cassie, 11

"Seeing smaller friends stare at u."
--Kandell, 12

"When I have a tough time I just think of the Jonas Brothers and I sing all their songs, especially Nick. And I'm calm when I'm about to scream!"
--Rjonas02, 12

"I'm starting to grow hair in my privates and my chest hurts if you bump into me and when I bump into the wall or something. My head hurts and I'm starting to snap at people and I'm getting mad and sad and stuff. Am I starting Puberty?? And I'm homeschooled, so I'm not worried about other girls. Plz tell me!!!! (0. O)."
--Tiara, 10

"Puberty IS scary. I just got my period and wear tampons. My advice is pray. God can help you get through it. I love being a woman. It feels great!!!!!"
--Annie, 11

"I am 12 and a girl, and I'm in 6th grade. All my friends' breasts are already growing, and I'm totally FLAT CHESTED! I bet they already had their periods, too. When will I start?!?"
--Anonymous

"I started developing before most other people my age. I was really embarrassed. But now everyone else has caught up to me. For everyone out there who is developing early, just know that all the others will eventually catch up..."
--Teresa, 11

"Bras itch. Period. All of mine show right through my shirts and (I Think) they are too small. I hate bras."
--Marissa, 11

"I'm in the 7th grade, and almost every girl I know has started her period. I feel like an alien because I haven't. Some girls are even doing bad things already and I'm like, "I haven't even started yet!!" and I got made fun of the other day. And all my friends are like "C's" and I'm an A. She and her boyfriend were making fun of me, her BOYFRIEND even said he felt SORRY for me. Because of genetics, I'M THE ONE THAT HAS TO SUFFER FROM HUMILATION?!?! Uhhhh!"
--Lynn, 12

"Every thing is hard about puberty! Duh, well at least to me it is. The hardest part is the emotional thing! I cry one second, and then, I'm all Happy-Go-Lucky! But, I found out that if you talk and act like a boy, it will be EASIER, NOT EASY, EASIER!"
--Talia, 10

"I'm going through this at a early age and my emotions have changed, I really have to use deodorant, and my chest has changed. But I'm fine with it. Actually, the only thing I don't like is the bra."
--Crystal, 9

"I think having your period is the hardest because you get moody and you can get cramps. I haven't had mine yet, but I have heard about it, and am kind of nervous because I am going through puberty like most girls in my grade. Lol nice "Personal" question (:."
--BeachBumm88

"I think your emotions while going through puberty are tough. I have only experienced breasts. Mine are about a medium to large size for my grade..."
--BusyGirl123

"I'm 14 years old and my breasts are huge, and I've had discharge for about a year now, and I get cramps. Does this mean I am due to start my period soon?"
--Jade

"I have pimples and they are evil!!!! I REALLY HATE PIMPLES! SoMebOdY MaKe ThEm Go Away!!! : (."
--Brenny, 11

"I posted this a couple weeks ago but never got up here so here it is---I really need to start shaving my legs but my mom has no clue! How do I get her to notice without telling her? Or tips on telling her? PLEASE help me!"
--Sarah, 11

"OMG. Today I just turned 10. Omg, I am scared I will start my period. Help! Plz."
--Kaylyn, 10

"The toughest part would have to be hair. It grows everywhere! I learned how to cope by using Nair."
--Cameron hill, 10

"The toughest part of puberty is DEFINITELY periods! I'm 10 and I started at 9. I told my mom right away and everything was okay. I can wear a 34B or a 36B in bras. I feel so weird around my friends sometimes 'cause they are all FLAT!"
--Macy

"When you grow breasts and you go through your period and it's really freaky."
--Brittny, 13

"Puberty: scary. Never know when it might happen that month. I'm a girl."
--Anonymous

"I'm 11 and a boy, and I started puberty kinda early, and I really don't like it. You have hair EVERYWHERE including your private parts. This might only be for guys. I don't know about girls. And sometimes I have been getting erections and they're embarrassing and scary, and I even had a wet dream once. = ( help!"
--Dan, 12

"Hi. I am scared. My private hurts really bad when I ride my bike and sit or walk. What do I do? is it my period? I'm only nine! What am I supposed to do?!? I don't even know if I'm having it. And I have a late b-day so I'm in third grade so I don't know if it's my period! Please HELP!!!!!!!!!!"
--Noor, 9

"Kay, y'all. I know my period is coming, because I see little tiny tiny drops of blood (only one) my breasts are develop (ing). So yeah. Periods aren't supposed to hurt, so I'm not worried."
--Gabby, 10

"How do I know when my period has started?"
--Zoe, 11

"Um, to any girl that had there period: can u tell me what is the age it starts, or around that age? does it hurt? how do I know when I got it?"
--Noname, 9

"Cramps stink!"
--Meagan, 12

"I know I said I would answer YOUR questions but now I have one...I don't know how to ask my mom if I should shave! I get really embarrassed and I am scared to ask. Can anyone help?"
--Sassy

"It's ok to be scared. I know nobody wants to change, but...Well. It's gonna happen!"
--Leslie

"I'm 14 and I haven't got my period yet. I have some pubic hair and arm pit hair. I don't have discharge in my underwear yet, but sometimes I feel damp. I have a big problem too. I'm 14 and for the first time I wet the bed. Is it hormones that are telling me I'm going to have my period soon? please reply back soon..."
--Confused in Iowa

"I just started my period about 3 weeks ago. I was in town with my mate and I was desperate for the toilet soo we went to KFC :) and I noticed blood. I was like okay, well we went into another shop that has the machines where you can get the pads {which are really uncomfy}. And when I got home I changed it with some my mum bought me about a year ago for when it did come. Trust me, it's not scary, but it can be quite uncomfy some days {if you're on heavy}. But the scariest part for me was telling my mum. But eventually I did and she was really understanding and helped me. :)."
--Leigha, 13

"I got my period when I was in the sixth grade. It stunk at first! I hated wearing a pad at school! It felt awkward because none of my friends had started yet! The next year I started to wear tampons, and they are soooo much more comfortable! There great for sports and other things!"
--Junie, 13

"Well I started my period. Sometimes u feel horrible and it's very heavy! Do hormones make u do stuff u don't want to? what are some signs that a guy likes you?"
--Coya, 12

"The hardest part in when your breasts get bigger because in school when you need to change for sports. I have a big chest and some kids don't..."
--Megan, 11

"I'm so small. What should I doooo?!!!"
--LuLu, 13

"I still haven't started my period yet, but I have to get a new bra almost every 2 weeks b/c they keep getting bigger!!! GRR!!!! The other main thing is that I still haven't gotten my period yet and I'm in the 8th grade. My mom got hers when she was 12, but my sister who is 15 still hasn't started hers. I am so confused about everything with cheerleading all the time and not getting enough sleep and all that stuff. I feel like I'm always ticked off for no real reason."
--Anonymous, 13

"Waiting for it to end soon!!!"
--Anonymous, 13

"I have pubic hair and discharge. I live with my dad. When will I start my period?"
--Shay, 11

"Hey I'm 12 years old and I have my period. Yeah, it's stressful but u will get used 2 it. Ok I have a boyfriend and I don't know how 2 tell him I have my period. So here is my advice: go to him hug him and say "Umm...I need you to keep a secret, ok" then u say it. It was kinda weird and dumb to say but the guy will understand and if he reeeaally likes ya. So I WISH ALL the luck I have 4 u girls!!!! Bye."
--Adri, 12

"Well I've been having a headache and going to the bathroom a lot. I mean I have to go all da time...And sometimes my stomach hurts. What could this mean??"
--Ashely

"Not knowing when my period will come. I'm kinda scared."
--Mary, 9

"I'm scared of puberty. What do I do?"
--Casi, 12

"Having my period..."
--Ashley, 9

"I don't like hair growing around my private parts."
--Henry, 10

"Jazmine, 19: I know how u feel. My brother always has to make physical contact with me when we fight and he always aims for my breasts and it does hurt really bad. I am growing hair, get my drift? thought so."
--Brentluvr, 10

"I really want to know when I will get my first period."
--Sabrina, 12

"Well one day I was starting my period and 4 days later my boy friend broke up with me. I cried for4 weeks. It's stress all right. I had to control myself over PMS. Well, bye."
--Lyric smith, 12

"I think the hardest part of Puberty is...Waiting for your periods to start! Everyone is a bit scared but also really wants to start! I know as I am feeling that way at the moment. Don't worry about it though."
--Hannah, 12

"What if I have not hit puberty and all my friends have. I am a boy."
--Mike, 13

"I'm really scared about puberty but I'm not sure if I'm going through it right now. What are some signs? I'm a little bigger than I used to be. I sweat and stink all the time. And I have vaginal discharge."
--Not saying Soz, 10

"(Carlie, 12) You're going to be starting your period soon, I think...I can't remember if I had discharge or not. You kind of lose track after two years...: -P."
--Lee

"Okay I don't usually do this. My mum got her breasts at thirteen and started her period at fourteen. Then she got bigger breasts. Her and my nan n aunt are massive. On my dad's side of the family dey are small and probably started later. Who do I take after?? Later. And Chiqqz it's natural =]. No joke. Just deal with it and you mum is you best friends I confide her in everything. Love you ox''."
--(=, 13

"It just feels kind of weird sometimes."
--Private

"Girls, it's fine. As for signs of periods, there aren't any. I woke up one morning getting ready 4 a baseball game and ohhh’Ķthere it is. You never know..."
--Anonymous, 12

"I had cramps for 4 months in the lower part of my belly button and for some odd reason, I have very weird dreams of having my periods! I know how it feels to wear "Panty liners" because I use to have a false alarm! And yes, I wear a bra."
--Brianne, 11

"My toughest part about this is the period. Especially since I had to have it before the swimming unit in phys. Ed. Ugh. Any help?"
--Nancy, 13

"To u girls out there: when ur breasts grow and have ur period just chill...O when t begin ur period it will be a full weekend. It won't be on a normal schedule. It will come, then come like a month later. But that's normal. In time every 25 days u will get it...And if u need help just go to ur mom. She will understand. Trust me."
--Christie

"Haven't got it yet."
--Way, 12

"2 all you out there who are "Just starting," here's some tips...1. If you need a bra, ask your mom! Or if you don't feel comfortable with asking, just wear a white cami. That's what I did and it's like a sports bra! 2. Cramps and discharge are a sign your period may be on the way. If you discharge is greenish or smelly, you may have an infection. 3. Washing your face with a mild soap every morning and night helps prevent acne. 4. The best razor for learning AND a close, smooth shave is Venus Gillette breeze, (built-in gel bars). By the way, check out this great book with FAQ, tips, and all you need to know about the hard stuff! The care and keeping of you, (a.k.a., the body book for girls) by the American girl books. It has everything! Eating disorders, acne, bras, shaving, period, and lots lots more! : )."
--Sum1, 11

"Having a period isn't that bad really. I think that you should tell your mom that you're getting a period. Just make a promise that you or your mom don't tell your dad because you don't want talk about stuff like that to your dad. I had my period when I was 10 years old. I wear a sport bra. It's a bra that you can just slip on like a tee shirt. I also wear pads for the next period. I shave too."
--Rachael, 11

"My breasts look like they are the smallest thing in the world. I still don't have my period but I have a lot of white stuff. Sorry, that was too personal and gross. Oh, I almost forgot: I am always upset. My emotions change in a quick second."
--Anonymous, 13

"It is that I am in puberty right now and that it hurts when your breasts start growing!"
--Jazmine, 10

"The toughest part is that I have a bigger chest than everyone in all of my classes. The boys in my grade stare, and some in 7th grade, but I'm in 6th. I deal with it by making jokes about it and don't pay attention to boys when I'm talking to them. And they stare at my chest the whole time!"
--Mahlia, 11

"I haven't gone through puberty yet but I am scared to. I think the worst part will be my period."
--Kessy

"The hardest things for me are 4sure the hormones & my periods. Like if I don't feel good my mom will always ask me, "R u on your period?" & my dad doesn't even know & I started over a year ago. It's not fun, but girls here's a tip: when u start one put a small red dot & when it ends put your favorite color, because you're happy it's over. And on the same date next month, plan to wear a pad wherever you're going. It helps a lot!!! {:."
--Roo-roo, 12

"Haven't gotten to puberty yet. Hope I don't start."
--Egirl, 9

"Hi everybody. I'm from New Jersey and I got my period in February. It really stunk but I got used 2 it. So don't worry. Be happy : )."
--Stephanie Z., 12

"During puberty I got really chubby. My mom called it "Solid, " but my brother was teasing me."
--Danielle, 10

"The toughest part is acne. I mean sometimes I get bad breakouts and everyone at school notices, even my teachers. It's like I'm an alien. All they do is stare, tease me, and laugh at me. Even my fiends sometimes ignore me. What I do is try to get through the days till it goes away. I also treat it with pro-active solution..."
--Aly, 13

"Oh my gosh! Calm down dearies. Getting your period, is NO big deal. It may be weird for a while but it's just kind of annoying after it's normal. I asked my friend Hezzy for a tampon, and she gave me one. Things were fine. FOR ALL YOU WHO HAVE IT AND USE PADS. Tampons are WAY better. So much more easy to handle..."
--Sabrina

"Hi. I am having problems at school with discharge. It's so wet and I can't really change my pants. I want 2 wipe in class but I can't. I have tried panty liners. It doesn't work!!! Please help."
--Leah, 11

"How do I know if I'm going to start my period? I've been getting dizzy, and other girls say that they got dizzy a few months before their period."
--Shay, 12

"It's been awhile since I've posted...Still the same emotional stuff and guy stuff. I daydream about him constantly, what do I do? All my friends say that he likes me because he's always giving me attention and talking to me. I feel soo confused. One minute he's talking to me and making me laugh, and the next he wont even look at me. I wish he would just tell me if he likes me. Every time he's talking to another girl (Destiny) I get so jealous, and I know he knows I get jealous too. My BFF Amber told her brother (his best friend is my crush) that I like his best friend, and he said that he knows (not my crush but her brother). Does my crush know too? I'm too confused to put up with this. Should I just give up on him or give him awhile? He's won my heart...But he's breaking it at the same time. PLZ HELP!!"
--Emily, the confused, 11

"Probably remembering to change you pad, tampon, or pantiliner frequently. I'm still wearing pantiliners, and I haven't gotten my period yet."
--Morgan, 10

’ÄúI’Äôm worried if I'll get it in grade 6 bcuz I’Äôm in grade 5 and my bff has it already. And I don’Äôt want it to hurt and I don’Äôt wanna have breasts now.’Äù
--Tina, 11

’ÄúMy breasts are developing and growing fast. And I have bras but I feel shy to ask for more.’Äù
--Christina, 10

’ÄúWhat r signs of periods?’Äù
--Angielica, 12

’ÄúWell, I have been going through puberty for about 3 months. I am always the girl with more acne and bigger breasts, but DON'T let it get to you. Go somewhere and say ’ÄúWow, I’Äôm beautiful!’Äù Just be yourself!’Äù
--Mary, 12

’ÄúI don’Äôt wan 2 wear a bra.’Äù
--Anonymous

’ÄúI HAVEN’ÄôT started my period but since like February (2007) I’Äôve been having cramps/discharge. I started wearing panty liners & I always used to get brown on them. Now recently I've got really bad stomach cramps (underneath belly button), & pains in my hips & back REALLY PAINFUL. I CAN HARDLY WALK, for a day those pains were on both sides now just on my left side. Is that to do with periods? I wear an A cup bra, with growing pains & now I’Äôm getting thick white discharge & clear sticky discharge. I’Äôm really confused & in pain...PLEASE HELP much love xx.’Äù
--Carlie, 12

’ÄúOne time in class I had a period leak. Yeah. Embarrassing. Some girls helped me out and my stepmom brought me some pants.’Äù
--Katie, 13

’ÄúHELP!!!! I don't want breasts or get a period. I just want to stay the way I am now!!!! How do I ask my mom for a bra? How should I react when she starts to give me ’ÄúThe talk"?’Äù
--Janine, 11

’ÄúDo periods ever stop?!?!?!?! I haven’Äôt had mine though.’Äù
--Somebody, 12

’ÄúHi. I am scared. My private hurts really bad when I sit or walk. What do I do? is it my period?’Äù
--Christina, 10

"I have some words to say about puberty: Been there done that. And for all of you girls that are scared, DON'T BE! It is the part of a woman's nature."
--Harmon, 11

"Don't wish your period would come I did and now I hate it. But don't worry it isn't scary at all."
--Anonymous, 12

"Idk. I just turned 11 2 months ago, and I'm not rlly crampy, and in 4 months I'm going to Disney. I don’Äôt want that. GIFT to take with me! I'm not changing at all!!! I don’Äôt think I'm rlly in puberty but I'm not sure."
--Harrypotterfan444, 11

"Girls! Don't be scared of periods! I do it to. I know hair grows in weird places that you don't want it to. But it's okay! It's ok if your mashed potatoes touch with your peas! It's alright! I started my period at school and at 10! And I was scared too! I hate the clear, gooey, stuff that tells you your period is gonna start soon! (Geez, I am all out of breath! ^__^'."
--Harmon, 11

"Have not gotten puberty yet."
--Me, 13

"Wearing a bra."
--Anonymous

"This is really freaky. My breasts are bigger than anyone in my class and I feel really stupid about it."
--Not saying, 11

"The toughest part of going through puberty I would probably is your emotions and what happens down there. Your body then feels like your going through adult experiences. I handle it by just waiting. Even though I have already experienced enough of puberty I make the best of it as I can because these changes can be scary but it’Äôs actually good for your body to experience it and how you understand it. I just understand that it’Äôs good for me in a way and deal with these experiences for tweens like me."
--Miya Danielle, 12

"My period hasn’Äôt started. Everything else did. What's going on?"
--Miranda, 12

"I HATE HATE HATEEE PUBERTY! Haha. When I get my ehm. Period, I get really angry and grumpy. I don't like being rude. I get myself stressed. Lol...Oh and the cramps I get stink : [."
--Judy, 11

"I have not got my period yet. What do I do?"
--Miranda, 12

"Hi it’Äôs me again. This is advice to people: don't worry about puberty. It's a natural thing. Just tell your mum or tell a good mate that already been through puberty or have a chat with any female that you know. Everyone goes through it, (even the boys) so don't think you’Äôre the only person in the world that's been through it. Just relax and try to forget about it. Cya."
--Aireena, 11

"Shana--I don't mean to be rude or mean if what I say sounds like it but...Girl, ur gonna regret saying that SO much when you get ur period and a bigger breast. TRUST ME...I did the same thing. : l."
--Macy

"I don't have cramps or my period but I'm pretty sure that’Äôs the toughest part."
--Annastasia, 12

"I haven't gone through puberty yet, so no hair between the legs or armpits, no boobs and no period."
--Kathryn, 10

"I got my first period 3 months ago. It stinks!!!! Literally!!!!!"
--Maria, 8

"Ok, this might sound a little weird, I am 15, but I haven't gotten my period yet. All of my friends ask if I have but I just tell them no."
--Julia

"I have gone through my period and my friends know and they are cool with it."
--Alexis, 10

"Don't b scared. Everyone goes through it, even guys, just not like periods. But I started when I was 11 and I have big breasts but I love them. But if u have any questions say, "Hey Jazmine...I was wondering’Ķ"."
--Jazmine, 12

"Is there something wrong with me? I want my period. Can you feel it?"
--Alyson, 10

"My mom says I’Äôm probably going to have my period soon but none of the signs are there except sometimes I have hormones. She says and I'm really emotional. And oddly I want my period. AND I heard a couple of times that whenever your mom had it you’Äôll have it sometime close to that age. She said she had hers when she was 11 and I’Äôm turning 11 in 5 months."
--Anonymous, 10

"There's only one thing that really worries me about my period. It's that it will happen at school. I really wouldn’Äôt want to tell any teacher, but especially mine. He’Äôs a guy. AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!"
--Alyson, 10

"Hormones. They make me seem like a brat and I don't mean to. So I take all my anger out on a pillow, so my hormones won't take over me."
--Alaina, 10

"I think it would be having to give up clothes that you really loved and not being able to do the same things you used to do. You think it is very unfair but your body is just going through different changes."
--Adrianna, 9

"I'm scared cause girls make fun of me cause I don't have breasts yet. HELP."
--Megan, 9

"The toughest part of puberty...Id have to say is having your periods, 'cause you don’Äôt know when there going 2 come."
--Aiden, 11

"I really like this really cute guy named Paul. I can't get over him. When he comes near me I want to talk to him but the words don't come out! SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME INPUT ABOUT WHAT TO DO!!!!!"
--Paul luva, 11

"OMG! I have started my period and had it 2 times (skipped 1 month). And I'm wearing a size A36. Puberty is scary..."
--Mouse*:. :, 11

"I was 11 when I got my period. Christmas 2005. The hardest part is the fear of bleeding through your pants. I use thicker pads to help myself. It also stinks when one minute you're comfortable with your breast size and the next minute they grow to be huge. It made me feel uncomfortable but I'm starting to get used to it."
--Babiicakes, 13

"I HATE waiting for it to start. It stinks thinking it might happen soon! I never knew drinking tea could make my breasts grow!"
--Cybrin, 9

"I hit puberty at about the age of nine. That's when I wore my first bra. At first, I was EXTREMELY embarrassed about having people find out that I wore a bra, but now practically ever girl in my class does. I even told my best guy friend I wore a bra and he didn't even care. So, I've gotten used to it. For me, the toughest part is my period. I haven't gotten it yet, but the "Signs" say I will soon. I'm so scared to get my period. (Shivers. ) But the good thing is, my sister, who is 13, still hasn't gotten her period yet (well, I don't think she has) so I probably won't get mine until I'm 13, too. Another annoying thing is crushes...It's causing lots of problems with me and my friends, and boys. And there are also pimples, which bug me. But I wash my face every morning and night..."
--Matthew_hearts, 11

"I told my friend that I liked this boy named Brandon. Then she went and told and he said "Eww." Does that mean he likes you?"
--Stephanie, 10

"Well, over the past few months, I've noticed my breasts are really staring to bud. And I'm starting to develop hair down there. So yeah."
--Tessa, 10

"Getting breasts. I have to wear a bra."
--Colleen, 10

"The hardest part of puberty for me was everything! Getting breasts, starting my period, etc. If you start it is ok. Don't be scared or worried. You're growing up. It's a part of life...Unless you go with Peter Pan to Neverland (where you never grow up)."
--Paige, 13

"The hardest thing is telling ur parents. But just go up to them and tell them. Good luck!!"
--Katie, 12

"It's kinda annoying because when I was in the mall I went to the bathroom and I saw brown stuff in my underpants!!!!"
--Ashley, 10

"I'm only nine but I think I'm starting my period. What shall I do? PLZ HELP ME!!!"
--Kirsty, 9

"It's ok when u start puberty and when u get your period. Remember, u have your mom to help u deal with it. If you're scared, tell your mom anyways. She will be there for u. I have my period and I wear a bra and I told my mom, and she helped me. And don't worry if u get your period at school. That happened to me, and I just told my teacher at the end of that period. And she gave me pads. And by the way, ALWAYS HAVE A CHANGE OF CLOTHES AT SCHOOL (just in case your period starts)."
--Anonymous

"I got my period in my English class. It was horrible. At first I snuck out of the class to the class next door (don't ask how) and I told my friends. They were sorry for me and told me to tell the teacher. So I did. I don't regret it. If you need to tell your teacher, remember they probably went through the same thing and they will remember how it was when they first got it. They'd probably be more then happy to help. I hope this helped you girls who are scared. And remember don't be scared. After a month or two it becomes just another thing."
--Anonymous, 13

"I don't know what's causing it, but it's either my diet plan, depression, or puberty. My mum says it's puberty. My friend says maybe it's the weather. My dad says I'm still reacting with my flu shot. But I made a chart of days when I have mood swings. This is right because my bff has her chart already, so at least I know I'm not the only one developing puberty."
--Amy, 9

"When I go to school I kind of feel different. Some girls already have breasts and haven't even started their period. And it started already and I don't even have a lot like them. Am I different?"
--Cecilia, 13

"Don't worry girls. I started my period when I was 7. How weird. I was so scared. I guess I was an early bloomer."
--Teresa

"It's kinda weird. Puberty has not come in yet for me but it's getting there. I mean if you tell a mate, they ask dumb and annoying questions about it. And it's scary seeing hair all round you. When will my puberty come?????"
--Aireena, 11

"Well, I am 11 and I wear a bra, and I have a little pubic hair, and I get cramps. But my mom doesn't know I'm having cramps. Am I going to have my period?"
--Ashley, 11

"Most of my friends wear bras but I'm so skinny. And I'm older than most of them. I feel out of place. I'm scared to ask my mom if I need one. What should I do? Sum1 help!"
--Sara, 11

"I just started. And it scary I'm scared for my life. I don't know what to do or what's happening. Can somebody fix me or it? Is it too late for me and the other people who are starting? Help!"
--Hannah Montana

"I would say the toughest part is that you think you are the ONLY one going through this. You're definitely not, and if you're the only one in your class with breasts, so be it."
--Peyton, 11

"My friends are having puberty. One girl that I know had puberty when she was 7. Wow!"
--Amy, 9

"Your period. You're never ready 4 it."
--Shilo

"My underwear gets wet but I have no discharge."
--Marissa

"Don't worry about breasts. Everyone gets them eventually. Soon everyone will have them. You just might have started a little early."
--Tassie, 12

"I want to go through puberty soo bad. I want my period and breasts but they haven't developed yet. Ahhhh I'm going insane."
--Shana

"Stephini, 13, have you tried getting rid of pimples with aveno face pads?"
--Anonymous

"I hit puberty really early and I want to tell all you girls it feels weird at first, but it's a factor of life. Everybody will eventually get their periods and hour glass shape."
--Apelina, 12

"You know what's weird? I don't want my period, unlike most girls who haven't had it yet. I don't have my period, but guess what? I have been going through cramps, headaches, stomachaches, hurting breast buds and needing to go to the bathroom more. Does his mean I will get me period soon? I was looking at the Wal-Mart in the mal a few days ago, and there were bras that could have fit me last year! My mom glances at them a few times, and so do I! HELP! I NEED HELP! HELP, WITH MY PERIOD AND TELLING MY MOM I NEED A BRA, JUST HELP!!!!!!"
--Rebecca, 9

"The toughest part is you never know when it is coming. If you just started it, then you are not sure if you have it or not. I deal with it by trying not to think about it."
--Emily, 10

"Well I haven't had my period yet but I'm nervous it's going to be during school!! And if this does happen WHAT DO I SAY!! Please help! P. S. - I have pubic hair, underarm hair, leg hair, b size chest, and I've hit my growth spurt already. When am I going to hit my period?!"
--Victoria, 12

"I'm thirteen and haven't got my period yet but have been getting discharge for a while now. Should I be expecting it or should I not worry?"
--Amanda, 13

"My period."
--Anonymous

"Every girl goes through puberty. My Friend started hers and my cousin did too. So I talked to them about it when I got my period on. So talk to somebody about it. Always wear pads if u are under the age of 12. It is all right. My period stays on about 3 day or 5 days."
--My, 12

"Noor, 12, it's ok if ur not going through puberty. It happens from 8-16 years old. So don't worry. Puberty will come. And if some of your friends are already through puberty, relax. Yours will come soon enough. Hope I helped! : )."
--Hanna, 10

"I'm scared. I'm only ten and I'm starting to develop breasts/periods."
--Grace, 10

"I think the hardest part of puberty is the changing body."
--Kellie, 11

"It's been at least 2 months since I last posted. Still no period. I'M SCARED. I DON'T WANNA GET MY PERIOD!! WHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!"
--Taylor H., 10

"I'm scared."
--Anonymous

"Okay, here are several things: bras are not that bad! You get used to them after awhile. Before your period you usually have mood swings or you get moody. You don't have to tell your friends that you are having your period if you don't want to. Don't freak out. Every single girl has to go through it. You're not alone."
--Jessica, 11

"Well for me is when I get my period and I get bumps on my face...I hate that. It takes like 2weeks to clear out or more. And also the cramps...And having to wear a sweater around my waist just in case..."
--Erika, 12

’ÄúI think puberty is scary...’Äù
--Tia, 11

’ÄúI have started my puberty and boobs are growing, but when do I start my period?’Äù
--Shannon V., 13

’ÄúI’Äôm nervous about my period. But to all those girls who haven't started breasts...IT REALLY HURTS before you start. Nothing to be scared of, just DON’ÄôT TOUCH THEM! If you have any questions post them here ’Äòcause I could probably help. Good luck everyone!!’Äù
--Sassy

’ÄúI haven't had my period yet, but right now I’Äôm going through puberty and I haven't told my mom I have been having cramps. My friend just had hers on Thursday and she said I’Äôm about to have it (Scared and Excited).’Äù
--Hailey, 11

’ÄúOkay, Liz, listen up! It would help me if the things you read are saying that the problem is good or bad. But I think you should GO TELL YOUR MOM AS FAST AS POSSIBLE! I mean, it might just be a rash, but if it isn't, it COULD get worse, and you don't want that to happen. I’Äôm really not sure what else to say, but if anybody has thinks to ask me, feel free to ask, and I MIGHT be able to answer.’Äù
--Go To Girl, 10

’ÄúAll of my friends act like it is no big deal. Will I ever grow? I feel like I am SO SMALL. When will it start?’Äù
--Ashleigh, 11

’ÄúHow many guys answer these questions because some might be wondering what periods are and stuff!????’Äù
--Maddy, 11

’ÄúThe toughest part of going through puberty are my slightly irregular periods (my first few), and the fact that I look fatter than all of the other girls in my school. Plus, they all have curves and everything, but they don't have full breasts. I read all about this and it seems so normal, but it’Äôs not. I can't deal w/ it. It’Äôs just frustrating! I also have a question of my own. 1. Is it ok for a period 2 last over a week? 2. On my 2nd period I found blood on my pad. I haven't had a period since April and now it’Äôs Sept. Is it ok? Or am I getting rid of too much blood? 3. I just skipped a month w/out having any blood show up. I’Äôm relieved, yet I’Äôm worried there might be something wrong w/ my body. PLEASE HELP ME!! I’ÄôM ONLY A CHILD! PLZZ HELP! U ppl r experienced! Help!!!!!! I've done everything an 11-year old can (almost)! Please help!!’Äù
--Kimberly, 11

’ÄúBoyz are the hardest thing to deal with. How do u ask a boy out? I don’Äôt know. I used to be like, ’ÄúI don’Äôt care about boyz.’Äù But now I love ’Äòem!!! I can’Äôt ask them out. I’Äôm scared they’Äôll tell their friends that I asked them out!!! How do u ask them out?’Äù
--Anonymous, 11

’ÄúVoice hasn’Äôt dropped and have just hairs on my private parts. I want my voice to drop.’Äù
--Myles

’ÄúI think the toughest is the hair on your crotch.’Äù
--Katharine, 10

’ÄúPuberty is the worst. I can't eat anything except healthy food without getting a pimple. No more candy. It stinks. Also I have so much hair I had to result to desperate measures by cutting it off. When I get nervous I get pimples too. I used oxy once but it stored hormones up and then when I stopped all my pimples came out and are still going away and they’Äôre from the summer. I can say one thing though that works, use Clearasil clean and clear for 30 days and you'll never get a pimple or any type of acne again. You can find it at Wal-Mart. I used it until I ran out and that wasn't 30 days but for the time I used it I was fine.’Äù
--Jimmy, 11

’ÄúAre you girls getting periods? What do u do?’Äù
--Jenny, 11

’ÄúWhy do we have it? only girls?’Äù
--Doryian, 10

’ÄúMy body is changing. But I want to be tall and have curves (like hips and butt). I don’Äôt know how. Please help me?!? I can't take it anymore.’Äù
--Essence, 13

’ÄúAll girls!!! If you are 8 or 10 you can still get signals of puberty, so don’Äôt worry.’Äù
--Megan, 10

"I just say don't be scared to tell your best friend or your mom or sister about it. At first I was, but then I knew it happened to them too when they were younger. So don't be scared, that's what I say."
--Juli, 10

"I am 12 and am going through puberty. I am getting discharge but my period is not coming. Is this normal?"
--Emily, 12

"Well I was in the 5th grade and I asked my teacher to use the bathroom. When I was in the bathroom I saw that I started my period! I had to tell HIM! And the nurse."
--Suzy, 13

"Amanda, 11 Yeah...That probably means you are...A really good book on puberty is that American Girl Body book, if you feel uncomfortable talking about it with someone you trust. It has everything from how to shave to hair care and periods. It was very helpful for me when I was going through the tough stages of puberty. Hope this helps. : )."
--Me

"Height, of course. I am 5'5 and a half and I am STILL growing! I am almost as tall as my goth boyfriend, like me- we are goth, duh. So sad...He still has to grow too- He is supposed to be about '6 or 5'10, so It's embarrassing to feel like I will be almost 5'8, only a few inches shorter!!! But, there is an upside to a growth spurt- You can reach things, tower over your short parents (!!! ), and have height as an advantage to the kids who have just started getting tall! It's not that bad, but it can be a little annoying..."
--Alexa

"Hi girls. Well I want to start off by saying that we never know when or at what time is everything going to happen. It's just of matter of waiting and a matter of time and hormones. Well anyways I got my period when I was 12 and it's nothing to be embarrassed of. Who cares if others try to make fun of you? every girl has to go through it..."
--Kimberly

"I'm not quite sure I've gone through it yet. I wish I could answer your question, I really do."
--Annie

"--Just_ur_average_gurl, 13- You sound exactly like me...I play sports and have everything you talked about, and just like you I don't have my period yet...I'm almost 14. It is kinda annoying because everyone else has it! My mom said it's because most athletic people get it later. My sister's roommate at college didn't get it until she was 16 because she was athletic."
--Me, 13

"I think the toughest part of puberty is gaining weight. My reason is I have been gaining a lot and all my clothes are not fitting right anymore. I used to weigh 91 and now I weigh 128! I am embarrassed to tell my mom I need new clothes. What do you think I should do? Diet, let it go, tell my mom...Please respond FAST!"
--Jane, 13

"I think the toughest part of going through puberty is the emotional stuff. It really stinks."
--Anonymous

"I think the toughest part is knowing ill be having my period soon. I'm not really that worried because now iv had most of my questions solved, but it's a big step to becoming a woman."
--Rebecca, 10

"Ohhh girls! Please calm down yes? Most of you at the age of 12 or 13 and haven't had your periods yet is very normal! My mum didn't even have hers until she was 16, and I had mine when I was 13. Lols. Well anyway. Relaxxxxx! YOU SHOULD THINK YOU ARE LUCKY NOT TO GET YOUR PERIOD EARLY BECAUSE IT'S VERY PAINFUL AND ANNOYING! TRUST ME, I REGRET IT AND HATE GETTING IT EVEN AT 13. I wish I had it when I was 20. LOLL. Or 19!"
--Jenny

"Groan - the monthly period, I've had it since age 11, the zits, the constant heartbreaks, the emotions. I'm always yelling at my mom or my sisters because of puberty. I'm really sick of it, and emotions are just hormones and should go away, but the periods will be here for life! NOOOOOOOOOO!!!"
--Dorianna

"Oh my god! Of course ( for girls, at least) are the periods! I mean, girls could have it harder, but we have the choice to wear pads, which make us feel wet, tampons, which are impossible to get in, or panty liners, witch also makes us feel wet! TELL ME IF YOU'RE WITH ME GIRLS. WE SHOULD HAVE IT BETTER. Please tell me if I should post more about how girls feel ( at least how my friends feel) about this kind of stuff."
--Talia, 10

"Amanda 11: yes u r going through puberty. You're at the age. From Suzy13."
--Suzy, 13

"Hey, puberty is weird, but hey it eventually finishes and you mature. If our parents and other grown ups went through it and survived, well, so can we."
--Dimitri, 12

"Ok well I have already started my period. And it seems like it stinks, but it doesn't, so don't worry! It's fine. But your chest will grow rapidly. Mine grew 3 sizes in 3 weeks. So, I mean, it's cool. But ya, don't worry. It will be ok!!"
--Sara lee, 8

"Lindsey, 10: when I was in 5th grade, my friends and I were always getting hit there. We called it our cats, and we'd say "You hit my cat!" And bras were cat collars! Anyway, it would hurt really bad, then I stopped hurting after I grew a little, and then now I hurt again and I am growing again. I believe it affects it."
--Polarbearluvr, 12

"My name is, well, Talia, and I used to sign in like that. Now I am going to be Go To Girl. I'm the one who complains about girl stuff. I'm here to help you. You and only you can ask me stuff. I am your Go To Girl! Any advice you can give to your fellow girls is the best! Any advice that you know that I don't, POST IT! And if you don't trust me, you can't trust anyone. Believe me, this is WAY better than any diary ( but it is still okay to have one)! I might be 10 but out of the people I know, I can tell anything about puberty in a split second."
--Go To Girl!, 10

"I'm scared to tell my mom that my puberty is starting!"
--Caroline, 9

"How come I am not going through puberty?"
--Noor, 12

"The most embarrassing part about puberty is, I've got no shape to me. All the guys make fun of me as I'm am quite skinny they often ask if I have a eating disorder or are anorexic - it's not a nice feeling when someone makes assumptions like that, they also make fun of the fact that I have no shape to me, I'm almost flat chested (which is embarrassing) I wear a 14a bra, and have no butt. I think that it is genetic though. It's sad that people judge others by their physical appearance!"
--Bex

"I want my period. I don't want cramps, being moody and sad. I'd even rather have "The talk" with my school nurse, gym teacher, or art teacher."
--Maddy, 11

"PERIOD! Omg! Let me tell you a little about it for the newbies. The first time you get it if you don't know what it is you think you're gonna die from the loss of blood. 2nd, you can't tell it to go away at school. 3rd, They tell you if you're stuck without pads to use toilet paper. It doesn't work if you're in really deep. 4th. I have to wear uniform pants to school, everyone tells you no one can see, but some pants are thin in the back. I'm not trying to scare you, just getting you ready for when it comes."
--Me

"I am going through a middle stage where I go through it with breasts and discharge but the agony of waiting for my first period!"
--Joelle, 13

"I wonder when I will get puberty? My friends and all my peers have it, how come I don't? Why do we get it? Do we have a choice?"
--Mary, 11

"The toughest part about puberty for me is breasts. I deal with it by wearing a bra."
--Katherine K, 11

"Well, I'd have to say the toughest part about puberty is getting breasts. I've had breast buds for about a year and a half now and I really hate it! : p Every time I bump into someone or something chest first it really hurts! All of my of my other friends say I'm flat-chested because 1. I don't wear a bra and 2. You can't really tell if I even have breasts! The way I'm going to get through it is I'm going to start wearing a thin bra that's thin and work my way up to a padded bra and I want people to know if friends are making fun of you hang out with different people or tell that friend how you feel, that's what I'm going to try...: ) )."
--Anonymous, 11

"Ariana 11: Talk to an aunt or grandma or cousin. If you don't have any, try talking to a friend, teacher or someone you trust. You will have to tell your dad sooner or later. Right now save up the money for some pads or tampons! Pads are wayy better to advise you in my opinion, at least for a starter. Tampons are confusing, the first time I used one, was the last time I used one. I didn't know what to do with it! I just use pads now..."
--Justine

"I know about my period and stuff but I have a lot of pimples and don't know how to get rid of it. Please help me!!!!!!!!"
--Stephini, 13

"Ariana: I think you should tell an adult you trust."
--No name

"Katy, that is nothing to worry about, it sometimes happens when blood doesn't flow through them quite as much as it should. It is normal, and nothing to worry about."
--Anonymous

"My period is so annoying!!! But I don't want to scare anyone who hasn't had it. It's annoying, not scary, the first time you get it ( at least that's how it happened for me). I'm also tall, and one of the few girls in my grade with breasts. It's so annoying."
--Dancer_girl, 12

"It doesn't hurt, really, only cramps especially in your back, but just use like a hot water bottle that helps and sometimes you'll go through points when your breasts hurt soooo much!!!"
--Marissa, 13

"I think that the most annoying part of puberty at the beginning stages is get hair on your legs and arm pits. The zits can also be a pain!"
--Katie, 11

"I read all about these conditions involving discharge and itching. I sometime am itchy and I have been getting whitish clear discharge for almost 2 years. I get all worked up and worried that I have these conditions down there and I am too shy to talk to my mom. What should I do?! And how can I talk myself out of thinking I have infections??"
--Liz, 13

"Anybody who is freaking out about this should listen. CALM DOWN!!!!! I'm, come on, it's going to happen if you want it or not. You might not like it, but you can't stop it. So do what I'm doing. 1. Chillax. 2. Learn about it. 3. Just go with the flow."
--Syzer21, 11

"The toughest part of puberty is getting your monthly period. It hurts sometimes and afterwards your face starts to break out in bumps and zits and things like that. I know it's normal to go through it but it can really stink. I handle it by saying "The cramps are almost gone. I can make it. You can do it." the next thing I know the cramps are gone. Girls shouldn't be scared when they first get their period. It's normal. You should be happy and excited, and the same with the guys!!!!!!!!"
--Najia, 10

"I hate the emotions you go through. I mean I like this guy who is 2 years older than me, and 1 minute I feel sorry for him and then the other I hate him. When we went to this camp, we were kind of flirting, then we got into a sort of argument. Anyways it's weird. I hate the emotional stuff!"
--Emily, 11

"I hate puberty. It makes me have to go to the bathroom constantly."
--Lily, 10

"Romantic feelings for sure."
--Judy, 10

" I hate my period! How do I keep it secret?"
--Curious, 11

"I haven't started my period yet."
--Erica, 11

"I am 13 and I haven't started my period yet. I have discharge and my chest have started to grow a bit, I wear a 32a, and I have pubic hair and have hair under my arms. I play a sport. I feel left out because everyone I know in the 8th grade has started their periods. I want to know when I'm gonna get my period. And does it feel like you wet yourself when you do start? also and my so-called best friend had her party at Bush Gardens and didn't even invite me. Well, I unvited her to my party. I think that was rude. Also we have started to grow apart so I don't want to be her friend ’Äòcause she doesn't even talk to me. Anyways I just really want to start my period. I also have been getting a little bit of pimples, but not a lot. I think I am going to be flat chested when I grow up because my mom was. And my 18-year-old sister wears a 36b, but her breasts look bigger than what they really are. Well, someone plz respond &hearts."
--Just_ur_average_gurl, 13

"I'm 13 and I haven't started my period yet. Help me. I'm really scared. The worst part is I get pains."
--Tiffany, 13

"I am 12 and haven't started puberty. Why?"
--Jenna, 12

"Ahhh! I'm 13 and still haven't got that much taller."
--Antoine, 13

"All of it. My mom has talked to me about a little of it but every time she does I get grossed out and run away. And one time I asked her something and she answered. But then she said "You have to be careful because if they hit you in the chest it hurts." and lately it seems like I've been getting hit in the chest. I'm also flat chested do you think that could effect my growth?"
--Lindsey, 10

"Well I am a little shy to talk about it. Everybody keeps talking about puberty and when and how they started and I am getting a little well jealous. To me it is a big deal when my breasts will start growing. I am starting to grow hair under my armpits and in between my legs. Does that mean that I am starting puberty or no? because I have no clue if I am or not. I would really appreciate if you told me."
--Amanda, 11

"I'm really worried about getting my period because it might happen right in the middle of school, in the hallway! What do I do in that situation, and will I ever know when my period comes? I want to be totally prepared for the moment!"
--Lisa, 13

"When you do start to hit puberty, it does hurt. When you get your period you bleed. And you get lots of cramps. When your breasts start to grow it also hurts. And sometimes you get made fun of. But you don't need to worry."
--Amanda, 11

"Well I haven't gotten my period yet, is this normal? I am getting worried. Will it come soon? I hope so."
--Cassie

"Body hair I have body hair growing all over me, in my armpits, down there, on my body (chest) on my arm and on my legs. My dad is also very hairy with hair, but he shaves it so it's hard to tell..."
--Jake

"April: I don't think you should stuff your bra or anything. If people make fun of you just act like you don't know what they are talking about and after a while they should stop. If they don't, ignore them. And f if it still gets to you, think of something bad happening in your head. (It worked for me. )."
--Maddy, 11

"My cousin talked to me about the period thing, but my mom won't. I hate wearing bras. They are so uncomfortable."
--Maddy, 11

"My cousin has cramps so bad she hurls. (gross right! )."
--Maddy, 11

"This is kinda weird but, what if u have blue breasts? I do."
--Katy, 12

"How do I know when I'm growing pit hair?"
--Ben, 13

"I haven't had my period yet but I'm sooooo freaked out to have it. And I have boobs and everything else but not the period! WHEN WILL IT COME?!"
--Too Embarrassed, 11

"Well, changing my pads. One time I asked a friend to bring tampons to school ’Äòcause when I use a pad it trespasses. Can you give me some tips please?"
--Aslin, 11

"How do I know when I am going through puberty?"
--Kaylee, 10

"I hate puberty lol."
--Router (NOT), 12

"Hi IML! Puberty is a really a confusing time, and the toughest part is that my emotions go up and down, and I feel like I'm on a roller coaster, and I can't get off. I'm so busy pursuing new interests, like thinking about boys, and even worse than that I'm less connected to my family. It's like I'm drifting away, learning to be independent and be myself..."
--Promise, 10

"The toughest part about puberty is ACNE! It's embarrassing and everybody laughs at me. I had been called ugly, because I had ACNE. Everybody would run away from me, wont look at me, or wont talk to me at all. This messes up my self-confidence and looks. I am about to change that. I deal with it by using an acne regimen. I follow the directions and use it day and night everyday. You have to keep using it after the acne goes away or it will come back. Talk with a dermatologist or your doctor about your skin to find the product that is right for you. NOTE: Not all acne products work on people. Fight ACNE! Don't let ACNE take over your life."
--Helen

"I have no period : ( and feel like a little kid without. My 13 year old best friends says to "Cut it out, " because it'll be here before I know it and I'll hate it, but I'm not flat chested, have armpit hair, LOTS of pubic...What's up?"
--Anonymous, 11

"I have started my period for about a year now but I haven't told ANYONE. What will I do? I am so so so so so scared. : (: (: ( HELP ME PLEASE. Love you all. Scared x."
--Scared, 13

"What happens when boys start puberty? I think I have started. It is so weird."
--Nick, 13

"Hardest thing is definitely the voice. One minute I sound so cool, like I'm 20 and then the next minute it goes all high and I have my little kid voice again- only even higher. It's like my voice can't decide whether it wants to be low or high and it changes it's mind when I'm in midsentence. It's really pretty embarrassing. And my teacher made me sing 'Somewhere Over The Rainbow' for my entire gym class. It was torture. Heellllpp meeeee."
--Jake, 13

"I'm 13. I have hair under the armpits and in pubic area, I've been developing for 2 years now and I have yellow and white stuff in my underwear for 3 years. I haven't started my period. Could you tell me when am going to? help!"
--Girly, 13

"OMG PLEEASEE PEOPLE HELP ME. Like 2 hours I go, I got my period for the first time. And I live with my dad and my 2 brothers, one is 15 and the other is 8. HEELLP!! I don't have a mom, a sister, ANYYYTHING! I don't know what to do! I can't have the 'talk' with anyone, and I have no one to give me advice or ANYTHING. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M DOOIN WITH THIS! I just put tissue there and we don't have pads obviously, or anything. I'M SOO SCARED."
--Ariana, 11

"I don't want to grow bust or hair. I'm a tomboy."
--Anonymous

"Hey y'all it's me, and the comment that says "Bridett, " that was me. I know how could I have been sooooo stupid in misspelling my own name. Anyway take my advice it helps. I was in a hurry typing ’Äòcause I was leaving to the mall and unusually I look over before sending but I didn't this time soo PEACE OUT!!!!! BE PROUD TO BE A GIRL!!!!"
--Bridgett, 12

"Well, puberty for me is scary, but it is also exciting. It means you are growing to be a real woman or man."
--Julie, 12

"I've never gone through puberty yet. But my friend has. And thrust me she took it pretty harsh."
--Marissa, 10

"I don't like my body."
--Aryanna, 8

"I am going through puberty sooner than all my friends, so I feel really weird about it cuz' they say all these things that don't make me feel good. Like, they talk behind my back about it."
--Jesse, 12

"Puberty is kinda embarrassing. I started getting hair down there at the age of 10. Now I still don’Äôt have breasts but I’Äôm starting to get armpit hair. Today I saw a kinda dried up white thing on the hair down there. HELP!!! What does this mean????"
--Rachel, 12

"Well I think dat the period is the hardest. In fact, I just got off mine yesterday. It's the hardest because the pain. And plus guess what? I started at 11 but when I did start my mom wasn't even at home. She was traveling for her job and the only one there was there was my stepdad. I didn’Äôt know what to do so I had to call my cousin over to help me. And always remember: when you start your period and after it’Äôs ends for the month, u always have to wear a panty liner. Thanks, yours truly."
--Jazmine, 12

"I still don’Äôt have puberty but I will get there soon. Wish me good luck! The worst time getting ur puberty for girls will be the periods! And boys, they would be more into girls a lot way faster!"
--Nikki, 11

"Omigosh I hate getting my period. My first time came during gym class (1st hour) when I was running a half-mile. I felt like I was wetting my pants but then I saw it was reddish brown. I was so embarrassed all day. Also, I have this crush on this guy and I told my best friend and she told everyone. I was so embarrassed. Puberty is all about embarrassing, isn't it?"
--Julia, 12

"I want to talk to my mom about getting a bra bcuz I show through my shirt, but I’Äôm afraid she'll say I’Äôm too young and flat."
--Julia, 11

"The toughest part for me is my period. The cramps hurt sometimes, but after I just get used to it."
--Taylor, 13

"I so totally take it back. Not the puberty is hard part or the opposite sex friends thing. The part about me loving Josh and Caleb and me wondering about James. Me and James are so totally cool. He just missed me. I now write to him whenever I can, and have lots of get-togethers with my friends. And I don’Äôt love Joshua and Caleb G. -I just miss them. I’Äôm going through a tough time right now, and whenever I want to scream and break down, I sing myself "Hold on" by Jonas Brothers. CULTR! PS: Joshua and Caleb G. : If you are reading this, U need to call Katie YOU BUMS! (kidding, kidding. Jeezz)."
--Kasey, 11

"I kinda started it early, I’Äôm just ending it now. But it’Äôs awkward cuz we (my sister and me) live with our dad. She really wouldn't have anyone to have "The talk" with. So before supper one night she asks if we can talk after supper and I just said sure. Then she tells me that she got her period! I’Äôm freaking out and she starts crying. The next day I took her to the sidestore and we got her some pads. Our dad still doesn't know and it’Äôs been half a year (lol)."
--Justine

"Tanika: Girl, if you don't KNOW you have your period then you don't have it. Do ya have red spots in your underwear? if ya don't then for now, you are safe! (lucky you! )."
--Writing_Rox, 12

"I just want to know: does it hurt, or do you feel anything? Does your dad know? Do boys go through puberty, or do they get mad when they go through puberty? What age do you go through puberty?"
--Briana, 9

"Scared of the p word- I don't know what "Old textbook" you read that from, but those numbers sure don't sound right to me. When I was 9 I was just as confused as you are, but you really don't experience those kinds of things until you are like 10 or 11. For me I experienced the emotional stuff around 9 and 10."
--Someone, 13

"The hardest thing for me is having the "MAN TALK" with my dad. He thinks I don't know anything about puberty or sex or anything, when I do! I always freeze up and start to shiver when he brings up the subject, and I always have to act like I’Äôm just now learning these things. I hate it!"
--Andrew, 11

"I think It's hard for girls to go through puberty, but for guys I think it's a whole lot worse! I’Äôm a girl and it's really embarrassing when I’Äôm around guys who smell or have voices that are changing. For girls most of the time you can hide everything that’Äôs going on with yourself, but guys have to like show their changes to the word! But girls’Äô changes are REALLY hard too!"
--Callie, 12

"The toughest part of going through puberty is pimples. Ewww. They get everywhere. Wash your face every morning and night. Try to after you sweat most of the time, and that should help prevent them."
--Chevy, 12

"OMG...I’Äôm reading all of these and I am sooo scared about what’Äôs gonna happen when I have my period or whatever. I’Äôm so not gonna tell my mom. It’Äôs disgusting. I don’Äôt know, omg. There is sooo much stress girls hafta go through : (."
--Victoria, 11

"Hey YO's! And I did that on purpose! Little children’Äôs pimples- clean n'clear products usually do the trick but don't expect results the next day. To make it work wash ur face every day before school, breasts-don’Äôt worry they’Äôll come! I kinda wish that they didn’Äôt take up so much space sometimes...So 'flatties' out there: don’Äôt give up hope and be thankful that every time you get hit 'there' u don’Äôt wince in pain! Long live WEIRDOS!! (I mean who'd want TO be normal and BORING! ) and no, me no a goth-I. E. I actually wear aeropostale! BIG HIPS N' BUTTS PEOPLES- BE PROUD BA-BY!! AT LEAST OUR BACK POCKETS AIN’ÄôT BAGGY!! >o."
--Elianne, 12

"I’Äôm twelve and I’Äôm totally flat-chested! I don't know anyone in my grade who hasn't had their period besides this shortie weird girl who no one hangs out with. I feel weird because it's like everyone is grouping and comparing me with her! And my mom said she didn't get her period until she was 16. I don't want to wait that long! Should I stuff my bra?"
--April, 12

"Face zits."
--Crissy, 11

"I have my period, kind of developed breasts, pubic hair, my hair gets greasy in about an hour or so after a shower, I have armpit hair, and I’Äôm covered in zits, blackheads, AND pimples!!! The only thing I don't have is I don't sweat a lot!!! The worst part is my period, though. I think I've had it for 4 months. I don't know, because I don't know if what I have is it because I haven't been able to tell my mom yet!!!"
--Anonymous, 11

"I haven’Äôt gotten my period yet, but they say it doesn’Äôt hurt. But my boobs are growing. I wear a 32a and I’Äôm growing hair under my legs, not on my armpits. It’Äôs freaky. I don’Äôt want to have my period yet."
--Somegirl, 12

"The toughest part is when I get cramps because when it was that time of the month my mom told me that my cramps should be over with by now. I did not take anything for the pain so during school I had BAD cramps. When I got home I took an aspirin and got on my mom of course, and told her that my period lasted more then a week."
--Carly, 12

"Pimples, zits whatever you call them, they got me and my mom. They are normal. Plus I have BO under the "Pits". I asked my mom to buy some deo but she said I was too young. : (."
--Not telling, 9

"Ughh. Puberty stinks. The worst part for me is hormones, or mood swings. Like one minute ill be just like soo happy and then the next I’Äôm like ready to burst out into tears for no reason! It’Äôs really random. Lol. Taylor - yep, that's puberty all right. And yeah I totally know what you mean about not wanting to talk to your mom or anyone’ĶI feel the same way. It’Äôs so annoying. They want you to feel 'open' with them but they just don't get it! And if you think you’Äôd feel safer and less exposed while wearing a bra, then yes, you should start wearing one. Yeah they're uncomfortable for like the first week or two, but then it seems totally weird without one. Good luck : ]."
--HisGirl101, 13

"My period."
--Caitlin, 9

"Definitely getting your period. I was so excited when I 1st got it, but then it got in the way. One time I leaked and there was a stain on the back of my pants, but some girls in my class helped me out. Don't feel afraid to ask for or accept help when those things happen. Remember, you're not alone!"
--Katie, 12

"To: "Scared of the P word": Bras don't hurt."
--Katie, 12

"I am eleven (boy) but I haven't hit puberty yet, save for leg hair. I have wicked long legs and I’Äôm pretty skinny too. But I still sing higher than some of the girls in my class (I’Äôm a boy). Also, I am 5'3''. Luckily, I only get a little bit of B. O. And only during the summertime..."
--ProudToBeIrish, 11

"Puberty is no fun!!! I’Äôm now getting to the liking guys part! And I have much better things to do!!!"
--Anonymous

"There are soooooo many things! First, pimples. They are annoying! They pop up all over your face and, like, stay there! Another thing is you are so angry, like, all the time. (Boys, don't read the part after these parenthesis) and you need to wear a bra and it's so annoying cause sometimes you forget to wear it! Also your...Things (hint, hint) get so itchy! Ugh!"
--Kitten, 10

"It's pretty cool. I just hate when people think I older than what I am. I’Äôm tall for my age so people think I’Äôm 15 or 16, but I’Äôm 12."
--Kre'Neshia, 12

"I know going though puberty people r supposed to gain weight, but I feel I am gaining too much. Some days I eat the normal amount, 3 servings a day. But on other days I eat like a horse. I will pig out on everything in the house: chips, ice, meat and so on. Then I thought if I stayed in my room on days I feel that way I would not eat so much. I thought it was working until one day. I could not control myself and ate 2 bags of chips, 1 tub of ice cream, a bag of cookies and lots of healthy foods. I went from 123 lbs to 139. HELP ME LOSE WEIGHT!"
--Maggie, 13

"I haven’Äôt gotten my period yet but I probably will because I’Äôm having signs (don’Äôt wanna talk about it). But they hurt badly sometimes they just occur doing class, and it stinks cause it hurts on the inside. I hear that it hurts but you never know how your body will react, cause I mean, just because your friend got cramps doesn’Äôt mean you are gonna have them too. I hear once you get it you grow taller, get thinner, and for girls with big butts we get curves, and that’Äôs good to have. So there’Äôs bright sides and dark sides. Just look on the bright side. Trust me, you’Äôll feel much better. And girls that have had the "Talk": don’Äôt feel uncomfortable. At my school our PE teachers have us watch a video about sex and growing up. So it stinks for me. Be proud to be a girl!!!"
--Bridett, 12

"Well first it’Äôs hard because you can’Äôt be able to like say "Oh we’Äôre the same." we all get our period, but some kids are scared. I talk to my parents and they told me, but I seem to need more of a friend’Äôs help. And I did get my friends help. Now I am able to say I am not scared and I could stand up for anything. I am a strong woman and that is what is right. A period is just a sign of growing up, but that means you will need to act like it. You do have to weigh good weight, not too fat, not too underweight’Ķmiddle. Hope I helped..."
--Nattie, 9

"OHHHHHHHHHH the emotions are totally the worst. I am so emotional for no reason and my mom had "The talk " with me. I was so embarrassed..."
--Nikole, 11

"Pimples, they are so annoying! I mean, they like come up when you don’Äôt want them to and you can keep them away by washing your face every night. And never wear make-up to bed."
--Monica, 12

"I haven’Äôt had puberty yet...But lately I've been growing boobs, Getting hair on my armpits and looking for stains...Is this a sign of puberty? I don’Äôt feel comfortable talking to my mom or ANYONE. Can u tell me? Should I start wearing bras?"
--Taylor, 10

"I haven’Äôt told many of my friends, and the ones I told I wish I didn't tell. They laugh at me and everything."
--HarryPotterReader888, 10

"I hear periods are killer, oh and, because I got a zit ONCE my mom and I started having "The talk" a few days ago. :0 It’Äôs so awkward! She said that my body will "Change" to become a woman. EW! But it’Äôs natural, so I can't do anything, it doesn't bother me much, but it’Äôs the talk that bugs me. She said she’Äôs gonna get me some pads soon just in case! *scream* What to do, I don’Äôt really know. All I know is the talk weirds me out for some reason. My mom said my period is gonna come when I least expect it, AND THAT FREAKS ME OUT MORE!"
--Rebecca, 9

"I'd have to say, Yes sweat is super gross, Yes periods hurt, Yes wearing a bra is annoying, Yes the zits are killer and Yes the extra hair is gross, but the thing that bothers ME is the emotional rollercoaster that you have to ride while in puberty! Like I thought I liked this guy at the beginning of the year (Sept. ) and now it’Äôs October and I pretty much hate the guy! I used to like gym in grade 4 and now I think it’Äôs stupid because of all the running! The thing is, it’Äôs different for most people, but I HATE the new emotions that come with puberty."
--Justine, 11

"I had "The talk" this week while I was home from school ’Äòcuz I didn't feel well. *panic*. I DON’ÄôT WANNNA GROW UP! I know everyone has to do it, but if I get boobs and a period it’Äôs a sign I’Äôm growing up! I have a whole bunch of questions that I wouldn't feel comfortable talking to my mom about! Like, how badly does the period hurt? Will me and my best friend Darryl (she’Äôs my new best friend ’Äòcuz I moved this summer) grow apart this year? Why do there have to be hormones? Do bras really hurt? *scream*. It’Äôs all too much! It says in some old textbook I read in health class that 74% of girls get their period at 9! What If I’Äôm part of the 74%? *sigh*. HELP PLEASE!"
--Scared of the P word, 9

"The hardest thing about going through puberty in my opinion is the hormones. I mean I feel like I’Äôm always liking someone and always sweating! I just wish that I can think about something other than what should I say or do or act towards ------. Also being judged is hard too. Because in my shoes I’Äôm more mature than most, okay. All of the kids in my class. They always get jealous because I can talk to people older and to boys older than me with ease! But he, I get annoyed at my class because all they talk a bout is gossip! He said she said is sooo overrated! Get over yourselves! P. S. No offense! =-]."
--Ana, 12

"I started having my puberty when I was 8 or 7. I was so scared. I wear training bras all the time. Sometimes I think people are staring at me."
--Karisha, 11

"Why am I so suddenly crazy about "You know what?"."
--Mike, 11

"HarryPotter: I thought you said you were wicked tall!! Well, about me, I’Äôm already done with puberty. I've grown all the way and I have my AHEM!!! (Can I say it here? )."
--Hello, 12

"Periods (ok I guess I can say it here) are so annoying for me. I barely get any pain, but the problem is what to do when I have a basketball game!! I've had mine for 2 years."
--Hello, 12

’ÄúI’Äôm 10 years old and I have small breasts. My friends have big ones.’Äù
--Lanaya, 10

’ÄúMy breasts have just budded a teeny bit and they are sensitive (they kinda hurt). I want to wear a bra but I don't know if I should.’Äù
--Katie, 11

’ÄúIt feels a bit weird and painful, but not too much. I feel a bit worried if I don't grow properly but I’Äôm sure I'll be fine with puberty...’Äù
--Nicholas, 10

’ÄúGirls’Äô voices are supposed to get higher. Mine still makes me sound like an evil overlord or something. XDDD Sooo...Um...Other than that, everything has pretty much happened. AND I HATE IT.’Äù
--Courtney, 11

’ÄúI’Äôm so totally embarrassed about the way I look, and middle school is so mean when you talk & I mean talk!!! HELP.’Äù
--Hope, 12

’ÄúTo Jettie, 9, your period doesn’Äôt hurt, it’Äôs just an unwanted experience. Sometimes tampons are uncomfortable at first, which some people may call painful, like me (I’Äôm a drama queen when it comes to pain), but it really doesn’Äôt ’ÄúHurt". If you don’Äôt like tampons, then wear pads. Sometimes you get cramps, bloating, and muscle aches though, which are just effects of your hormones raging thru ur body, so don’Äôt worry, that’Äôs natural. You also get tired and a worn-out feeling when ur on ur period sometimes too...’Äù
--Abbey, 12

"Okay, I’Äôm starting. The toughest part (so far) is friends."
--HermioneFan66

"The toughest part for me is the hair "Down there". Please help!"
--Rachael, 10

"I think the toughest part of puberty is the periods. The pain I went through was not much, but when I was out at the mall, I kept on looking behind me to see if there was a stain, even though I was wearing jeans!! That was what worried me the most. But different girls have different opinions on what they think is the toughest part of puberty, and how they deal with it is up to them. I think you should go to your mum first of all when you feel uncomfortable."
--Izzy, 12

"I haven't had my period yet, but I am wearing bras and shaving, which actually stinks. I hate it when boys just look at me. I feel like they're looking at my breasts, not me. It's really embarrassing. My Grandma is making me carry pads in my book bag at school, JIC, (just in case). My friend Saskia started throwing them around the room once. Total flip-out for me. I hate puberty. When will I start my period anyway??? Taylor H."
--Taylor, 10

"Hiding the fact that you have a crush on a boy that no one else likes."
--Anonymous

"Looking at me standing next to one of my friends, you wouldn't think I was very far into it. I’Äôm shorter than a lot of people in my grade (I’Äôm shrinking!!! ) and I have kind of a high voice. Ahh...I feel so small."
--HarryPotter, 13

"These girls in my class make a big deal of wearing a bra, but now in yr 10 it’Äôs way better!!!!!"
--Sonia

"I started puberty at the beginning of the summer. So far I've gotten the freakishly large arm and leg muscles, BO, hair ALL OVER, and a couple of spasm attacks and hormones. It sometimes is embarrassing, but it has actually made me more popular! Some days I wish it was over already, but it's kinda fun to wake up in the morning and work out and know that you're strong enough to do anything you set your mind to..."
--Andrew, 11

"All of u who want your period but haven't started, better slow your roll! U have 2 shower all day to keep from smelling like a drunk, everything hurts, u have 2 spend all your money on pads & tampons, & u spend all night puking!"
--Lauren, 12

"Underarm odor. Whenever I approach a girl I get nervous about it. Make sure after gym class you put on deo. And if possible take a shower."
--Chad, 11

"I agree Ally. Boys can sometimes stink. It's kinda embarrassing. And why can't there be a divided message board for girls and boys puberty?? it feels weird, posting on message boards where boys can look at girl’Äôs changes and girls can look at boy’Äôs changes. Pretty weird if you ask me."
--Taylor, 10

"Stephanie- Omigosh ppl @ your school do that? That’Äôs so rude! Some guys did that in elementary school, but then the guys got too caught up in their own problems to care."
--Kat, 13

"I haven't gone through puberty yet. Well actually, I kind of am, but it just shows that u r growing. And if someone makes fun of that, then ignore it, because they will go through it too."
--Jea, 10

"Well, my best friend is 13 and he is a grade higher than me. I started changing a few months ago. I was worried, and when I asked him he said he hadn't even start yet! So a few weeks ago I looked "Down there" and there was hair down there and when I felt my upper lip there were little hairs and tiny bumps on my chin (acne)! So when I think about my puberty, I say to myself "I'll teach my friend when he starts!"."
--Tyler, 11

"Yes, I hate everything (not my chest though). I thought my breasts would never be noticeable, but they are, so Im happy. I never want to be flat chested ever again. I look so much better in shirts not empty spaced. I really hate my period ( breakouts ). I wear sweaters around my waist because my friend, when she had hers, it left a stain on her pants, so I dont want that to happen to me (it was really big). But I helped her out. She was really happy to have me there."
--Erika*, 12

"I feel so bad. Im as flat as some cardboard, when my friends are full."
--Anonymous, 11

"Mood swings and PMS. And having a large chest. Like my other female family members, I get stared at a LOT. I hate running now."
--Maddie, 11

"Why do girls get them so early? when I get my period I will be happy and scared at the same time, like, I will plan to cry a little bit. And why does you period hurt?"
--Jettie', 9

"The thing about puberty that I hate is that I have to wear a bra. It is very annoying."
--Elise, 9

’ÄúIt’Äôs all tough. I mean sure, some are tougher than others, but it all evens out.’Äù
--Angel, 11

’ÄúMy period. I just got it, and I hate it. But me and my best friend have it at the same time, so we help each other out. She’Äôs had it longer than me, so it’Äôs nice.’Äù
--Anonymous, 13

’ÄúI wear a bra. Well some boys at my middle school make fun of u if they find out u do, u know. How do I tell them that it’Äôs not a big deal?’Äù
--Stephaine, 12

’ÄúThe-toughest-part-is-that-my-friend-had-her-period-during-class!’Äù
--Sophia, 10

’ÄúEh...I don’Äôt think periods are too bad. Other stuff: don’Äôt care. And even though I’Äôm a girl, I have ta say, I looks a lot harder for da guys. It's weird as a girl ta see guys starting ta go through it. I mean, guys can never tell when ANYTHING like that is gonna happen. With girls: there are subtle signs...’Äù
--Kat, 13

’ÄúI am sooooo scared of getting puberty. I am totally not getting encouraged by you people. But it is a way through life. So I am soon gonna get it, I think. I already have cramps, and mood swings. Plus the B-O. So I am thinking it’Äôs gonna get worse. PS: I am scared to talk to my mom. So I need help.’Äù
--Midnightlight, 9

’ÄúI have discharge and I’Äôm supposed to wear pads, but I always forget. And my breasts are sore, and it really stinks. I don’Äôt know when ill get my period either!!’Äù
--Lauren, 11

’ÄúI am the youngest out of all my sisters and I am the only one that has breasts and wears a bra every day. The middle child is the only one that has a flat chest. It is very sad. There is a girl, and I am jealous that she has bigger ones than me, and I stuff my bras sometimes too.’Äù
--Kassandra, 9

’ÄúUmmm, the period I think will be the worst (don't have it yet). I hate the pimples though, but GO CLEARASIL! The wipe things. Lol.’Äù
--Christina, 10

’ÄúI wore a pad before.’Äù
--K. L, 9

’ÄúI’Äôm thirteen and I haven’Äôt started my period, and I’Äôm completely flat chested. Is this normal?’Äù
--Anonymous, 13

’ÄúPeriods!!!’Äù
--Ally, 9

’ÄúNot knowing when my period will come. I’Äôm kinda scared!’Äù
--Ashlyn, 12

’ÄúIn two months I will be 13 any I haven't had my period, but I want it really bad! I feel so left out!’Äù
--J, 12

"Hi I am Duwaraga. I got my periods when I was 10[that was nearly 2 years ago], and I still regret it. I even have hair under my armpits and under the legs, and I hate it. The worst thing was when I had a ceremony, but it was okay. Try enjoying it. Start using pads instead of tampons. I suppose they will hurt a lot."
--Duwaraga M., 11

"I had my period for 10 days straight. My friend says it's nothing compared to hers. Once, her period lasted a month! Is this normal?"
--Daryl

"I'm 13, close to 14, and have not gotten my period. I feel like the only one who does not have a period that is my age. My mom says athletic people usually don't get it until later, and I am athletic, but still! Is anyone else like this? It's even harder because I skipped a grade so Im in high school and I don't know anyone who does not have it."
--Embarrassed, 13

"The period! I am kind of happy but, the only thing is...How do I tell my mom when I have it? I mean, I am going through puberty, I am wearing a bra, I am going to start shaving and I am going though all of the feelings too...But, how do I tell my mom when I have my period?"
--Courtney, 10

"Periods. Periods. Periods. I don't have one, but I am scared!!!"
--Anonymous

"I have not had my period yet, though I wish I would get it, or never hear of it again! My friend has hers. I'm afraid my little sister will find out about them and talk about them in public. PLEASE HELP!!!"
--Anonymous, 10

"I hope that I get my period soon but, I think periods."
--Anonymous

"I hate my breasts, but I wear a bra. It is a pain when my dad is standing in front of my mom and she says "Rayanna, got a bra on?"."
--Anonymous

"Last year when I was in 7th grade I overheard this cute kid saying "She's cute but not like developed." I automatically knew he was talking about me. And I talked to the kid he was talking to and said it was me, but the cute kid didn't admit it. So being judged about your breast size is really frustrating, but I deal with it by just moving on with life."
--Beth, 13

"As a girl, it's hard and, really you just gotta get through it. But for girls who are just starting, don't sweat it. Just go with the flow and it will all fall into place."
--Mickala, 10

"Hi, I'm David, and I think I just started puberty. I read one thing on puberty. Everything it said is happening to me. How do I know if you-know-what is happening!"
--David, 11

"Well actually, it's harder than it looks like. How I deal with it is like there's a huge math test coming up or something. But there's not only one thing that is tough about puberty. There's other stuff that's tough."
--Lizzie, 10

"Well, for girls, it's definitely getting your period. I got mine about 3 months ago. Let me tell you, it's not that bad! Seriously, I even did cartwheels with it! Nobody can tell!"
--Lila, 12

"I think the hardest part is when you are on your period! I got mine like a year ago, and it really bugs me! Because you mostly can't do anything when you have a period. I always worry."
--Ivette, 11

"The toughest part of going through puberty is not knowing what will come next. It might be your period about to start, your breasts growing, or deciding when it is time to shave your legs. What ever the case is, don't rush it. Someday you will have all of this stuff and you will regret it."
--Tori, 12

"I don't like when I get erections. I feel like everyone could see it."
--Patrick, 10

"Period, or *hair*!"
--Unknown, 11

"I am beginning puberty. My friend is so cool with it, but I feel so embarrassed! How does that feeling go away!"
--Kaitlyn, 10

"Ummmmm, I think the toughest part of puberty has been growing, changing. Oh, and acne! But I wear makeup, and to anyone who battles with acne out there, GET TEA TREE FROM BODY SHOP!!!!! It works SO GOOD! Seriously. Oh, also, I think being 'in the middle' is hard, u know. Not a teen, not a child. I like talking to people when I'm struggling. U should get close to one person. Anyone, whether a friend, or a parent, or a sib. Someone, anyone."
--Chocolatelover, 11

"When I hear about kids having their period at age 9 or younger, it is so sad! IMAGINE THAT! I haven't had mine yet, but it will come soon. Also, I don't know if boys can see most of my grade is having "The change". So ya, I think boys r starting to "Look at us, " but I don't know! STAY YOUNG!!!"
--Hannah, 11

"I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY want puberty." --Anonymous ~~~~~~ Believe me, you don't. Your breasts start to grow, and even though they might make you feel better about yourself, they can hurt like the dickens while they're growing and running. You grow hair in places I shouldn't mention...You have to worry about shaving your legs and pits and whether or not they're all stubbly when you're in a swimsuit. And sweating. You're always layering on the deo. It's aggravating and it stains your clothes. And don't even get me started about periods. UGH. Still looking forward to it!"
--Margie, 13

"Maria, 9: Those are great questions! Really...It's different with everybody. I started growing breasts when I was ten, and I still haven't gotten my period yet. : ( That's ok, though. I'd say the "Breast Fairy" (Tehe, that's what my Mom called it) comes around ages 8-14, and Periods start around ages 9-15. If you get one before or after is ok, too...I'm just guessing. : )."
--Kaylee, 13

"The toughest part for me is my mood swings. I don't want to take it out on my mom, but I do. So usually I just 'kill' my pillow, and then I feel better. Then I fix whatever caused my swing..."
--Grace, 11

"Pressure. I am popular, and I am pressured to do what they want and to be perfect all the time. It's so annoying..."
--Christina, 11

"The PAIN!!! I started early, so it hurts!!!"
--Daniela, 9

"Liking girls is a relatively new thing for me. I have actually had a girlfriend, but we broke up ''cause she hangs out with this five year old who would always make up lies that I kicked him and hit him. Before we broke up we actually did kiss once. Just 2 days ago she said she wanted to kiss me again. But now I am on the lookout for a new girlfriend, so wish me luck!"
--Colin, 13

"I think I'm most scared of getting my period...MY mom and sis both got it in 6th grade, and now I'm in sixth grade, so I'm scared that when it happens it will be at school or something."
--Rybecca, 11

"All the guys at school keep staring at me. I mean, so what if I'm C cup and only 14?? What can I do to make them stop??"
--Emilie

"Hi. My name is Christina and I was just thinking about the hardest part about getting used to body changes such as the period. I know what it's like to have your period because mine came when I was 10. Anyways I just wanted to send this message out to all girls who wish they had their period: spend the time that you have left with no period wisely because let me tell you a little bit about periods they hurt! It hurts a lot! It gives you painful cramps that prevent you from doing anything, and that really stinks! So please, if you don't have your period, be glad, because then you won't have to be worrying about things like, am I stained? Can people see that I wearing a tampon or a pad? When is this pain going to end?! Take advantage of the time you have left! That's all I have to say."
--Christina, 12

"If you're scared about asking to shave, then ask if you can have a bladeless razor or hair removal cream. You can't get cuts and it won't hurt, unlike waxing your legs."
--Maddy, 11

"Acne! Period! Different shoe sizes! Being taller than every boy in the class!?!? I hate all of this but I'll have to deal. All I can do is dream that I'll be short (but not too short!)."
--Rihana, 11

"I hate going through my period. I've pretty much regulated, but once I had it for three weeks. And I hate getting it in the summer. I'm like, when I'm going on vacation, yea I don't have to worry about anything, I'm free, but I can't."
--Veronica, 12

"Puberty can be really tough, all of it can. There's the beginning of liking boys, shaving, and periods. It's all really complicated, and it gets tougher. You'll feel differently about everything! The hardest part for me, was and is my period. Once a month, every month. I'm not gonna lie. It's pretty brutal. Every girl is different, though. Some have it with cramps, headaches, fatigue, bloating, P. M. S., or just a few or only one. Most girls have at LEAST one, though. I DO kind of enjoy P. M. S., though. I'm so mean! Shaving isn't tough for me. It's my usual routine. Emotions can be tricky, but with time you learn to roll with the punches. If you don't already like boys, you will. Trust me, you will. Flirting will become part of the daily routine and "Boyfriends" may become more and more meaningful. Puberty is awful, but not THAT awful. Anyway, it is what it is."
--Bridgette

"I think it is the breasts."
--Kaylyn, 9

"Puberty isn't the most pleasant experience but everyone has to deal with it. If you're a girl you also need to get used to wearing a bra, putting on a bra, and shaving your armpits and other areas as well. Unfortunately as well as affecting you physically it also causes you to have mood swings. I often feel as if nobody will understand me."
--Nicole, 10

"The toughest is the cramps when u start your period, and believe me, it hurts! But now it feels better with Midol. It feels like it was never there."
--Aravia, 11

"I'm not really sure for guys, but for girls, getting your first period. Especially if it's in the summer and you're active. If your friend ask you to go swimming and you don't feel comfortable telling them the real reason, then just say "I don't feel like swimming today. Lets do something else." plus, your first couple times you get your period it usually only lasts about 2 or 3 days!"
--Someone, 11

"Don't feel bad. Everyone has to get it. I started wearing bras when I was in 5th grade, and I'm starting to get hair in my armpits. It's gross and I sweat really bad."
--Lizbeth, 11

"I wear a bra, have major zits, have mood swings like crazy and shave my "pits" (wow. Unplanned rhyming. Lol! ). The shaving is the worst, 'cause my fam talks about it and it is embarrassing. U get used 2 the bra though. The zits r also annoying."
--Jackie, 12

"The toughest for me would be growing the hair in places. It's easy to deal with, though. I just say "Everyone will go through it, so don't worry about it."
--Miriam, 12

"Changing and taking a bath a lot."
--Kemiyah, 10

"Well, it's kinda odd. I have the biggest chest of me and my friends and it stands out. I haven't had my period yet [duhh] and obviously, DO NOT want to, lol. I wear a bra, but that's just part of life, every girl has to at one point. Don't feel bad about it, lol. That's about it."
--Kimberly, 10

"Well I've been busy and I sometimes get so tired I forget about washing my face, so the zits will go away. And so my mother got something that helped a lot from Mary Kay."
--Shannon, 12

"To ANYONE who hasn't really started puberty besides starting to get breasts: You DON'T want to, especially your PERIOD. You might think it would be cool to start, but believe me, it is so NOOOOOOOOOOT fun at all. I think the worst part is the cramps. Now that I started, I dread every month!!!!"
--Amber, 11

"When will I get breasts, and at what age will I get my period?"
--Maria, 9

"Hey. I never got my period, but to all these scared people: getting a period is kinda cool. I mean, sure, it is a little stressful, but still. And don't be embarrassed. Every girl gets one."
--Kristen, 11

"Periods stink. I don't like the feeling."
--Partygirl, 11

"The toughest part for me is one: that I feel like I'm growing up too fast and I don't like it, and two: periods really hurt for me..."
--Holly, 12

"Everything."
--Lilly5210, 13

"Do you feel uncomfortable during your puberty? sometimes I do."
--Brooklynn, 11

"Mood swings. I'll be really mad one second and just fine the next. I'm like, "Omg, I think I'm crazy, " but I live."
--Anonymous

"Feeling like you are the only kid who hasn't started their period!"
--Miranda, 13

"I think having your period is rough, but I'm only 9 so I still have a ways to go."
--No name, 9

"Being a little "Flatter" than my classmates."
--Mangagirl, 10

"I started getting breasts in the third grade and I got sooooooo embarrassed and felt so stupid. I was like, "This isn't happening to anyone else. Something's wrong with me." now I'm wearing bras, and know I'm totally not alone."
--Sportygirl, 10

"It's hard for girls of all ages because you never know when it will happen. It can be hard at first but it gets better when you get to know what's going on. It can be hard for up and moving around all the time. Not just then but even in school. You don't have to always worry about it just be ready for it then you'll be fine. Trust me I'm doing mine right now. At first I was scared but then in a little bit I was ready."
--Sierra, 11

"I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY want puberty."
--Anonymous

"I haven't gotten my period yet, and my mom ALWAYS asks me every day if I got it. It's driving me nuts!"
--Ally, 13

"Being taller than everyone. It makes me feel embarrassed. U shorties r lucky."
--Fritznie, 10

"Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, puberty wasn't that hard on me. I bet the hardest thing so far, is shaving, and deodorant. I like my bra, cuz it makes me comfortable, and I don't have my period yet. And I can't wait to be able to shave my legs, which I can in a couple weeks. : D but whenever I feel sad because I'm not a kid anymore, I read a book. : D."
--Chocolatelover, 11

"I really hate having my period because it really hurts."
--Anila C., 12

"Yeah, I wear a bra, and makeup, and I get some zits here and there. But I haven't gotten my period and I really am hoping that it doesn't come soon! I am sooo nervous that it will happen to me at a bad time and a bad place, you know? I'm in jr. High and I see so many girls that look like they started when they were like 10! I feel like I'm a late starter sometimes. But idk, like they say, everyone starts at diff times. : )."
--BeachBumm88

"I think it's really tough, because you're growing up and you want to take on more responsibility, and you find that you don't respect your parents' rules as much, and they all seem dumb. You get really upset ''cuz you can't do something, and then you get in trouble for it. It's confusing, and you think you know so much more, but you really don't, and because you made a big deal about it, you can't ask for any help. I think one really great fragment of advice is to find a group of friends you're super-comfortable with, and whenever you need advice, they're gonna be there for you..."
--Kayla, 12

"Well, I wear a bra, wear makeup, and shave my underarms. As soon as I turn 12 (next month) I'll shave my legs. I don't have my period, and I'm NOT wanting it. I don't think puberty has affected me much. I think I feel like I need more attention. But other than that, I don't, I don't know. I bet the worst part, has been, probably acne. I don't have it really bad, but pretty bad. I like the bra and makeup part. I don't mind the shave part. I want to and can't wait to shave my legs. But, when I feel bummed about not being young anymore, I like to reed a book. Thanks! Hope this helped!"
--Chocolatelover, 11

"I really want my mom to get me a padded, cup bra!! What should I do? I mean, I like free style, but I really want a real one!"
--Meeeee, 11

"I'm 12 and I've been wanting to shave my legs for so long now, but I just can't bring myself to ask my mum. I've tried I really have but I just end up changing the subject again. So please tell me how I can ask her."
--Rebecca, 12

"Madina: I don't think orange stuff is good. I'd tell my mom."
--Paris, 10

"EVERYTHING! Emotional roller coasters, zits, breasts, periods, and having my mom talk about my body! It's so embarrassing! I also want to cry like all the time..."
--Kaleigh, 11

"You know you're growing up and you'll be separated from your friends. You also feel like your life is going downhill. One of my pet peeves of puberty is when I think I'm too fat or when my nipples show thru my bra or cami."
--Tori, 11

"I hate the word puberty itself. What do I hate most about it? Well...PERIOD!!!! But I have been lucky. I don't get cramps or anything, no mood swings, no bloating, no nothing. It comes unexpectedly. But then the pads are hard to deal with. I don't have any acne, I don't have any problems with bras, and I think I look fine. Well. The bra itches, but I am getting used to it. I don't look out of proportion or anything. I am ok, I guess."
--Analyse, 12

"Periods aren't that bad. Okay, at first when I got mine I cried ''cause I was the only one of my friends that had got it. It didn't hurt at all though. The best part is that I'm very blessed because I have three older sises and they helped me through it. The worst part is trying to hide it from my nieces and nephews because I don't want to get made fun of."
--Chelsey, 12

"I am so embarrassed by my acne...It's all over my face! : (."
--Anonymous, 13

"Rachel- I've been wondering the same thing, but I'm almost too embarrassed to ask. Lol!"
--Kaylee, 13

"Tanika, 11: Yes, having your Dad know all that stuff could be VERY embarrassing! But...Sometimes, there are things that parents have to know. If you have questions about it, though, do you have an aunt, doctor, or someone who you could talk to? That always helps. : )."
--Kaylee, 13

"Probably the hardest thing for me, is that I feel my breasts are too big for my age, and I haven't started my period yet, and almost all my friends have!"
--Knicolle, 13

"It no big deal to me though I got a little surprised when it happened."
--Daniel rules all, 12

"I'm, like, always sometimes cranky and MOOD SWINGS!!!!! It's like soooo stressful."
--Anonymous

"Hair in different places!!"
--Vanessa, 12

"I got mine in 6th grade, and I finally got used 2 it. It sometimes bothers me that ppl r afraid of getting it, becuz it's normal. But even if it bothers u, by the time u get it there will be nothing left for u 2 freak out about."
--Hayden, 13

"When I was in the 3rd grade I started getting breasts, and I was so embarrassed. I just wore big baggy sweaters. And today I went to the bathroom and noticed a red dot on my underwear. I freaked out 'cause I had swimming and my mom was on the phone. My older sister was sleeping. I was NOT gonna tell my dad! So I got a pad and walked out like nothing was wrong. And now I can't wear flats without my feet stinking like nobody's business. I'm the 1st one in my 5th grade class to get it, but u know what? I'm growing up. I know it sounds really weird, but I like the way I look in shirts, and it's fun to go shopping for bras. But the cramps from my period are the worst."
--Anonymous, 11

"Sweating, and using deodorant."
--Jen, 12

"That's an easy 1: my stupid period!! I got my period when I was 11. When I got it I was like "WHAT???" because I thought I was gonna get it when I'm 13. I always hate it because I luv playing sports, but when I have my period it gets kinda hard 2 play sports. Like if I'm playing basketball I can't jump as high. And ur stomach hurts sooo bad!!! But I look on the positive side and say I might of gotten it kinda early but at least it will stop earlier than my friends' periods."
--Someone..., 12

"Sydney! That's my sister's name. Go fig!"
--AZ, 10

"People used this piece of cloth and washed it after their period. People still do in 3rd world countries. It's now referred to as a bumacloth."
--Denise

"Definitely the period. Before I got it, I couldn't wait to get it. Now, it's the one thing I dread every month. Probably because mine lasts a whole week."
--Anonymous, 13

"Having to tell your mom you want to start wearing a bra is the hardest part! So, I just wrote my mom a note...It's a lot less embarrassing!."
--Courtney, 10

"Dear Ka (age 10) : you DON'T want to have puberty!! I thought the SAME thing till I went through it!! Your breasts change, you grow hair in places you DON'T WANNA KNOW, and you have your period on top of the hormones hormones, hormones! For me it was very hard to talk about this stuff to my mom...So, if you are having trouble talking to your mom, write a note!"
--Courtney, 10

"Mood swings for me. Oh, and cramps."
--Norma, 13

"The toughest part is going thru ur period. It is so hard."
--Ariane, 12

"I'd have to say the toughest part of puberty is the whole period thing. Plus, girls go through a lot more than boys."
--Kelsey, 11

"Well, I haven't started my period yet, but I have discharge! And it's gross:0."
--Abigail, 11

"Besides the physical changes, I would say the emotions! You cry, and you don't know why you're crying. Getting annoyed at every little things. Hormones are so stupid sometimes. Luckily I'm pretty much out of that area. : )."
--Pop, 13

"I have PMS, hair and breasts! I haven't told my mom about the PMS though! I'm scared of what she will react like!! Help me. What should I do!"
--Kiara, 9

"The hardest part for me is mood swings. Like today, I woke up and I was in tears because I couldn't find out what I was gonna wear. But now I'm just fine and happy. Is this normal? my mom says it is but I dunno...Sometimes I just wanna scream HHHEEEEEELLLLPPPPPPP!!"
--Emily, 10

"Emotion roller coasters, and zits, and the pep talks when ur parents try to get u to talk about it. I feel comfortable w/ my mom though. So peeps, it's ok to have mood swings! Talk to ur mom/girl relative and ask away! They've all been through what you're just starting."
--Emily, 10

"I'm nearly on my period. I know because the white patches you get, well, I have it. Except mine goes orange sometimes. Should I tell my mum? I am really embarrassed but my best friend knows about it. Does your period hurt (really badly)? have any advice or websites? I really need help DESPERATELY!! THANKS."
--Madina, 11

"My friend is 12 and I am 11, but I already went through puberty. But my friend keeps asking me questions. What do I say?"
--Kari, 11

"Your period, acne, and growing breasts are what are the most toughest parts for me. I deal with my period by being prepared (well, not every time), and by changing a lot. I deal with acne by putting cream on the zit, and also by sometimes popping the zit (I know it'll never work, but still). I deal with the growing breasts part by wearing bras or camis with built-in bras that make me feel comfortable and self-confident."
--Jennifer, 13

"When I got my period I thought it was bad, 'cause I didn't know until my mom told me what it was. It gave me a fright. But now that I have it again and again, I feel a lot more comfortable, and I know what to do."
--Alexa95, 12

"Okay. I actually like the feeling of getting older! I am almost a b cup in bras, and I have my period, and I get A LOT of acne. I am just getting into boys (two like me and stare at me a lot). But I would say the period. I have a terrible period, including cramps, headaches, breast tenderness, and all of those wonderful things. You can imagine it's very enjoyable...Not."
--Lucia, 12

"I am scared to get my period because one of my friends had hers in the lunchroom and everyone laughed at her! And my bff Kassidy has big breasts and I don't. I want bigger breasts because I wanna fit in, 'cause all of my friends have big breasts."
--Brandie, 11

"Me and my friends are going into fifth and we have a plan: that thing for periods, something to take care of zits, and we already have bras. So we are all set for puberty."
--Tiffany, 10

"I'd say that everything that you deal with in puberty is equally hard."
--Tessa, 10

"Ahahaha uhmm...I really am not having issues with it. I kind of don't like how my mom always says, "Oh, puberty is so horrible! Your hormones are on high speed" or whatever. And I'm just like, "Yeeeah, I'm hangin' in there just fine....." And I hate it when parents try to talk to you about, erm, you know. It's like, "Mom, I already KNOW this. I've read books about this when I was 9!!" But yeah. Okaay I'm getting embarrassed buhbye..."
--Rainbow Moshpit, 13

"What if I started puberty and I don't think my friends have?"
--R, 12

"Well a lot of my friends think it's ok, but personally I'd rather like to be a kid again."
--R, 12

"What did people use before they used to have pads and tampons and all this fancy stuff??"
--Rachel

"I think the hardest part is wondering if you are normal. You don't want to talk to someone because they might think you are abnormal."
--Sarah, 13

"Periods. For girls at least! Cramps are the worst but mine usually last a day. I deal with cramps by doing sit-ups or some form of exercise..."
--Izzy, 13

"My greatest fear is my period."
--Meghan, 11

"Having to deal with bras. They can be a pain sometimes, but they can make you feel so grown-up."
--Meg, 9

"The toughest thing about puberty is not developing as fast as other people, and then you get made fun of."
--Kerraisa, 11

"Puberty itself is difficult, but it's natural."
--Adam, 11

"I think I'm about to start my period but I don't know. I've gone through all the stages I know. Like: breast development, vaginal discharge & other stuff. I'm even wearing a bra and panty liners. How much longer 'till I start???"
--Kendall, 12

"The toughest part of going through puberty is...Wellll is...THE PERIOD!!!! I had mine last month and I know it's going to come this mouth. So to all you girls DO’ĶNOT’Ķ WORRY about it."
--Kaylenceyia, 11

"I'd have to say, that for me, the hardest part was/is the emotions. You just get sooo overwhelmed. And also that friends grow apart, but don't worry! You will be glad, because all my old friends, even people who used to be my BEST friends don't seem like the kind of people I would want to be around anymore. I'm much happier with my new friends and my old ones still say hi as we pass in the halls."
--Bri

"For girls who are afraid you will start your period at school and not at home, here are a few tips. 1) DO NOT FREAK OUT!! Freaking out makes everything worse. Just stay calm. 2) put a pad in your backpack and maybe an extra pair of panties just in case. 3) it might be a good idea to tell an adult like a teacher or your school nurse so they can help you with anything you need. And they can call your parents and tell them that it started if they have to (remember don't freak out). Last but definitely not least tip # 4) don't be embarrassed. Everyone has to go through puberty. You can always go to someone you trust like a parent, a teacher or one of your friends. Well I hope the advice helps. L8terz."
--Megan

"Ally 13: Ew. Boys come on here too, and they don't need to know what girls develop when they go through puberty. I'm only 10, and I've started, so, yeah, I know, and don't tell me I don't. *Snapping fingers in a Z formation*."
--Kitten, 10

"Hormones and periods are the hardest. I mostly cope with my cycle and if I have trouble with hormones I ask my mom about it."
--Curlygirl, 11

"Having your period. Dealing with it every day is hard."
--Nicole, 12

"Being really short (3'9) and tiny (76 pounds) when my friends are all bigger than me."
--Paris, 10

"I was the first person in my third grade class to hit puberty. People thought my zits were some strange disease, and when I got my period in fourth grade, most of my friends still didn't even have breasts yet, and I was already a 34AA! It was really humiliating. Most of my friends have their periods now, except for my BFF, and we've all pretty much evened out over the years, so it will all work out in the end."
--Anonymous, 12

"I hated getting my period, because I was the first person in my class to get it. Most of my friends hadn't even had "The Talk" yet when I started. It was really embarrassing, especially when I got really bad cramps at school once and threw up in the nurse's office. Luckily everyone was really nice about it, and no one else found out except my BFF, and she wouldn't tell anyone."
--Katt, 12

"Hair in embarrassing places! My mom won't let me shave either!"
--Ivy, 11

"Cramps are the worst thing about puberty. I normally just roll around on the floor curled in a ball, moaning. Curling up in a ball really helps..."
--Mikhaela, 11

"Well, I think that when girls and guys go through stages in their life. How I deal with it is I talk with my parents and friends. You should too, because you will go through the same thing in your life at some point."
--Shorty

"I get used to it."
--Dale

"I want to HAVE it."
--Ka, 10

"Puberty? I'm scared I just can't do it. Arggg!"
--Alexis, 8

"W3aring a bra w/ colors that show through my shirt."
--Sache't, 10

"Ummm...I'd have to say, the uncomfortableness of it. But to tell you the truth, it wasn't that bad for me."
--Bri

"The toughest part about puberty is when I am in gym class. The strain on my breasts is so bad, because they don't allow the girls to wear any kind of bras!"
--Angel, 11

"Your BFF gets gorgeous and all the guys like her, or when you and your friends develop different interests and you really don't get along as well as before. I think one of the hardest parts would be that you and your friends will grow into all different shapes and sizes; somebody may gain weight as someone else goes pro-ana, some develop or wear makeup before others. There's also the hormones: when you go boy-crazy and your friends DON'T, or when you have totally different opinions on BFs, music, movies, and stuff. The guys you thought you knew also change, and you get really confused about who you like. When you're not exactly LOOKING for a BF, you'll stumble upon a guy you like, and it's just weird. Especially when your moods change and you end up saying something to a friend (especially a guy) and they take it super-serious. It's tough, but you just have to remember we ALL go thru it."
--Kayla, 12

"I don't know what to do. My voice has changed, and I have been needing bigger bras, and I have weird feelings about boys. What should I do??"
--NONAME!, 11

"The toughest part for going through puberty is that most of the time you don't see it coming and it kinda jumps right at you!"
--Rebekah, 11

"I don't know if I have my period or not. And I live with my dad, so I cant ask him. So I don't know how to ask him. HELP ME!!!!"
--Tanika, 11

"I think I might be starting. This is a uncomfortable thing for me to talk about but I really need to let it out, and I just don't know what to do. It started during summer vacation last year. We were in a cabin near Stintion beach when I noticed my first early sign: hair."
--Sydney, 10

"The hardest part of going through puberty is definitely my period. I was soo scared when I got in grade 5. It was during a test. I tried to ask my teacher if I could leave to go to the washroom, but she wouldn't listen. Finally she got the message. Thank God! No, I don't have much trouble with periods..."
--Odette, 12

"For me, it would probably be periods. They stink! I always dread that time of month..."
--Meg

"It stinks!!! It makes me feel strange. I hate it..."
--Unknown, 11

"I'm starting to grow breasts and I think it's kinda exciting. But the toughest thing for me is thinking about something bad that will happen when I have my period, like I'll have it at school..."
--Alicia Ruth, 11

"Acne. But I just use proactiv and it works great."
--Emoni

"Opposite sex friends. The feelings change, and sometimes you don't want it to. Sometimes you like them more. Sometimes you lose them. My advice: talk it out. I need to talk to my guy friends, Josh and Caleb (twins, I really like them: they're so cute and sweet! ) and James (I think he likes me) before the same things happen with my ex-friend, Adrien. I may just yell at James "DUDE! EVERYONE THINKS YOU LIKE ME! DO YOU OR DO YOU NOT WANT TO GO OUT WITH ME? I'M FINE WITH BOTH! I JUST DON'T WANT TO LOSE OUR FRIENDSHIP!" and to Josh and Caleb (I'd have to write) : "Hey, I was wondering what is going on? I want to hang sometime. I haven't heard from you guys. Maybe 13 is just "The age" where you don't want to hang out with a 11 year old girl. Maybe. I love you both. Katie (that's what they know me as)."ANYWAYS, getting back to the point, puberty is hard. Live with it."
--Kasey, 11

"The toughest part is falling on my chest."
--Kayla

"Well I started puberty in the fourth grade. I didn't like it cause that means you're becoming a tween and you're not a kid anymore. So anyway, I think getting your period. Cause you feel uncomfortable around people. So what I do is think to myself "Everyone has it and goes through it, so don't feel like you only go through it." So girls: don't feel weird or uncomfortable. Everyone has to go through it!"
--Unknown, 11

"Um, friends and family, I guess. Especially changing your body. Ugh! I'm no big fan of it, that's for sure."
--Lilly5210, 13

"Hey, like I said’Ķwell I didn't say it, but every one has to deal with it. It'll finish before you know it. I hope!"
--Lilly5210, 13

"I am 11, and I already started my period. It hurts and it stinks. I have breasts too, and they don't bug me. All the kids out there, don't feel like you're the only one. I'm going through it too. Yes, you should be prepared. I wasn't. I wasn't expecting it at 11. Once you get used to it, it's really not that bad. PEACE!!!!"
--Rebecca, 11

"Sometimes it's hard because you don't know if your friends have started. I can trust my BFF Connie because she is 13 and she is the one who gives me tips, but with other people it's kind of hard. You don't know if they will laugh, get fidgety, or run away. Also I hate the thing about emotional changes, which means I'm even more tired cause sometimes I get angry and take it out on all my loved ones. But in All, It's okay!"
--ChileanGirlGery, 11

"For girls: that special thing that happens once a month!"
--DogLover, 11

"The toughest thing is that hair grows on your legs and your privet part. Even when you get your period and your breasts get big."
--Anita, 10

"I think the hardest part about puberty is the whole emotional roller coaster, because sometimes when you are PMSing you say stuff you never intended to. Oh and KHpigs, you sorta do that in other stages of life, too."
--Sarah, 12

"Why do you get so much emotions?"
--Marianna, 9

"Puberty is the most awkward time of your life. It's all pretty tough, but here are a few big things. You'll get zits during puberty, you can count on that. But don't freak out. EVERYONE gets them! When you go to school, you won't be the only person with acne. For girls, you never know when you'll get your period. It's horrible. You're afraid you'll get it and have no idea you even got it, or you'll get it at a bad time, such as in the middle of gym class. And once you do have it, well, it's not fun. You're going to feel really awkward and uncomfortable sometimes. But don't feel bad, everyone else is too! Just make sure to do the most important thing, which is hold on to your friends. They are the main things that get you through puberty. If you rely on your true friends, you'll be able to go through those years a lot more easily."
--Juliet

"I might have to say everything. But it doesn't matter. It's just a natural way of growing up."
--Cj

"For girls, I totally have to say, breasts and periods. I mean, periods hurt me so much and guys snap bra straps! Like really guys, show us a little respect! We go through all these bolder size changes and you guys use them for fun! [: ( --Ally, 13

"Changing...Ugh. Oh, and "The talk" (dun dun dun DUN!! )."
--Y should I tell u?, 10

"The toughest part to me is the breasts. It feels sore when something hits me there. When it is hot and I wear a white shirt, I have to wear an undershirt, and then it feels hot. But I am not ashamed, because it will eventually go away and I am proud to be a women!"
--Angelica, 9

"Hi this is Penguinlover, 10 who turned 11!! The hardest part of going through puberty, I think, is how some friends change and separate. I try to deal with it by trying to understand all the things that are happening."
--Penguinlover, 11

"The toughest part is not knowing if you are going to be taller then everyone one else. It hasn't happened to me, but I am wondering if at one point I will be taller then everyone, because my doctor said that I will have my growth spurt this year..."
--Sarah, 10

"I would say (for girls) the whole menstruation thing. I don't have it...Yet (thank heaven for small favors), but it's only a matter of time--Ugh!"
--Flyindolfin32, 12

"I think it's that you lose friends. The best way you deal is to make new ones, and hopefully you'll become close."
--Kitten, 10

"The toughest part is growing hair in your underarms, because when you buy a shirt, you feel like people could see it."
--Ivy, 10

"Under arm hair and voice."
--12333, 08

"Omg. DEF the periods!!!!!!! How awful! It's the worst thing ever! So gross and uncomfortable! Ewwwwwwwwwwww!"
--Drama_queen, 11

"It's not that bad. Sometimes the emotions can get to me, but other than that it's fine!!"
--Andi, 12

"For me the toughest part is starting ur period, and when ur going to school worrying if ur pad is going to leak through. But I started my puberty when I was 9 or so. I can't remember."
--Norma, 13

"Being an early bloomer. Like wearing bras when all your friends are still...Flat."
--Ally, 11

"Puberty STINKS. Other than that, it's fine with me."
--Alyssa, 13

"I'd have to say the hormones. I mean, there are days when I could cry at any moment, and I have no idea why. I get lots of hugs from my family and just take it easy that day. I talk to my parents, my mom especially. After all, she has been through this before."
--Heather

"ACNE. I hate it, but now I use Proactive. So if you have bad acne, try Proactive. It really works."
--Tokyo's finest

"I don't know, but I'd really like to!"
--Emily, 10

"Hi KHPigs, glad to see ya again! How R ya?"
--Michael

"What's the toughest part of going through puberty? The part where your parents always try and get you to "Talk about it."."
--Raji, 12

Friends, and how you grow apart and some change and all.
--KHpigs, 11

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